Sexy Is In The Eye Of The Beholder

There are so many people out there today with body image problems.  We are bombarded with images of bodies with not an ounce of body fat on them.  This can lead to some real problems in our relationships.  When we are in a relationship we want to share our body with our partner we want them to worship our nakedness.  But, when we don't measure up to the images on the magazines (Women's and Men's) sometimes we shy away from that attention.   We have to have the lights turned out and only then will we allow ourselves to be naked with our partner.

I once read an article about a famous sex educator that had this problem.  Even though she could get up in front of thousands of people and talk about the most intimate details about sex, she wouldn't allow her partner to see her naked.  Until one day she decided to give it a try.  What she found was while she was looking at all the parts of her body that she felt didn't measure up.  Her partner was looking and finding beauty in her body even in the places she thought were substandard and once he expressed that to her that self doubt went right out the window.

None of us are perfect even those models on the front of magazines are air brushed and angled just right to make them look better.  So why are you hiding in the dark?  Allow your partner to enjoy you nakedness and enjoy theirs.  Tonight make love with the lights on and see how sexy you really are!
-Rob-

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The Family Blog

Today we have a wonderful way to keep all your family and friends up to date on what is going on in your life.  It is a Family Blog.  A blog is so easy to set up with a service such as Blogger.  All you have to do is pick a theme and start adding content.  You can post pictures of the kids functions, let all people know what is going on in your life and announce important dates and functions you are having yourself.  All you have to do is send the link to those that you want to keep informed.  You can even let all family members take turns posting.  Have your toddlers draw pictures and scan them so that all can enjoy their artwork.  Video your kids baseball game and let Grandma and Grandpa watch from their home miles away.  The possibilities are endless.  One word of caution however, know that others can find your page so keep things like your address and specific locations from being posted, just to be on the safe side.  

We have a great way to share information with all our family and friends.  No more do we have to invite people over to watch our boring home movies now we can send them to them so they can be bored in their own homes.  :-)

Speaking Kind Words - Re Released for the Kindle

Speaking Kind Words returns with an updated version for the Amazon Kindle.  This publication will help you start speaking to your partner in a much more loving manner.  With just the change of a few simple words your relationship can start improving.  The creator of Sexy Challenges brings you this exciting way to build your relationship with heartfelt words.  Pick up your copy today on Amazon.  

Click any of the words above to view the Amazon Page.  

Finally Lubrication Companies Start Helping With Foreplay

We have seen a recently move for companies to start changing up the normal lubrication we use for intimacy.  Long gone are the days when you had one or two choices.  Now you have a wealth of products to help build your excitement and foreplay.  K-Y has their line of Yours & Mine which offers a lube for male and female partners to experience their reactions together.  Durex has also chimed in with several different sensations in their lubrication.  There are many others out there doing the same thing telling us that there is a whole lot of foreplay going on out there.  Which is a very very good thing.  Check out all the different types of lubes on the market today and how they can alter your sensation for each intimate experience.