Friday, December 10, 2010

Don't let lack destroy your relationship.

          Lack of anything is not good.  For example lack of food leads to hunger, lack of exercise leads to being fat, and lack of love leads to feeling lonely.  We need to take a good hard look at what our relationship is lacking.  Is affection missing? then you need to find a way to get more affection in your relationship.  Is trust missing?  Then trust is what you need to make your relationship special.  Is passion missing?  Them the two of you need to find a way to make passion a part of your relationship.  What happens is that when you lack something in your relationship you will seek it out somewhere else.  That is why I feel there are so many relationship doomed.  Instead of searching for a way to find it within our relationship with communication and working together, we look else where when you are not getting what we need.  So today take a good hard look at your relationship and find what is missing.  Go to your partner and express you feelings, ask for their help, ask for what they feel it lacking and work together to build a wonderful combination of a relationship.  You have to give and take to balance your relationship, don't be the one that upsets this balance.  

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