The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About

  

The Let Them Theory:

A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About 

Over 7 Million Copies Sold!
#1 New York Times Bestseller
#1 Sunday Times Bestseller
#1 Amazon Bestseller
#1 Audible Bestseller

A Life-Changing Tool Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About

What if the key to happiness, success, and love was as simple as two words?

If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words—Let Them—will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. The Let Them Theory puts the power to create a life you love back in your hands—and this book will show you exactly how to do it.

In her latest groundbreaking book, The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins—New York Times bestselling author and one of the world's most respected experts on motivation, confidence, and mindset—teaches you how to stop wasting energy on what you can't control and start focusing on what truly matters: YOU. Your happiness. Your goals. Your life.

Using the same no-nonsense, science-backed approach that's made The Mel Robbins Podcast a global sensation, Robbins explains why The Let Them Theory is already loved by millions and how you can apply it in eight key areas of your life to make the biggest impact. Within a few pages, you'll realize how much energy and time you've been wasting trying to control the wrong things—at work, in relationships, and in pursuing your goals—and how this is keeping you from the happiness and success you deserve.

Written as an easy-to-understand guide, Robbins shares relatable stories from her own life, highlights key takeaways, relevant research and introduces you to world-renowned experts in psychology, neuroscience, relationships, happiness, and ancient wisdom who champion The Let Them Theory every step of the way.

Learn how to:

• Stop wasting energy on things you can't control 
• Stop comparing yourself to other people
• Break free from fear and self-doubt
• Release the grip of people's expectations
• Build the best friendships of your life
• Create the love you deserve
• Pursue what truly matters to you with confidence
• Build resilience against everyday stressors and distractions
• Define your own path to success, joy, and fulfillment

. . . and so much more.

The Let Them Theory will forever change the way you think about relationships, control, and personal power. Whether you want to advance your career, motivate others to change, take creative risks, find deeper connections, build better habits, start a new chapter, or simply create more happiness in your life and relationships, this book gives you the mindset and tools to unlock your full potential.

Order your copy of The Let Them Theory now and discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words.

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Stop Bashing Your Partner When They're Not Around

 

Stop Bashing Your Partner When They're Not Around

(Seriously, You’re Not Auditioning for a Stand-Up Set)

We’ve all been there.

You're at a dinner party, out with friends, or sitting around the family table when someone lets loose:
“Ugh, my husband loads the dishwasher like it’s an abstract art installation.”
“My wife? She says she’s ‘just running in for one thing’ and comes out with a cart full of candles and a kayak.”

Cue the laughs. Cue the eye rolls. Cue the wave of people joining in, each trying to one-up the last with their own “my partner is ridiculous” story. Before you know it, you’re knee-deep in a Roast Battle: Relationship Edition.

It’s funny. Until it’s not.

Let’s Call It What It Is: Bad Habit in a Cute Outfit

Mocking your partner when they’re not around may feel like harmless venting, but over time, it turns into a bad habit that wears matching pajamas with resentment.

And sure, we all need to let off steam sometimes. Nobody’s saying you have to pretend your significant other floats around the house glowing with angelic perfection while folding laundry with unicorn tears. But there’s a difference between the occasional, light-hearted gripe and turning every conversation into a roast.

Because here’s the thing: if the only way you bond with your friends is by dragging your partner through the comedic mud, that’s… not cute. That’s lazy love and emotionally discounted entertainment.

So, What If We Flipped the Script?

Imagine this: You’re at brunch, your friend goes off about how their boyfriend never replaces the toilet paper roll, and you casually drop,
“Well, last night my husband rubbed my feet even though I 100% ignored him all day because I was annoyed he bought the wrong cereal.”

Record scratch. Did you just… say something NICE?

Yes. Yes, you did.

You know what happens when you start complimenting your partner in public? One, your friends blink in shock. Two, they might start doing it too. And three, you start to remember all the things you actually like about your partner—those sweet, weird, wonderful things that made you choose them over literally everyone else on Earth.

Real Talk: You’re Training Yourself

When you bash your partner regularly—even jokingly—you’re literally training your brain to see the bad first. You start noticing flaws before you notice effort. Grumbles before gratitude.

