Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Give Up The Fight To Be Right!

Daddy's Home by Tony Rubino and Gary Markstein

One of the most important things we can do for our relationship is give up the need to be right. If we refuse to accept that there has to be a winner and loser to every disagreement then we open the door to a more compassionate and loving relationship. Accept that you both might have different opinions and that it is okay. I actually think it makes the relationship better when you have differences in opinions. So the next time you find the two of you fighting over who is right and who is wrong, step out of the moment and realize it doesn't matter, accept it.

Monday, January 2, 2012

Caregivers Must Care For Themselves Too!!

Do you take care of someone - a child, an elderly parent, a sibling, your spouse? It can be quite draining. Check out my article in regards to this. When we care for others we must remember to take care of ourselves or will be no good to anyone.

Photo by Lisa F. Young - fotolia.com

Sunday, January 1, 2012

The Couples Spot 1000th Post!

Funny how this post the first one of the New Year of 2012 works out to be our 1000th. It as been a wonderful journey of transformation. When I started The Couples Spot 1000 post ago I thought to myself this is going to be a challenge to make a post every day. Well the amazing part is that with each post I seem to get ideas about more and more posts. So the ideas have not stopped coming and they are actually Branching out.

Not only has The Couples Spot evolved but I have grown tremendously during this time. My spirituality has had a huge impact on my life. The formation of our parent company Inward Oasis and the products we are producing like Sexy Challenges, Intimate Adventures, The Relationship Guides Radio Show, Conversations Hit the Road our podcast and the many books and information we are putting out to you wonderful people out there is an amazing feeling. To know that so many people have visited The Couples Spot is an honor to me. I appreciate each and every one of you.

The even more beautiful part of this is when my wonderful and beautiful partner came on board at The Couples Spot. We now share this wonderful place that has become a part of us. No longer is this just a blog it is a gift we give to so many out there. Our goal is to make relationships happier and healthier and to help those couples that are ready find their Blended Spirit.

It has been a wonderful and exciting journey so far and I can't wait to see what happens within the next 1000 posts. We are glad you are here with us, you are beautiful.

Peace and Love,

Rob and Janelle

Saturday, December 31, 2011

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year

Enjoy the Fireworks.

Peace and Love to Everyone!

Friday, December 30, 2011

A Fascinating Conversation

What is our nature of existence?

There are as many paths and natures as there are souls.

What if two souls are on the same path, is there a path empty somewhere?

No. Two souls can not take the exact same path. It may be very similar and headed for the same destination, but the journey will be different even if they meet along the way and share part of the journey.

This could be a deep discussion. We would love for you to share your thoughts. All comments are appreciated.

Photo by Dan Jesperson - fotolia.com

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Getting Ready for your New Year as a Couple

New Years Eve is a specific event that is designed for couples. From the kiss at midnight to ringing in a new beginning and those resolutions. People plan their New Years Eve Celebrations sometimes years in advance to make sure they get to the party or place they want to be. However if you haven't made plans by now you are going to have to wing it. Make your own party, invite friends over, play games such as trivial pursuit or question games. Being with other couples on New Years can form friendships that will last a long time. However maybe you want to have a more intimate setting and ring in the New Years with just the two of you. Find a quite spot for the special kiss or spend it snuggled down together staying warm watching the stars. The choice is yours and I am sure you will pick the one that best suites your relationship.

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Osho - Lovemaking is a Sacred Experience

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Snuggle Up Football Bowl Games are Here

This is the time of year to snuggle up on the couch and watch your favorite college football team. Bowl time is here and all the best football teams are still playing. With a wide variety of choices you and your beloved can watch some stellar athletes compete for championships where their is no money involved for the players. Just a desire and a will to win. Get some snacks and a comfy spot to snuggle down and cheer for your team or the underdog.

Monday, December 26, 2011

The JOY in Dear Friends

A very dear friend of mine shared these words a few months ago with me.

"The less stuff we put between our hearts and our true work, the better."
--Joy Riach--

Are you sharing your love with the world? Are you following your heart? Are you loving yourself? Are you listening to and finding the beauty in what those around you say?

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