Set times to talk about the business of your relationship

In any relationship we have to address things like paying bills or deciding on major purchases.  This can be a real downer if it is handled wrong.  For starters never never talk about finances in bed.  Your bed is a sacred place for the two of you don't bring something in that could effect that.  Try setting a time and place for a business meeting each week.  Keep it short and to the point.  Have key elements outlined to talk about and then when the meeting is done so is the talk about finances.  So many arguments start over the relationship finances.  Don't let this happen to your relationship.  Get the info out on the table and then get it off the table.  Financial aspects of your relationship will always be around so don't push them under the rug or talk about them during times you should be enjoying each other.  Set the business meeting time today and stick with it.