But if you make a conscious effort to highlight the good—even the goofy good, like how they always make the coffee just right or let you have the last fry—your mindset shifts. You see more good because you're looking for it.

It’s basically Relationship Law of Attraction. But with less vision boards and more actual bonding.

Bonus Side Effect: People Will Love You for It

Want to be the couple people actually like being around? Be the couple that lifts each other up, even when the other one isn’t in the room. It sets a tone. It creates that warm, fuzzy “I want what they have” vibe.

No one wants to hang out with a pair who constantly trash talk each other. That’s not love. That’s passive-aggressive improv comedy, and it’s exhausting.

Celebrate Your Person—They’re Yours, After All

Look, nobody’s saying you have to pretend your partner doesn’t occasionally snore like a congested walrus or text you from the other room instead of walking 10 feet. But balance the quirks with compliments. Sprinkle some love in with the laughs.

And next time you’re tempted to go full roast mode while your partner’s not around, try this instead:

Talk about how they remembered your weird favorite snack.
Mention how they made you laugh when you were being a total grouch.
Tell your friends how they always warm up your side of the bed.

You might just start a trend.

And you just might fall a little more in love while you’re at it. 

Ridiculous New Year’s Resolutions for 2026

  

Ridiculous New Year’s Resolutions for 2026

• Learn one impressive word per week and then use it incorrectly with confidence

• Stop pretending I didn’t see the text and fully commit to ignoring it

• Become “a runner” by buying shoes and telling people about it

• Finally read the terms and conditions (or at least scroll slowly)

• Drink more water but only if it’s fun, flavored, or has a fancy straw

• Respond to emails with “Noted” and absolutely nothing else

• Start every Monday saying, “This week feels different,” regardless of evidence

• Create a budget that emotionally supports my lifestyle

• Finish every jar in the fridge before buying a new one

• Learn to cook one dish so well people assume I’m good at cooking

• Take fewer screenshots I will never look at again

• Stop Googling symptoms unless something is actively falling off

• Go to bed earlier by loudly announcing it and then scrolling for an hour

• Use the good candles instead of saving them for “later”

• Become mysterious by sharing less and overthinking more

• Unsubscribe from emails instead of angrily deleting them forever

• Learn what half the buttons in my car actually do

• Stretch occasionally and call it wellness

• Stop saying “I’ll circle back” when I absolutely will not

• Commit to at least one hobby I abandon by March

• Finish watching shows I’ve been “in the middle of” since 2021

• Answer “How are you?” with something other than “good” or “busy”

• Accept that I am not a morning person and stop fighting it

• Stop rearranging my house instead of cleaning it

• Leave the house without checking the weather and live with the consequences

• Become emotionally unbothered by minor inconveniences (selectively)

• Actually read the books I keep buying

• Eat leftovers before ordering takeout again

• Stop saying “after the holidays” as a lifestyle

• Lower my expectations but raise my snacks

• Stop pretending I’ll remember things instead of writing them down

• Learn one fun fact that makes people uncomfortable at parties

• Be kinder to myself while still laughing at my poor decisions

 

Magick: From Chaos to Clarity

  

Magick is all around us—all the time!

Have you ever felt energy in the air when something amazing was about to happen? That spark of intuition or that moment when everything aligns just right? That’s magick—real, flowing, and powerful. And now, it’s time to bring your magickal knowledge out of chaos and into clarity with Magick: From Chaos to Clarity — a transformative guide that helps you understand, harness, and expand your magickal energy to its fullest potential.

🌀 Magick vs. Magic — Yes, There’s a Difference!

Before you start telling the author that they spelled magick wrong—don’t!
“Magic” without the “k” is what illusionists use when they make rabbits appear or cars vanish.
“Magick” with a “k” is the real deal: it’s about channeling the universal energy that connects us all, creating good, and manifesting change throughout our world and beyond.

💫 What You’ll Discover Inside

In Magick: From Chaos to Clarity, you’ll learn how to:

• Create, direct, and share magick in your daily life

• Work with magick individually, in small groups, or even on a global scale

• Understand the deep connection between love and magick

• Recognize the intelligence of magickal energy throughout the universe

• Realize that billions of people are creating magick—most without even knowing it

When you finish this book, your understanding of magick’s energy will be forever changed. You’ll see that magick is not just mystical—it’s the most unlimited resource in existence. There are no boundaries, no walls—only infinite potential waiting for you to tap into.

