Saturday, February 12, 2011

How to bridge the gap in your sex life.

Treat each other like a sacred god / goddess and true love will flow.
           I think everyone to some extent believes that sex is important to a good strong relationship.  It is something the two of you share that is special and brings you closer together then you get with just a handshake or a kiss.  Yet so many couples today try to make it a turn out the lights and get it over with chore.  It is time to slow down and enjoy this wonderful gift the two of you share.   Making love is the most passionate of dances and requires both partners to put effort into it for full enjoyment.  Start by making sure you have plenty of time for and extended period of intimacy before you start.  Spend time kissing and on foreplay don't just rush into the big ending.  Slowly build your way up to the climax.  Woman usually take a little longer then men to reach this point so put more focus on a female partner in this beginning phase.  Get books learn new techniques and try different positions and toys if you desire.  All this effort will lead to the most glorious intimacy you can have.  So stop just going through the motions and start treating your partner like a god / goddess.  

1 comment :

  1. We love this post. It is so true... people focus so much on the final 5 seconds that they completely miss the point. It devalues the connection that could be occurring, and turns it into a meaningless mechanical act.

    -The Butterfly & The Guitar

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