Just Wanna Be Together

Sometimes it is just enough to sit next to each other and stare off across the ocean.  

Just BE together.  

Janelle

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Couples Vacation

Not every couple can get away by themselves for vacation.  If you have kids, this is really hard.  However, if it is possible to get away for just the two of you it can be a wonderful boost for your relationship.  

Sure, it isn't easy to find someone to watch the children while you are gone and yes, you will want to check in and make sure all is okay while you are gone.  Yet, the adult alone time might be just what your relationship needs.  Being able to go out and not worry about getting home and at a certain time or going to a fancy place to eat that doesn't have clowns and french fries are moments the two of you will cherish.  Plus, the time alone where you can make love anytime you wish or just be naked in your hotel room is amazing.  

We all love our kids, but we need to value our relationship also.  If you get two weeks of vacation, my suggestion is to first plan one week for the entire family, doing kids' things and making sure everyone has fun.  Then take the second week and plan a romantic adventure for the two of you where you two as a couple can connect and be the lovers you are.  

--Rob

Scream at Her - Do You Need To?

Does this seem familiar to you?

Do you feel like your partner just stares at you and doesn't really hear you?

Do you feel like you need to get a megaphone to get him/her to listen?

Yes?

Well, let me ask you this..... (are you ready??  this may be tough to answer honestly...)

Do you just look right through your partner or do you really hear him/her?

Does your partner feel like he/she needs to get a megaphone to get you to listen?

Yep, it is true that what we give out is what we get back (more often than not).  Therefore, before getting pissed at your partner take a good look at yourself and see if you can make a change in yourself first.  Then see what happens....it probably won't happen overnight.  Be patient!

What did you say,

Janelle

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Put A Little Huna In Your Relationship

Serge Kahili King, Ph.D. teacher of Huna

There are many great things you can add to your relationship.  However, one that help shaped my feelings on relationships is the ancient Hawaiian wisdom found in Huna.  Huna is based on love and living in the present.  By leaving the past behind and not worrying about the future you can really focus on the now, and for relationships I feel that is huge.  The book that opened this amazing way to live and love for me is, Huna, Ancient Hawaiian Secrets for Modern Living by Serge Kahili King, Ph.D.  I would recommend that both partners in a relationship read this amazing book together and learn that relationships can be a powerful force in this world.

Shop for Bras Together?

Have you ever gone bra shopping with your partner?

It could be quite exhilarating and not only will you be able to find something that fits you perfectly, but you will know which ones take your lover's breath away ;)

Give it a try....Oh, do this some place that he can see it.  Clearly, you can't shop at your local discount store and show him your potential purchase.  That just wouldn't work.

Find a lingerie store :)

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Happy, Embrace Your Geekness Day

Kip (Napoleon Dynamite) in action chatting with babes all day.

Yes, the title is correct today is a holiday where you are to embrace your geek status.  Many of us in this day and age have at least a little geek in us.  It might be that you are addicted to Facebook, video games, or even chatting on line with babes all day (like our picture of Kip above).  So today don't hold back in honor of the holiday as a couple find something geeky to do.  Chat with each other on the computer in different rooms of the house.  Maybe you might do a little role play with one or both of you dressing the geek part or sitting down and having a heated cyberspace sex chat.   You could even have a video game challenge marathon between the two of you.  The point is to share your geekness with each other and have fun doing it.

--Rob

How to Make a Butterfly Sexy

Still talking about elegance, but making it very sexy....

There are numerous ways to add a butterfly to your body and make it sexy.

The above belly chain.

A beautiful necklace with a V-neck top.
A tattoo.
Dangle earrings.
Beautiful ring.
A soft dress with butterflies.

There are sooo many ways.

Bring in the sexy elegance and turn your lover's head.

Elegant Lingerie Works Much Better Than The Slutty Kind.

For some reason the society we live in bombards us with images of what I would call the slutty lingerie.  It's tight and skimpy and doesn't leave a whole lot to the imagination.  However, there is a much different type of lingerie out there that is elegant and classy.  This type is more likely to appeal to both the wearer and the observer.  For starters, it isn't a struggle to get on.  There are not countless number of straps  or strings to figure out where they go.  So the ease of getting the elegant and classy lingerie on is a huge plus.  The material is another great reason to go for the classy version.  It is usually softer and feels better to both partners.  Lastly and most importantly is when the time comes it is usually easier to get off.  We are not saying that the other lingerie doesn't have it's time and place, but the other raises being sexy to a whole new level.  So tonight find your most elegant and sexy lingerie and enjoy this heightened state of sexiness.  

Naked Text?

Want to get his attention?

Ugh....he is busy typing away on his laptop - AGAIN!

Ah, his cell phone is right next to him.

Send him a simple text, "I'm Naked" :)

I bet you will both get the idea.

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Mix Up Your Music For Love...

One music that I think is full of love and seldom used in a romantic situation is reggae music.  Bob Marley is probably the most notable producer of this love filled music.  Check out the selection of Bob Marley tunes on iTunes and soon you will see how much love and passion is in this music. Plus you get the feeling of being in a warm tropical place with a laid back attitude that can only help get the passion flowing in your current location.  Personally, I feel like this music is great for making love and the words are usually easy to sing to your partner.  

--Rob