How to Select the Right Lingerie for Your Body Type (and Actually Feel Amazing in It)

 

How to Select the Right Lingerie for Your Body Type

(and Actually Feel Amazing in It)

Let’s be honest—lingerie shopping can be equal parts thrilling and terrifying. Between the lace, straps, bows, and barely-there bits, it’s easy to feel like you’ve stepped into a sexy jungle without a map. But here’s the truth: the right lingerie isn’t about squeezing yourself into a trend—it’s about highlighting what you love about your body and feeling confident as hell while doing it.

Whether you're dressing up for a partner, yourself (highly recommended), or a spontaneous strut around the house with wine and Beyoncé playing in the background, here’s how to choose the right lingerie for your body type—with zero shame, all celebration.

🔥 Step 1: Know Your Body, Love Your Shape

Before diving into silk and lace, take a moment to appreciate the beautiful body you’ve got. This isn’t about labeling yourself—it's about understanding your curves, lines, and what makes you feel hot.

Here’s a quick guide to common body types (but remember, bodies are wonderfully diverse):

• Hourglass – Balanced bust and hips with a defined waist

• Pear – Hips are wider than the bust

• Apple – Fuller midsection, often with slimmer legs

• Athletic – More straight or muscular shape

• Petite – Shorter stature, more compact frame

• Plus Size – Full-bodied and fabulous (can be any shape above too!)

💃 Hourglass Figure

Best styles:

• Corsets and bustiers – Accentuate your curves and cinch the waist

• High-waisted sets – Highlight that waist and smooth your silhouette

• Wrap robes and chemises – Flow over your figure without hiding it

Hot tip: Look for structured bras with good support to lift the bust while letting your hips shine.

🍑 Pear-Shaped

Best styles:

• Babydolls – Flow away from the hips while showing off the bust

• Push-up bras or plunge necklines – Draw attention upward

• Lingerie with eye-catching tops and darker bottoms – Classic contrast magic

Hot tip: Embrace strappy or halter-style tops that frame your shoulders and add balance.

🍏 Apple-Shaped

Best styles:

• Empire-waist chemises – Snug under the bust and flowy over the tummy

• Teddy-style lingerie – Offers structure and curves in all the right places

• Deep V-necks – Create length and draw the eye down

Hot tip: Skip anything that cuts directly across the waist. Let the lines flow.

🏋️ Athletic Builds

Best styles:

• Lace bralettes and cheeky bottoms – Add softness and shape

• Cutouts and strappy designs – Create curves and drama

• Plunge or balconette bras – Lift and define

Hot tip: Play with textures—lace, mesh, satin—to bring a feminine edge to a stronger frame.

🧁 Petite Frames

Best styles:

• Triangle bras and minimalistic sets – Avoid overwhelming your frame

• Vertical lines and high-cut panties – Add height and lengthen legs

• Bodysuits with cutouts – Flatter a smaller stature while creating shape

Hot tip: Try lingerie with adjustable straps and stretch fabrics for a snug, comfy fit.

💖 Plus Size Beauties

Best styles:

• Underwire bras and supportive bustiers – Lift, shape, and empower

• Teddies and bodysuits with mesh panels – Hug in all the right places

• Garters and high-waisted panties – Channel old-school glamour

Hot tip: Don’t shy away from bold colors or sheer styles. Confidence is the real secret weapon.

👙 Bonus: Fabric, Fit, and Feel

• Fabric matters. Choose what feels good on your skin—whether it’s lace, silk, cotton, or mesh.

• Fit is everything. If it’s digging, pinching, or falling off—ditch it. The right size transforms how you feel.

• Comfort is sexy. You don’t have to suffer to look hot. If you’re comfortable, you'll glow.

🛍️ Shop Smart, Feel Smokin’

• Know your measurements (not just your “usual” size—take the time to measure bust, waist, and hips).

• Try different styles. Step out of your comfort zone, but also don’t force a trend that doesn’t speak to you.

• Ask for help. Boutique attendants can be lingerie wizards—don't be shy!

• Shop for you. Whether you’re buying it for date night or a solo confidence boost, you deserve to feel fabulous.

✨ Sexy Is a State of Mind

The right lingerie doesn’t transform your body—it celebrates it. So go ahead, pick that piece that makes you do a double take in the mirror. Twirl in your living room. Take a selfie for no one but you. This is your body, your moment, your sexy.