🌍 Why You’ll Love This Book

This isn’t about spells and smoke—it’s about clarity and empowerment.
You’ll discover how magick naturally flows through you, shaping your reality every moment. And when you learn to guide it consciously, your life begins to unfold in extraordinary ways.

Magick: From Chaos to Clarity will open your eyes to the truth that magick has always been with you. It’s not something you find—it’s something you remember.

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Are you ready to bring your magick from chaos into clarity?
Then it’s time to open the pages, ignite your energy, and embrace the infinite magick that lives within you.

👉 Get your copy of Magick: From Chaos to Clarity today!

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Souvenir Ideas for Couples to Bring Back from Trips and Vacations

(Because Matching T-Shirts Are Only the Beginning)

Let’s be honest—vacations end, tans fade, and your return flight is somehow always delayed. But souvenirs? Souvenirs last forever. They’re your little time capsules from paradise (or that hilarious misadventure you swore you'd never speak of again).

For couples, the right souvenir isn’t just about kitsch—it’s about memories, inside jokes, and reminders of why you actually like traveling with each other. So skip the snow globes (unless you're really into that) and check out these souvenir ideas that are fun, personal, and won't end up in the back of your junk drawer.

Local Art (Yes, Even That Weird One)

Every destination has its own artistic flair. Find a local artist and grab a small piece that speaks to your experience. Bonus points if it’s slightly offbeat—because nothing says “we survived that zipline tour” like a watercolor of a suspiciously muscular llama.

Hang it up when you get home and let it be the conversation starter that forces you to re-live that “remember when we got lost in Lisbon?” story for the hundredth time.

A Photo You Didn't Post

We get it—you took 672 selfies. But choose one that actually means something, print it, and frame it. Make it a tradition. One photo per trip. No filters, no edits, just real-deal adventure energy. (Yes, even if one of you has sand stuck in your teeth.)

Matching (or Almost Matching) Accessories

We’re not saying you need to go full-on “his and hers” tank tops. But maybe matching leather bracelets from a market in Mexico? Or mugs from that quirky roadside diner you ended up at when GPS failed you both?

Subtle, stylish, and 10 times better than an airport keychain.

Recipe Ingredients (or the Whole Cookbook)

If you fell in love with a dish while traveling, bring it home. That spice blend from Morocco. That pasta flour from Italy. That barbecue sauce you weren’t legally allowed to bring on the plane but managed anyway.

Then recreate the meal together and turn your kitchen into a chaotic love fest of spilled olive oil and happy arguments over seasoning.

Ornaments That Don’t Match Anything Else

Even if you’re not “ornament people,” hear us out: holiday ornaments make awesome souvenirs. They’re small, easy to pack, and once a year you’ll pull it out, laugh, and go, “Remember that place?” right before nearly setting the tree on fire.

Sentimental and flammable—just like your relationship.

Soundtrack to Your Trip

Was there a local band you loved? A song that played everywhere? A street musician you tipped way too much for a two-minute performance? Grab that album, download that playlist, or buy a CD if you’re feeling retro.

One song can transport you right back to that beach bar, dance club, or karaoke fail.

A Souvenir for Your Future Selves

Write each other a quick note about the trip. Stick it inside the travel book, or hide it somewhere in your suitcase. Don’t read it until your next vacation. It’s like emotional luggage—without the baggage fees.

It's Not Just Stuff—It's Your Stuff

Souvenirs don’t have to be expensive or fancy. The best ones are personal, a little weird, and filled with the kind of meaning that only makes sense to the two of you.

So the next time you travel, skip the basic fridge magnet and find something that makes you smile every time you see it—whether it’s a lopsided clay mug, a bag of suspicious spices, or a very tasteful framed picture of your sunburned faces.

Because love is the ultimate souvenir. But that ceramic frog from Prague comes pretty close. 

