Loving the 4th

The 4th of July is a great time for us Americans to pay tribute to our country. It is also a great day for a couple. So invite all your friends over and have a great cookout. Have everyone bring some fireworks to light off that night, if you don't have plans to go to the local fireworks show. Take turns being the host or hostess, one of you doesn't want to be stuck doing all the work so you need to share it. One of you cook and the other makes sure all the quests get served. Finally when it is time for you fireworks show, make sure to seek each other out and enjoy the fireworks together. After all the two of you invited all these people over to share this day with make sure they know it is a team effort between the two of you. Be leaders in the relationship category also and kiss in front of everyone, show them it is okay to be happy and in love.

The Fantasy Game

Here is a little game you can play together using your imagination and fantasy. Erotica and porn will most likely get your blood pumping, however sometimes these types of entertainment are a bid much for us. There are some exceptions but most of the time it is just sex to sex scenes. Erotica too is sometimes a bit to out their for us to just normally ready to each other, again their are exceptions and some great erotica out there.

What I want you two to do is make up your own fantasy's together. You have probably played a game on a trip where each person takes turns making up a story. Well let's do that with erotica or fantasy. Take turns adding bits and pieces to the story to make it sexy and fun. You might get some ideas to try later in the evening also. By doing this you are free to explore how your partner would react to certain situations as they arouse. For example if you would start your story about a sexy woman wearing lingerie you partner could chime in and explain what she was wearing. This might give you a clue into what they would like to see. Another great bit of information is to see if your partner changes the flow of the story. If you begin with oral sex and they quickly change it to standard penis in vagina sex then you might get the hint they like that better then oral sex.

By doing this you get to pick in on your partners fantasies without them having to tell you exactly what they would fantasise about. Most people are a little shy about giving juicy details about their sexual fantasies because they feel they will be judged. This way you can make it silly yet pieces of their true fantasies will slip into the story. Best of all it gets you open and talking about your sex life.

Parent Together

In this day and age of rush rush, hurray up life style we often are left to tend to our offspring alone for long periods on time. It can get tough on one of the partners doing this alone. Most of the time it is due to work schedules or trying to save money on a sitter. What ever the case we all need to make sure we have time when all the family is together and both parents are present to show the child how to be in a relationship. Explain to you children why mommy or daddy is gone and that they are helping support the family. Just make sure you make time to do things together as a family. Go to the zoo, or a little league game and let your children see how a couple is suppose to act. Our children learn from us so show them how a mommy and daddy should act. We hear so many horror stories about what some children go through with parents that are addicted to drugs, drink a lot, or even worse are abusive to their children. Be a role model for you children as parents, and they will grow up to be positive adults, also. Make sure they know that mommy and daddy need alone time as well as time with them. Don't forget the most important part of raising a child together and that is lots of Hugs and Kisses, they are magical and make things a lot better.

For those of you who don't have children, then you can't understand what you are missing. Raising children is tough but so worth it. So if you don't have any children offer to watch your sisters or brothers children. Your siblings will enjoy the free time and you will get a little taste of what having kids is like, plus you can always take them home.

Make love on the opposite end of the bed.

You know how everyone always says they want more adventure in their love making. They want to try new positions and experiences. Well most people are under the impression that the new positions will bring then to a extraordinary climax. This might happen but most of the time the climax is the same it just take a different amount of time to achieve it. Well if you want to do something a little different in the bedroom but you are not a contortionist or into any suspension gadgets, then this little trick my help you our. Most of you make love in a normal position with your head up near the headboard. What I am suggesting is to rotate and put your heads down at the other end. Not only will it seem like a new position you view will be different leading you to believe you are in a different sexual position. Now the bed has four sides and I would suggest taking turns on all four sides. If you go for the woman on top position then you can do the same thing and get different looks at another four positions. It might not matter to some of the guys who just focus on the breast in this position but give it a try. Let me know what you think and how often you rotate your position.

Going Back to School

Going Back to School is a great way to improve yourself.

Staying up Late

You know when you become a couple and you get into your routine sometimes staying up late is not in your relationship. I think you are missing out on several great opportunities by not staying up late. For instance some of the best conversations are held during times when you both would be up later then anyone else. These conversations get deep and bring a couple close and they can be about anything. You can also find some great old movies on during these late nights. Spend the time cuddling or make yourselves some drinks and snacks. If you have children this might be the only way you can get some adult alone time together to talk about things other then cartoons or toys. Another advantage to staying up late is it usually leads to sleeping in together again if you have no children present.

I feel that when you stay up late together you create such a bond. It's like you are the only two people in the world as you talk and rekindle your relationship. I have never had a problem staying up late but I understand some people do. If you are one of these people and know you are going to spend the evening with your partner alone. Take a nap, sometime during the day, because you don't want to miss a chance and having a great night with your lover.

Watch and Learn

Do you want to know how to make your partner sexually happy? Well you need to watch and learn. Ask you partner to masturbate in front of you and study how they get themselves off. Then try to mimic their movements the next time you get a chance. Ask for their input as you try and the results will be amazing. Now if you partner isn't comfortable competing this task you might have to take turns to build up to performing in front of each other. Couples that can mutually masturbate seem to have in general a better sex life then those that don't or are timid about it. So relax and remember you love this person and they want to please you and who better they you to show them how.

Back Hurts

I have moved all day today. I moved beds, dressers, televisions, desks, you name it I moved it. I hope my sweety will give me a back rub. Keep your fingers crossed for me and I will post more tomorrow.