Because when you wear lingerie that loves your body back, the real glow-up begins—from the inside out.

  

 

Dark Necessities, Army of Me and soon to be released: Everything's Not Lost

Dark Necessities:

A Psychospiritual Guide To Life And

The Living (Its A Kind Of Magik Book 1)

Our continuing disconnect between our bodies and our souls has not gone unnoticed. Some of us have been quietly observing, taking notes and finding patterns.

You… the social chameleons, the ‘deep’ ones. You who feel energised in the deep and esoteric. You who feel your way through this life. You are not alone…

An honest and deep dive into an intuitive's perspective of the state of humanity on Earth in 2025; How journeying into the Shadow side of our selves has been replaced by fear and spiritual bypassing.

We have been weakened by external fear with a desire to ‘fit in’. Now more than ever, we need to regain our power as individuals to truly understand how connected we all are.

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Army Of Me (Its A Kind Of Magik Book 2)

A blend of Irish and Norse wisdom from a Druidic Sorcerer carefully cultivated into poetic words.

If you wish to awaken your soul this will sooth you. If you wish to quieten your mind then it will trigger your ego and send you further on your journey to re-awaken and this time stay awake.

The time for death, forced memory loss and unwanted reincarnation is rising. Some evil cycles were made to be broken. Their reign is coming to an end and you can feel it.

Shine your light, now is not the time to turn the other cheek.

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A trilogy, Dark Necessities, Army of Me and soon to be released: Everything's Not Lost. All of which are famous songs by chilli peppers, Bjork and Coldplay. They are psycho-spiritual philosophical guides. They are funny, sad, inspiring, uplifting, light and deep. All the feels and all of my true being inside of them. These three books are honest and real.

Paranormal Hot Spots in the Dallas/Fort Worth Area

 

Paranormal Hot Spots in the

Dallas/Fort Worth Area

(Where the ghosts are friendly… mostly.)

They say everything’s bigger in Texas—including the ghost stories. Whether you believe in the paranormal or just like a little spooky seasoning on your travel plans, the Dallas/Fort Worth area is home to some serious supernatural swagger. From haunted hotels to theaters with more drama off-stage than on, DFW is the perfect stomping ground for ghost hunters, thrill seekers, or people who just want to scream into the night and pretend it was “the wind.”

Here are some of the top paranormal hot spots in the area—grab your EMF reader and your bravest buddy.

👻 The Adolphus Hotel – Dallas

Let’s kick it off with classic ghostly glamour. This historic downtown hotel is as fancy as it is phantasm-filled. Guests have reported hearing big-band music playing in empty ballrooms and ghostly apparitions floating through the 19th floor.

Rumor has it a bride-to-be was jilted here and now really overstays her welcome. Word of advice: if you hear wedding music but no wedding? Don’t RSVP.

🎭 The Majestic Theatre – Dallas

A beautiful venue with ornate decor and just a touch of the beyond. Employees and performers have seen lights flickering, unexplained shadows, and ghostly figures in the audience. And no, those aren’t just critics.

If you feel someone brush against you during the show and there’s no one in the seat next to you… clap anyway. Ghosts appreciate a good performance too.

🪦 Oakwood Cemetery – Fort Worth

If you’re looking for restless spirits, cemeteries are like the paranormal buffet—and Oakwood’s been around since 1879. Visitors have reported cold spots, ghostly whispers, and figures wandering among the gravestones. Also, you might meet a cowboy who doesn’t blink. Just smile politely and back away slowly.

Bring your camera. Ghosts here love photobombing.

🏨 Miss Molly’s Hotel – Fort Worth

Want to sleep in a haunted room? At Miss Molly’s, you might not be sleeping much. This former bordello-turned-bed-and-breakfast is famous for its ghost sightings. Room 4 is reportedly the spookiest, with tales of moving objects, phantom perfumes, and full-bodied apparitions who just really want to hang out.

They won’t fold your towels, but they might rearrange your suitcase.

🍻 The White Elephant Saloon – Fort Worth

This bar in the Stockyards has all the essentials: cold beer, live music, and… cowboys from the afterlife? Yep. Staff and patrons have spotted ghostly cowboys hanging out near the piano. Some say they hear boots on the wooden floor when the place is empty.

