Split Decision

photo from creative commons.

          Sometimes couples are just not going to agree.  This is okay it is what I call a split decision.  Where both partners have their feelings on the subject and neither is right or wrong.  You just agree that you disagree on the subject.  I feel this is one of the biggest relationship boosters as it allow you to be an individual and still share with your partner.  Some of the best conversation I have had with my partner are on this we don't see eye to eye on.  We don't argue about them we have a conversation and express each of your views and thoughts on the subject.  We don't try to say each other just try to get the other one to understand our position and our feelings.  Try it sometime and see how great it feels to have a real deep discussion with your partner, it truly is a blessing.