Have you ever noticed the colors that stand out in your relationship?  Like the color of your partners eyes or the blush of their cheeks when you kiss them.  How about the colors you see when you kiss or how the grass seems greener when you are in love.  How does all this play into the fact that your relationship is important.  Start looking around and seeing how colorful you world is now that you are in love.  If you not in love right now then start looking so you will notices later when love hits you.

Spiritual Recipe

In many recipes you are asked to combine a lot of different ingredients blending them together to create a dish.  This is very similar to what you need to do to find your spirituality.  Listen to all the aspects and soak them in.  Then start taking the parts that feel right to you.  Just as with a recipe add the amounts that feel right to you.  Some recipes are bitter to the taste for some people while others find it to their liking.  Creating your own recipe will help you find the recipe that works best for you.  You will start to find out there are a lot of similarities within all of these.  However, the one that fits you will be a combination of what you feel is true.

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Why Can't I Let It Go?

Why can't we let go of the hurtful feelings that we have?  You know the ones that have come from bad experiences or hurtful memories.  Somehow we can't shake these feelings and they creep into our current daily life.  We don't take a chance because we failed at something a long time ago.  We are afraid to fall in love because the hurt we felt from the last time it fell apart.  Maybe it was a traumatic event that has been burned into our memory that affects the way we look at all situations now.  Why do we hold onto these feelings?  Why don't we just let them go?  Are they a way of protecting ourselves? 
I am not sure of the exact reason, but I have my own take on why we hold onto these hurtful feelings and memories.  It is our balance.  This is the way we justify all the good that comes into our lives.  How would we justify our great feelings if all we had to compare them to were our other great feelings.  All our feelings would be neutral at that point. 

Here is a suggestion for the next time these nasty feelings pop up.  When you feel one of these bad feelings creeping into your mind immediately think of the most wonderful feeling you can recall.  Now strike the balance between the two.  Maybe other kids teased you in school?  Put that on side of an imaginary scale in your mind.  On the other side of the scale put the wonderful things your partner says to you now!  Using balance will soon have you using these hurtful memories as a means of balancing instead of a way to shy away from reliving them.

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Sharing Intimacy

"Intimacy is one thing you can share with your partner and your relationship"

-Rob Alex-

Whispers

Do you listen to the little whispers that Spirit gives to you?  Those random thoughts that pop into our heads may just be whispers from Spirit.  If you listen to those little whispers, you might be amazed at what you will learn.  You will also become amazed at the synchronicities that begin to appear in your life.  Shhh…just listen.

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Learn Speaking Kind Words and improve your relationship.

A while back we wrote a book titled Speaking Kind Words.  This wonderful book was designed to help you improve the state of your relationship by changing a few words here and there.  A simple little thing that makes all the difference in the world.  Check out the book and see just how wonderful you relationship can become.  Watch as you partner very quickly notices the change.

(Click the above picture to pick up your copy)

Heartbeat of ALL

Heartbeat of ALL

I am a spiritual being my friend

As are you

We are not above the animals, the plants, the water, the air

But instead intertwined

Close your eyes

And listen

Openly wait

Feel the heartbeat of All

Conversations Hit the Road - Sacred Intimacy

Recently we did a podcast on Sacred Intimacy you can check it out here and let us know what you think.

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Be Honest With Yourself & Your Partner

Are you really being YOU? 

Do you know who YOU really are?

 Are you showing that True You to your partner? 

No?  Well, it is time to take back your power! It is time to share the real you with yourself and your partner.  Don't live somebody else's imagined version of you.  Don't keep following what others expect you to do or be unless that is who you really are!

Gain FREE access and find out more about YOU!

Do it FOR YOU and for your partner. 

911

9-11 is a day in most American's lives that they will never forget.  It was a sad day when so many people lost their lives for a horrific act of terrorism.  We all have times in our lives that are sad for us (though for some of us those days are extraordinarily traumatic).  We all lose loved ones at some point that is true, but horrific tragedies can be far more painful.  We mark these occasions and keep them in our memory as a tribute to these monumental points in our lives.  Once we begin to heal, we can put more focus into honoring the lives that were lost as well as honoring all those who came to the aid of others.

Any act that harms others isn't a message! 
 Ultimately when we harm someone else (whether in a severe manner such as 9/11 or simply by being rude to the waitress) we only harm ourselves!