Whether it's the spirits in your drink or the ones hanging around, this is one heck of a happy hour.

🧸 Six Flags Over Texas – Arlington

You expected roller coasters, but did you expect ghost coasters? (Yes, I went there.) Employees have reported strange occurrences, especially in the "Texas" section, where rides occasionally malfunction in very eerie ways. There's even talk of a little girl ghost named Annie who loves to play pranks.

She doesn’t scream on the rides—just giggles. That's somehow worse.

🏢 Sons of Hermann Hall – Dallas

One of the oldest buildings in Dallas, this fraternal hall has been the site of concerts, weddings, and possibly ghost parties. Reports include doors slamming, footsteps on empty floors, and one ghost who apparently really enjoys two-stepping.

Ghosts—they’ve got rhythm too.

Paranormal… or Just Texan?

Whether you’re a true believer or just enjoy a good campfire story, the DFW area has some fantastically freaky places that are worth a visit. Ghosts, it turns out, love a place with good history, strong drinks, and an occasional honky-tonk playlist.

So next time you’re in Dallas or Fort Worth, don’t just look for restaurants and museums—look for flickering lights, chilly breezes, and that feeling you’re being watched.

(Pro tip: if something touches you and you’re alone, it’s either paranormal or it’s time to stop watching horror movies at 2am.) 

Magick: From Chaos to Clarity

  

Magick Is Not a Myth—It’s the Energy You’re Already Using

Magick: From Chaos to Clarity is a powerful invitation to recognize what has always been flowing through you. Magick is not rare, distant, or reserved for ancient stories—it is happening constantly, created by billions of people every day, often without awareness. This book exists to pull that energy out of chaos and into clarity, helping you understand how magick actually works and, more importantly, how you are already using it. And yes, the “k” matters. Magic without it is illusion. Magick with a “k” is creation—the conscious shaping of energy to bring good into your life, your relationships, and the world itself.

Inside these pages, you’ll learn how to create, direct, and share magick intentionally, whether working alone, with small groups, large communities, or even on a global scale. The book explores the deep connection between love and magick, revealing how intelligent and responsive this energy truly is. You’ll begin to see how thoughts, intentions, emotions, and actions all combine into a living metaphysical practice—one you’ve been participating in your entire life. What changes is not your ability to create magick, but your awareness of how effortlessly you already do it and how much more powerful it becomes once you understand it.

By the time you finish Magick: From Chaos to Clarity, your perception of energy, intention, and possibility will be forever shifted. Magick is the most unlimited resource we have—there is no shortage, no competition, and no ceiling to what humans can create together. This book teaches you how to recognize, refine, and consciously use the magick you are already generating, turning everyday existence into an intentional metaphysical practice. As a bonus, you’ll also gain access to a free class on Happiness Notes, showing you how to spread magick through simple, powerful acts that brighten lives one person at a time. The myths of magick may start to look less like fantasy—and more like forgotten truths. Are you ready to step into clarity and change your life from the inside out? 

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Magick: From Chaos to Clarity

on Amazon / Kindle / Kindle Unlimited 

The Couples Savings Plan: Love, Save, and Grow Together 💑💰

    

The Couples Savings Plan: Love, Save, and Grow Together 💑💰

A Relationship-Powered Guide to Money, Abundance, and Financial Harmony

Money is one of the biggest stressors in relationships—but it doesn’t have to be. The Couples Savings Plan: Love, Save and Grow Together by Rob Alex, Ph.D. flips the script on finances and turns saving money into a shared mission of connection, abundance, and growth.

This powerful relationship finance book blends practical money strategies, relationship communication, and metaphysical principles like the Law of Attraction, manifesting abundance, and money energy awareness. The result? A holistic, easy-to-follow roadmap for couples who want to build financial stability without sacrificing love, intimacy, or joy.

Why Couples Are Loving This Book

Whether you’re newly dating, married, or rebuilding after financial hardship, The Couples Savings Plan helps couples:

• Create realistic savings goals and build a clear financial plan

• Improve money communication in relationships

• Develop healthy spending habits and increase income streams

• Balance saving money with enjoying life together

• Heal emotional blocks around money

• Understand the energetic relationship between money and mindset

• Stay aligned when facing financial stress or setbacks

Rob Alex draws from his own journey of overcoming debt after divorce, making this book relatable, motivational, and deeply practical. It’s part personal finance guide, part relationship growth book, and part manifestation manual for couples.

