The Days We Thrive & The One's We Survive

Janelle was recently a guest on the It's About You radio show.  The topic was The Days We Thrive and The One's We Survive.  This was just before the holidays and that was the point, but this is true for many occasions in our lives.  Janelle shared tips on thriving and surviving!  Listen to the show today.


 

Every Dog Needs to Keep Up On Their Looks

Some of us lose sight of keeping ourselves up when we are in a stable relationship.  We let ourselves go because we feel comfortable with our love.  However, this cannot become an excuse.  You still need to take care of yourself.  These comfortable feelings start to creep into the clothes we wear and our manners.  When we first started dating we would never dream of burping or farting in front of our date.  So, why does it become okay after we have been together for a certain amount of time.  Sure things happen and sometimes it slips, but to purposely let out a burp at the dinner table could get your partner wondering, "Who is this person?"  Now, I know your partner is going to see you at your worst, like right when you get up in the morning or when you are sick.  However, that shouldn't be the way he/she sees you all the time - sloppy and unkept.  Take pride in your appearance and keep trying to impress the one you love.  

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An Empty Pocket Can Be Filled with Love!

All relationships are vital and have an empact!  We can change others lives no matter how little we believe we have.  Take a few minutes out of your busy day and watch this powerful, heart-touching clip.

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Notice the Little Sexy Things

Sexy images of your partner are all around just keep your eyes open.

Sexy doesn't have to be a huge production filled with lingerie, passionate kissing and sexy looks.  It can be found everywhere you look.  Keep your eyes open and notice all the little things that make your partner look sexy.  Watch your partners muscles flex as he pulls the trash out of the container or watch as your partner slips into her underwear for the day.  These simple sexy visions of your partner can add up and build your desire for your partner in a wonderful way.  Watch how your partner interacts with your children or the way he/she moves while cooking dinner.  Slip a peek now and then when he/she is working out or coming out of the shower wet and sexy.  Build a little memory bank of all these visions of your partner then use them when you the two of you are alone and are able to touch all those sexy parts you have witnessed during the day.

Your Nature - Wayne Dyer Quote

"Pursing status stops the natural flow of Divine Energy to your independent mind...What's [your] own nature if [you] have no outside forces telling [you] who or what [you] should be?"

--Dr. Wayne Dyer, Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life

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Love is The Ultimate Law

"Everything starts with love, remember; love is the ultimate law. Then prayer, mercy, grace, follow of their own accord."

-OSHO-

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Have a Cup of Hot Cocoa :)

I am sitting here writing this post and I notice my toes are cold.  Maybe it is time for a nice cup of hot cocoa.  Yep, that sounds mmmmm....mmmmm..good.  Well, I am off to make a cup.

Ah, the simply pleasures in life.

Do you wanna cup?  Go enjoy one :)

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Slumber Party in Your Relationship

Okay most of us have been to a slumber party.  The amazing thing about all the ones that I have been to is that there is NO slumber going on there.  The idea of the slumber party is to stay up as late as you can.

Why not bring this into your relationship?  Think about it - who better to spend a evening staying up late with than your partner?  Set it up with snacks and fun things to do.  Some fun things you can do are play twister (that could get some giggles) or bring your laptop into your bed and watch a movie or some funny video clips on YouTube.  You could play a game or ask each other deep and meaningful questions late into the night.

Just have fun together and enjoy that wonderful relationships can have the element of friendship in them, too.

Secret Agent Working For You??

Wouldn't it be fascinating if we had a secret agent working on our behalf?  He/she could seek out the best opportunities for us - the best jobs, the best parking spaces, the best times, the best restaurants, the best clients, the best relationships, the best pets, the best books, and on and on ....

Ah, they could also help us make the best choices in how we react, in what we say, in what we choose to feel.  They could change our lives!  It would be sooo amazing!

WAIT!!  WIAT!!  We do have this!

Who? Where?

We usually call them spirit guides, angels and even God.  I believe this role is mainly held by spirit guides as angels help step in to protect us or save us.  But, our spirit guides, when we welcome them and connect with them, offer us amazing insight and guidance.  It may not always be crystal clear, but it is there if we become more aware and develop our relationship with our guides.

Rob and I recently talked a bit about a spirit guide, Kale, that we have as a couple on our radio show, The Relationship Guides, during part 1 of 2012 Shift for Couples.  Listen to that show archived on Blogtalkradio or download it free from iTunes.

With light and love,
Janelle

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Why Are You Waiting?

Are you waiting for something?  Maybe it is the right opportunity to leave your job or the the right time to take that special trip with the one you love.   The problem is we spend most of our time waiting for the right time.  Then after we get so old we look back and say, "Man I wish I would have done that 15 years ago."

There is no time like the present to do the things you want to do.  Money might be an issue, but if you really put your mind to it you can find a way to save for these things you are waiting for.  Maybe you sell some of the junk you are keeping in your basement or you work a couple of hours of overtime once a week.  These little sums of money can add up very quickly if you set them aside for what you are waiting on.  The reward will quickly be in your sight.

So, stop wishing and start the process of taking that dream vacation with your lover or whatever it is.  There is no time like the present to start working towards it.

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