Using Candle Light as Sexy Decoration

Before the technology of electric lights became available, people use to decorate for Christmas with candles.  We know there is a safety factor that comes with candles that most of us don't want to have to worry about.  However their is something romantic about candle light and the flicker it gives off.  It changes the whole mood of the room.  Companies have figured this out and have created flameless candles where the light is soft and flickers like that of a candle.  So know you can have the best of both worlds.  There is nothing like the flicker of soft candle light that is safe.  I feel sexier already.

One Constant is Change!

We share with you every day about couples.  This youtube clip is to remind (or teach) you that everything changes.  That is the one true constant in this world - impermanence.  Change in our individual lives, change in our relationships, change in the world beyond.

Sexy Challenges Brings the Holiday Cheer

Sexy Challenges does it again with a great new addition to it line of great scenarios for couples.  OOOOhhhh! Christmas Tree will have you celebrating the holidays in a new and exciting way.  Not only will this issue improve your holiday spirit but it will start you improving the intimacy in your relationship. However don't stop there Sexy Challenges has several other issues to help out in your intimate life.  Click the link below and check out the selection for the Amazon Kindle, Barnes & Noble Nook, and on iTune as well as a print version.  

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Spirituality, God & Science

Brian Setzer a Great Christmas Musician

Brian Setzer is one of my very favorite artists to listen to at Christmas time.  He breaks away from the soft and mellow sounds of normal Christmas Carols and rocks out with them.  One of my all time favorites is his duet with Ann Margret on Baby it's Cold Outside.   Play a copy of that to get things heated up during the holiday season.  

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For God's Sake Don't Do That!!

Have you ever encountered people who want to rush off to another country because "those poor people don't know who God is!"?  They want to go on "missions" to "save those poor people!"  Really!!!!!  Usually I am a person filled with love, compassion, and respect for others, but when people believe their way is the only way and that all others will perish if not saved, I feel a bile rise in my throat.

How is it that people can believe themselves to be loving, non-judgemental, and spreading (their) God's "word" when they believe that others must follow their religion or else.  They believe that their "God", their "religion" is the only way.  These are the people that I truly feel sad for -- not the native peoples of those foreign countries that "don't know Christianity's God" or so many others who have different traditions and follow different religions. 

The important thing is to feel a connection to your spirituality - however that works for you!!!  We are spiritual beings having a human experience.  The Divine presence, the Universe, God, the Supreme Being, the collective unconscious, the Higher Power, etc. does not punish.  It/he/she/they are PURE LOVE....which includes the beauty of our world and nature's magnificent power - yes, that includes tsunamis too.  We still feel sadness for those who suffer and we should most certainly be there for them and help them, but don't blame God or Mother Nature or anything else.  This is life....live it, experience it, learn from it, and open your heart to your spiritual connection.  There are as many paths to enlightenment, nirvana, Home, Heaven, etc. as their are souls.  

Smile today and feel the love of All and for All!   

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Confetti Kisses Gives You Two Ways To Connect

The Sexy Challenge Confetti Kisses comes with a special bonus Sexy Challenge, Message in a Bottle.  Take some time from you holiday shopping to spend a few moments with your lover.  

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