On this roller coaster we call a relationship we have lots of ups and downs, twists and turns. However the ride does eventually come back to the place where you get in the cars. That is where the love begins and sometimes you have to revisit that place where love first starts. Think back to the time when you were first dating and how excited you were to see each other. Can you go to that place again or did it ever leave. Can you see the person you fell in love with, in their eyes. Obviously we all change as we age and so does our love. Are you letting yours grow or are you still holding on to that first feeling of love. My love for my partner changes and grows a little each and every day. I tell her often that I fall in love with her over again every day. Even on those days where we seem to be distant or not in the best of places, I learn to love in different ways. I am comfortable in the fact that we will have ups and downs like the roller coaster and that for every down there is an up. Loving in times of stress and pain are hard sometimes and sometimes they are the best time to fall deep into that love. Love has a life and an energy of it's own, let it grow.
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