The Unshaven

Men in our relationships we have a choice to shave or not to shave (among many other choices).  On one hand the unshaven look is sexy and very masculine, which many women seem to love.  On the other hand if you keep that unshaven look many women find it a little to abrasive when if rubs against their skin.  So what do we do?

Here is my answer start shaving at night.  This works for those that have a day job.  This way the stubble builds up before you come home and you have a little of that rugged look when you come through the door.  The hello kiss gets a little of the abrasion but then later you save before going to bed.  Then your partner gets to feel your soft smooth skin and doesn't mind you rubbing your face anywhere on their body!

Female Ejaculation Fact of Fiction

Female Ejaculation is one of the most elusive things to pin point.  Some women say they do it all the time, others say they have never ever done it.  Some say they soak the bed while others say that it is barely noticeable.  For those women that say they do ejaculate during sex, they claim it to be on of the best experiences ever.  There are many books on the subject yet I think we will never know the total truth on the matter because the fact is that it isn't a contest it is a beautiful part of intimacy for those that experience it and not a science experiment.  So, if you are lucky enough to experience this wonder of nature congrats and continue what you are doing.  

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Be Vocal During Sex

We all know that communication is important in our relationships.  However, sometimes we fail to use this communication in our bedroom.  Communication is a key to much success in your intimacy.  Letting your partner know what you like is a major part of getting the enjoyment you want.  So be vocal when something feels good.  You don't have to say it directly but your actions and sounds can key your lover into what feels good to you.  A simple Yes Baby can go a long way to encouraging your partner to keep doing what they are doing.  You both will have a better time when you let each other know what you desire.

-Rob-

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Happy Anniversary My Love

Today is the Anniversary of the day my wonderful partner and I got married.  We have had hard and difficult times but the laughter and fun we have had together far outshines those times.  The strength our love has grown is amazing and I wish to all you out their that you find a love like what I did.  

Honoring you Janelle, the true beauty in my life.

Good Oil = Good Massage

If you love touching your partner like I do then you know the importance of a massage.  It is a connection that feels good and can allow you both to experience true zen.  However a massage without a good massage oil is like not putting oil in your car.  A good oil creates a wonderful scent to enjoy for both of you during the massage, plus it allows your hands to glide and get into those tight muscles without creating cramps in your hands.  A good oil also make both of your skin softer and nicer to touch.  So if you are thinking about massaging your partner start out by going out and getting a good massage oil.  You will both be much more pleased with the outcome.  

-Rob-

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Finding Reminders Of Our Love In Odd Places

Sometimes we find reminders of our love for our partner in the most unusual places.  You might be at the store and see his/her favorite candy bar, or in your car when his/her favorite song comes on the radio.  Just looking around you might find many things that make you think about your lover.  This is your mind reminding you that you are in love!

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Finally Fantasy Football for Couples, With The Focus on FANTASY

Finally couples can take the passion of Football fans and the passion involved with fantasy play and put them together.  What a great way to spend Sundays this fall.  First you watch the game then you let the games begin...

Get started playing today.

Sexy Challenges Fantasy Football from iTunes

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