Thursday, December 9, 2010

The best gift you can give your partner is your time.

          Have you ever found yourself at the end of the day with no energy or time left for your relationship.  You worked all day or ran the kids around to practices, school, and all other activities.  Maybe you have done housework all day and it gets to the end of the night the kids are in bed and you just want to go to sleep yourself and get rested for the same thing tomorrow.   This is so common for many couples as the struggle to find time to fit their relationship into the mix.  I bet however if you really look at what you do during the day you will find time bandits that could spare you a lot of time.   Start looking around and save time for your partner and your relationship this way.  Do you watch television or play online games during the day?  Then cut them out and save that time for your partner, do you run multiple times around town?  Maybe you could combine your trips to save time.   How about even saving time with the housework by giving the kids incentive to help out by giving them special favors at a later time.  If you relationship is important it is worth finding ways to make time for it.  A dinner out can take as little as an hour, a hour snuggling can be more relaxing then making sure the house is straight and being intimate can help you find a deeper sleep and recharge you batteries not only for your relationship but for the next days hustle and bustle.  Use your time for your relationship as a reward and you will find the time you need.  

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