Be your coupleself.

          Yes I know that coupleself is not a word but you do have a  presence as a couple.  You relationship has it own live in the way you interact with each other and they way others view you.  Think about couples you know.  I know a couple that seem to fight all the time yet are as happy as larks in their marriage.  I am sure you know the couple that can't keep their hands off each other and are happy to share it in frond of everyone.  What about the couple that don't seem to be a couple at all.  The problem arrises when you start trying to be a certain couple, when you try to fit a mold or act a certain way to fit in.  You have to let what is at home out for the world to see if you only let your comfort and love out at home then you are keeping the spirit of your coupleself locked away.  The love you have for each other is special and it needs to be shared with the world.  Kids need to see happy couples and they way they interact.  They need to see adults holding hands and being happy together.  They see so much of the negative things that they think it is normal.  Next time you want to shy away from being yourself and letting you love show for each other think again.  Their might be a child watching, it might even be yours, that needs to see that love is possible and it can be fun and exciting even when you get older.   Let your coupleself breath and share it with the world.  The world is  hungry for it.