What our viewers relationships need more of.

Results on our survey on what your relationship need more of. The overwhelming thing most viewers felt they needed more of in their relationship was sex coming in at 40%. They also thing that more Romance, Care and Fun would improve their relationships over time. If you believe that your relationship is low on something you need to start by looking at yourself are you doing what you need to bring that item more into your relationship. Don’t expect your partner to give you what you want it your not willing to make compromises. Relationships are give and take and a balance has to be found to really have a successful one.

Your Life's Soundtrack

I wonder sometimes why I don't listen to more music? When the wife and I are folding laundry or just hanging out, it never seems that I remember that the silence that so often fills our house could be avoided by simply playing some music. Most everyone love some sort of music so it makes sense to play some during your most mundane tasks. Music can get your blood pumping and maybe get you up to do a little exercising while you are just sitting completing your task. If you have an iPod then you need to get you a playlist set up with the upbeat music that you love so the next time you and your partner are just sitting their doing a boring task you can get up and dance so excitement into your relationship. Be silly and get your heart pumping.

Don't stop there start putting music everywhere in your life, listen to it while you take a shower (Keep all electrical devices away for the water, duh), find some music to make out to, or some to sit and listen to on the porch while you sip a drink. Our memories are sometimes attached to songs that are playing in the background during an event that happens. If you have children get them involved also and pick songs that are fun to sing and move to. Start them young and put music in their lives. Look at it this way have you ever seen a movie that didn't have music playing in the background during the important parts? Unless the want you to hear what the actors are saying music is playing. Lets put a soundtrack in the background of our lives start compiling songs today.

Make Sex Promises

I am a big fan of anticipation, it is one of those things that can drive you to get things don't faster and to help build excitement. What I want you to do today is to make a sexual promise to your partner. In the morning tell them you will perform a specific task on them at a certain time during the night. You might thing what will that do for our relationship. Well let me tell you, your partner will now start to think about this activity and begin building it up in his/her mind. Anticipation will begin to kick in and they will start to feel more and more excited as the time nears. Sure you have taken the spontaneity out of the event but they are anxious to get it started. If you like make stipulations on the event. Tell them they have to take out the garbage and you will give them a sexual surprise. What ever you decide on having them do make sure you follow through on your promise and give them the excitement they will be craving.

Research how scents affect your relationship

Scents are a powerful thing and you never know exactly how someone will act to a certain scent. I want to suggest you do a little research on the subject in your relationship. Get some different scented candles and have them burning with your partner comes home. Log down their mood and how they act throughout the night, then change the scent the next time. Get 7 different candles and try a different scent each day then repeat the cycle the next week. Do this for one month then look over your log book to see if you see any similarities. Maybe the smell of lavender puts your partner in a mellow mood where they just want to relax, or maybe the smell of cinnamon makes your partner a little frisky. To test your scent findings switch things up. If you partner comes home in a bad mood choose the scent that made them the most relaxed and see how they react to the scent. Do they calm down or does it have no effect. You might just find that the scents will help you set a mood for your time together. If you find a scent that makes your partner in just the mood you enjoy then you better take stock in that company and buy all the candles in that scent you can find.

Hair Stubble don't be prickly

Okay you know you want to be lazy and not shave. This goes for both men and women, but you have to consider you partner in this matter. Sure it is great not to worry about shaving but what happens when you get close to each other. Do you want the sandpaper that is on your face to scrap across your lovers face, cutting them like wolverine from the X-Men? Ladies do you want your mate to think he is in bed with Chewbacca when he slides his feet against your legs? Always approach shaving like you are planning on getting close to your partner. They would much rather snuggle up to your soft skin then the forest that grows out of it. Get yourself a good razor or electric shaver to help with the shaving it will be money well spend. Don't wait until the first time it loses you action to do something about it.

Pumpkin Pie might be better than Viagra!

Everyone has a take on aphrodisiacs and rightfully so. Different people respond to different things. Our focus today is on Pumpkin and Pumpkin pies. Not many people understand that pumpkin has been used as an aphrodisiac for many years. According to a study by the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago, the smell of pumpkin alone can increase the blood flow as much as 40% (isn't that what Viagra does) They also claim that the pumpkin smell increases desire in women. If you get a little romantic sensation at Thanksgiving this might be the cause. Not only does the smell help but some studies say that pumpkin can help a man with prostate problems and also pregnant females. Pumpkin pie contains several items that are good for you but two in particular are known for their aphrodisiac property's. Cinnamon and Vanilla both are said to spike the libido. As we near the holidays we will all be pushing the pumpkin pie on our partners. I personally think I am going to start stocking up on the pies and have them all year long.

Click the Title of this post to go to the Science Channels web page on pumpkin pie as an aphrodisiac.

Don't always dress down on Sundays

We sometime are so glad when Sunday gets here and we can just simply slip into our comfortable clothes and lay around the house with our sweety. This is okay but every once in a while you need to make sure you do yourself up a little for your partner. Men sometimes you need to slip into something you mate would find you very attractive in. Ladies you need to do the same every once in a while, look good for you partner. Most of us dress nice to go to work but when we are with the person we love the most we look the worst. Does that make any sense. Now I am not saying you have to dress up, but looking nice for your partner shouldn't be hard. Don't skip things either on these lazy days, shaving your face and legs should be the same even on a relaxing day. You might even get lucky, and if you do you don't want to take time to shave or worse yet give your partner a burn or rash from your stubble. Think of Sunday as a date of sorts, you can still look great in sweats and a t-shirt but if you skip the hygiene part of your day your partner might be feeling a little left out.