Upgrade You: Simple Changes, Powerful Energy, Infinite Potential

  

Upgrade You:

Simple Changes, Powerful Energy,

Infinite Potential

Upgrade You This New Year: Why THIS Is the Book You Need to Become Your Best Self (Without Losing Your Mind)

The New Year is here — that magical time when we all suddenly decide we’re going to be better humans. We buy fresh planners, new pens, overpriced water bottles, and tell ourselves things like:

“I will wake up at 5 AM.”
“I’m giving up sugar, dairy, bread, Netflix, and negativity.”
“I’m going to meditate for 45 minutes every morning.”

And by January 14th?
We’re eating cereal in bed, scrolling TikTok, and wondering why self-improvement feels like boot camp for the emotionally exhausted.

But what if upgrading yourself didn’t mean suffering, sacrificing joy, or becoming some robotic version of perfection?

Enter Upgrade You: Simple Changes, Powerful Energy, Infinite Potential — the self-improvement book that actuallygets it.

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Why “Upgrade You” Is the New Year Book You Didn’t Know You Needed

Unlike those intense, guilt-inducing “fix your whole life by 5 PM” manuals, Upgrade You shows you how to become your best self through small shifts, big laughs, and actual real-life changes you can stick to.

No gurus.
No pressure.
No shame for choosing tacos over treadmill time.
Just honest, funny, practical wisdom from Dr. Rob Alex.

Inside the pages, you’ll learn how to:

✔ Make simple adjustments that elevate every part of your life
✔ Upgrade your energy without burning out
✔ Add metaphysical magic to everyday actions
✔ Build confidence and self-worth that last
✔ Stop chasing perfection and start celebrating progress
✔ Laugh at your mistakes instead of crying into cheesecake
✔ Create a life you love, without needing a yoga mat made of unicorn fur

This book isn’t here to “fix” you — you’re not broken.
It’s here to help you upgrade you… with humor, heart, and a whole lot of freedom.

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New Year, New Energy: Why NOW Is the Perfect Time to Upgrade

January isn’t just a month — it’s a vibe.
It’s a metaphysical reset button wrapped in sparkly energy and fresh-start momentum.

You’re already thinking about changes.
You’re already imagining a better version of yourself.
And “Upgrade You” shows you EXACTLY how to do it without the burnout, shame, or 42-step morning routines that require a small team of assistants.

This New Year, don’t promise yourself you’ll be perfect — promise yourself you’ll be better, a little at a time.

That’s where the magic happens.
That’s where YOUR infinite potential wakes up.

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Why Readers Are Loving “Upgrade You”

➡ It’s fun.
➡ It’s relatable.
➡ It’s profoundly honest.
➡ It feels like talking with your funniest, most encouraging friend.
➡ It gives you tools you can use TODAY — not someday.

Readers aren’t just reading the book — they’re laughing, reflecting, clearing out old energy, shedding outdated habits, and upgrading everything from their mindset to their relationships.

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What Makes It Different From Every Other New Year “Change Your Life” Book?

Realness. Humor. Humanity. And metaphysical goodness.

This book acknowledges:

• You’re busy

• You’re human

• You’ve tried self-improvement before

• And you’re tired of feeling like you're “not enough”

Upgrade You flips the script.
It says you are enough — and now it’s time to build on that foundation in small, powerful steps.

Like cleaning your inner energy junk drawer.
Or learning to say “no” without writing a four-paragraph apology.
Or celebrating tiny wins that add up to big transformation.

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The New Year Is Coming… and So Is the New YOU

This is the year you stop fixing yourself and start upgrading yourself.
This is the year you accept your quirks, honor your energy, raise your standards, and step into your potential without pressure or perfectionism.

Let the Universe see you shine.
Let your life expand.
Let your spirit recharge.

And let Upgrade You guide you through the journey — with laughter, heart, and a whole lot of “you’ve got this.”

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Ready to Begin?

Upgrade You: Simple Changes, Powerful Energy, Infinite Potential
is available now — and it’s the perfect companion for your New Year intentions, vision boards, affirmations, and “I swear this year will be different” pep talks.

👉 Grab your copy today
👉 Prepare to feel energized, inspired, and empowered
👉 Step into the upgraded version of YOU — one small shift at a time

Because the best version of you isn’t out of reach.
It’s already here — waiting for you to hit upgrade.

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Simple Changes, Powerful Energy, Infinite Potential

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