Financial Growth Without Killing the Romance

Unlike traditional money books, this one understands that finances aren’t just numbers—they’re emotional, energetic, and deeply relational. The Couples Savings Plan teaches couples how to save money together, grow wealth together, and strengthen intimacy through teamwork, turning budgeting into bonding instead of bickering.

If you’re looking for:

• A couples finance book

• A money mindset guide

• A relationship growth book

• A manifestation and abundance guide for couples

…this one hits all the sweet spots.

👉 Available now on Amazon, Kindle, and Kindle Unlimited.
If you and your partner are ready to stop fighting about money and start building abundance together, The Couples Savings Plan is your next must-read.

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Music Wars: Digital vs. CDs vs. Vinyl – Which Format Hits the Right Note?

 

Music Wars: Digital vs. CDs vs. Vinyl –

Which Format Hits the Right Note?

Let’s settle this once and for all (or at least until the next trend rolls in like a TikTok sea shanty): which music format reigns supreme? Are you a slick digital streamer, a loyal CD collector, or a vinyl romantic who swears your record player "just sounds warmer"?

Spoiler alert: there's no wrong way to enjoy music… unless you're that guy blasting dubstep on a park bench at 7am.

🎧 Digital: Convenience in Your Pocket (and Maybe Up Your Nose)

Let’s be real—digital music is like that friend who always shows up on time and knows all the lyrics. It’s reliable, fast, and fits right in your pocket (alongside 8,000 other songs, 32 podcasts, and one weird meditation app you downloaded but never used).

Pros:

• Instant access to millions of songs

• Curated playlists for every mood, even "Tuesday at 2:37pm mild existential crisis"

• No storage space needed unless you count emotional baggage

Cons:

• Internet required (good luck streaming your ‘Chill Lo-Fi Vibes’ in the middle of a forest)

• Algorithmic judgment: You listen to one 90s boy band song and now it's Backstreet Boys Essentials forever

Still, digital reigns in terms of ease and mobility. It’s the king of convenience, and let’s face it, “I carry my entire music library in my pants” has a nice ring to it.

💿 CDs: The Forgotten Middle Child of Music

Once upon a time, these shiny, spinning discs ruled our glove compartments and cluttered our bedroom shelves. CDs offered the perfect mix of quality and portability, assuming you had a Discman and a steady hand (no bumps, please).

Pros:

• High audio quality (if you're into that sort of thing)

• Tangible liner notes and cover art you can actually hold

• You can gift them without just emailing someone a link (how romantic!)

Cons:

• Easily scratched by things like car keys, sand, and betrayal

• No shuffle button unless you had a fancy player—and even then, it was chaos

• Remember burning CDs? Yeah, so does your old laptop with the tray drawer

CDs are the middle ground: nostalgic, a little dated, but still surprisingly reliable. Like flip phones, but with better soundtracks.

🎶 Vinyl: For the Audiophile With a Hip Soul (and Probably a Beard)

Vinyl isn’t just music. It’s an experience. From the satisfying crackle before the first note to flipping the record mid-album, vinyl says, “I take my music seriously, but also I might own a typewriter.”

Pros:

• Warm, rich sound that digital can’t quite imitate

• Album art so large it could double as living room décor

• The ritual: selecting a record, placing the needle, feeling fancy

Cons:

• Not exactly portable (imagine jogging with a turntable)

• Collecting can become an expensive rabbit hole

• One accidental elbow at a party and your favorite record becomes modern art

Vinyl lovers argue the sound is purer—and who are we to disagree with someone who alphabetizes their collection by mood?

So… Who Wins?

Honestly? You do.

Whether you’re hitting shuffle on your phone, dusting off your CD wallet, or delicately placing the needle on a $35 thrift store find, each format brings something magical to the table.

• Digital is for the multitaskers and music omnivores.

• CDs are for the sentimentalists and sound purists who still say “album” like it means something.

• Vinyl is for the romantics and music nerds who treat listening like a meditation—and they probably smell faintly of patchouli.

The best format is the one that gets your toes tapping, your hips shaking, or your soul soaring. So queue it up, spin it, or pop it in. Just promise us one thing:

Please... no more music on speakerphone in public.