Pack a lunch with love.

           Does you partner take their lunch to work.  It is a not so glamours way of getting the food you need.  So why not spice you partners lunch up a little by either taking the time to pack a wonderful meal for them or just slipping a little love into their lunch box.  Things like notes that say I love you, or their favorite granola bar show how much you care about your lunch taking partner.  You can even make it a little more exciting by slipping a sexy note into the lunch box telling them of wonderful things you are going to do to them later.  This is just one small way to show how much you love your partner.

What makes your partner look sexy in your eyes?

           What makes your partner look sexy to you?  Is it their actual appearance or is it an action they are taking.  I hope you all are attracted to your partners looks but the deeper things that turn you on are probably their actions.  Maybe it is the way they walk across the room, the way the dry their hair in the morning, or it can even be the way they read books to your children.  Watch for these little images that really make you take notice of why you feel in love with this person in the first place.  Then act on these impulses.  Next time your parter turns you on as they are lifting weights tell them that later you would love to feel there muscles as they throw you into bed.  Maybe you tell you partner to drop their towel and join you in bed as they exit a hot steamy shower.  An important part of any relationship is the knowledge that your still turn your partner on.  So, make sure you express that to your partner whenever you can.  This action will benefit the both of you.  

Laugh together and everything is better.

         One thing that can bring a couple closer to each other is laughter.  For when you laugh with someone you have a special connection one of a friendship that is a great asset to a relationship.  If you are all the time serious within your relationship it soon will become a place that doesn't feel good.  So let your hair down watch a stupidly funny movie or just act crazy around the house see how easy it is to laugh together.  You might just find out it leads to a happy and healthy relationship.  

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Waking and touching

         

         Which ever one of you has to get up first must take this step to begin each day.  It is a simple one that requires not much thought but means so much.  Gentle before you remove yourself from your bed reach out and touch your love.  Pretty simple huh.  Don't roust them but just give them a quick caress that says, "I wish I could lay here longer with you, I love you"  then vanquish yourself off to get ready.  You will be amazed at what it can do for the both of you.  The simple sensation of a touch can bring so much joy to your life, so touch it up!

The Power of your New Year Resolution

          Your New Years Resolutions should be in full swing right now, this second day of the year.  Most people are gungho at first to start whatever it is they promised themselves to do this year.  Be it weight loss, stop smoking, stop drinking, or even to spend more time with you love most are working at it hard on this day.  However in a couple of more days things start to slide off as the resolution gets pushed back out of the way.  To make sure you stay focused make a resolution together so you can both help each other stay on track.  Be the support team for each other and smack some hands as your partner reaches for a piece of cake, or help your partner out by flushing their booze down the toilet.  Make signs and put them up to help remind the two of you what your resolution you made and to stick with them.   You might just find out that love is a great help in keeping these resolutions.  

Get ready for your big kiss tonight

          Tonight is the night where you can make a kiss last a whole year.  The ever popular New Years kiss is about to happen.  As we celebrate our past year and the new one coming up we use this kiss as a ceremony to ring in our New Year.  Make sure you are ready for this big even tonight use chapstick throughout the day and practice your pucker to make your kiss the best one of the year.  My feeling is you should start kissing before midnight and then keep kissing until the New Year comes in.  Making this kiss transcend time by covering two years.  Great Idea, huh.

Give a signal

          Trying to tell each other what feels good during sex seems to be a trouble for a lot of couples.  Something about giving orders or criticism during the event seems wrong to some people.  Yet we all want to feel good and have our needs met.  My solution to this problem is to set up some signals so that you can communicate to your lover while not having to verbalize your feelings.  The next time the two of you have a conversation about sex set us these signals to tell each other how you are doing.  Tell them if you tug on their hair that means you like what they are doing or that if you tap their shoulder you would like them to do something else.  These signals are totally up to you and you can have as many as you want.  Have one for when you are ready to try a new position or when you want some oral stimulation.  This way you don't have to say, "Oh that doesn't feel good" or "Oh MY GOD don't stop that"  unless you are comfortable saying those things.  

Making love needs some light!

          I am betting that most of the sex in the world today takes place in the dark.  What a shame this is.  I understand that some people have issues with body image and that being in the dark helps to hide in that manner.  Now I am not talking turning on all the bright florescent lights like that in a hospital.  I am talking about getting some candles or better yet get some of the new flame less candles for safety.  The reason why I like a little light is because it adds something to love making.  You can now looking lovingly into your partners eyes or get turned on more by her naked breast or his rear end.  You can see as your partner makes you feel good and watch them kiss and tantalize you.  This can bring a thrill to your sex life like you have never had.  Think of the image of your lover flickering in candle light as they move in to kiss you, how sexy is that.  

Back to work for most of us.

          Well most of us are back to work today if you weren't yesterday.  It seems like that time around Christmas passes so fast.  My theory on that is that it is because you are having a really wonderful time with the people you love.  So instead of wishing that time would slow down make sure you enjoy all of that time and realize that it is because you are in love that it passes so quickly.  Hold on to the memories and realize that when you are living life it is moving fast only when you stop loving does that time seem to slow down.  Enjoy the fact you are in love so many people out there are looking for that feeling and you my friend have it so revel in it.