Change The Game

Most likely you have at least a few board games in your home.  While our society has gotten way from them for the most part you can bring them back to life and make them a fun part of your relationship.  I invite you to change the game.  Take those classic board games and put a twist on them.  For example you can put the word Strip in front of any game and it becomes and intimate experience for the both of you.  You can also play game to see who has to do specific chores.  For example the loser of this game has to do the dishes for the next week.  Another option would be to write things you have to do on the spots of the board.  For example if you land on one space you might have to kiss your partner, or another might say that you have to give your partner a 10 minute massage.  You can be as creative as you want or a sexy as you want, after all you are changing the game, right!.  Another fun thing to do is to use games that have money involve and set up prizes that you can buy after the game is over.  Some examples might be for 10,000 dollars you can purchase a breakfast in bed from your partner, or for 20,000 you could purchase 2 hours of time in which your partner takes the kids away so you can have piece and quite.  Not only do these things make the games fun but you might just find that those old board games with our new twist are fun.

-Rob-

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Great Date - Go See Blue Man Group

Want a great idea for a date night.  Take your beloved and witness the fun and excitement of Blue Man Group you will not be disappointed.

You Can't Always Drink Sangria

Sangria is a great drink loaded with fruit, but what happens when you are not able to drink alcohol?  Why not use the same trick many do with sangria and do it with your tea.  Throw that cut up fruit in your basic tea and the two of you have a flavorful drink that is safe for when you have the kids or other young adults around.  Or, if you simply don't drink alcohol.  

This can also take the place of soda and can be different each time the two of you enjoy it - depending on what type of fruit you put into the mix.  Blueberries or strawberries alone add a nice change to your normal tea. So make it a treat for the two of you on the next warm day this summer and fruit your tea up a little.  

---Rob

Healthy Couples - Simple Tips

There are some simple tips to being a healthy couple and they really quite simple.  They are listed below.

1. Love each other 

2. Laugh Together

3. Have lots of Sex

4. Be Present With Each Other

5. Share

6. Repeat The Top 5 Over and Over Again.

Simple things are all we need to be healthy and happy.

Rob

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Do You Make Good Music Together?

When I asks the question do you as a couple make good music together, I am not talking about starting a band.  I wonder how your life flows together.  Does your rhythm and harmony work well with each other. Do you seem to be in sync with one another on a constant basis.  While I know that no relationship flows perfectly, I invite you to look at your flow.  Are you normally flowing together and in a blissful state or do your worlds seem to crash together and never mesh.  There is always room for improvement in your song.  Take some time today to think about one thing you can do to create a wonderful harmony in your relationship.  It might be as little as adding one more kiss into each day.  If the both of you do this each and every day, the song you two share will improve each and every day.  

Remember practice makes perfect or at leasts gets you closer to it.  

Peace and Love - Rob

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When Is The Last Time You Were The Dirty Couple?

When we are a couple we are usually more worried about keeping clean.  We clean the house, we shower our bodies, and we keep our cars as clean as possible.  When is the last time the two of you got dirty together?  I am not talking about sex at this point, but when is the last time the two of you did something where you both got filthy?  Getting dirty together in this manner can be a really good exercise for you as a couple.  Look around there are many ways to do this, you can go out next time it rains and find some mud to cover each other in, or there are many muddy events that you can participate in.  Heck I even saw a tomato fight the other day where everyone was covered in red smashed tomatoes.  The point is to experience a different feeling allowing yourselves as a couple to let loose, get dirty and have fun.  You can always clean up later.  I will tell you this too I bet after you experience this fun and see your partner at their dirtiest, when you get home and get cleaned up you might just find that you are getting dirty all over again in a much more sensual way (wink wink)

Rob

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Dr. Dick Sex Advice Podcast

Recently the creators and authors of The Couples Spot talked with Dr. Dick on his Sex Advice Podcast.   The first issue aired on 7-25-2012 and you have to listen (just click the link below) as we discuss many different topics.  From amazing sexual experiences, Sexy Challenges, Inward Oasis, and how our relationship is a spiritual path.  This show is jam packed full of great information so don't miss it.

Dr. Dick Sex Advice Podcast - Sex Wisdom with Rob and Janelle Alex 

Drinking In Your Relationship

Alcohol can be a major problem in relationships.  Alcohol can destroy a relationship, and most of us have seen it happen to someone we know.  This post is however is about another way alcohol can affect your relationship, and that is in the bedroom.  Many people believe that alcohol lowers inhibitions and allows you to be more open sexually.  This my friends is not the truth.  Sure a drink or two might help get you in the mood but alcohol is a depressant.  It will eventually do the exact opposite.  To much alcohol will affect your performance in a negative way.  Many people find that they become unable to perform sexually with to much alcohol.  Plus it numbs the entire feeling of the sexual events.  So is is my humble opinion that you should skip the alcohol and actually enjoy the feeling of the sexual experience as it is meant to be.

Just Shut Up

In a relationship some times you just need to let your partner talk.  If they have had a bad day or a bad experience maybe you just need to let them get their feelings out.  Once they get how it made them feel out in the open they will most likely feel better.  However if you keep trying to offer suggestion or your opinion then they might not be able to get it all out.  This is where your listening skills come into play. SO...

Just Shut UP!

Today BE Too Sexy!

The one hit wonders Right Said Fred may not of had a very long career as musicians.  However their song, "I'm Too Sexy" has had a lasting impact.  So today I challenge you to be too sexy, what do you think about that?  Let your fun side out a little today and go a little overboard on acting sexy.  Do a seductive dance, wear something that you know will turn your partners head, or just put on this song and see what happens.

 

It is also a great day to find a Sexy Challenge that you love and perform it with your partner.  This goes right along with this song.  So maybe you are too sexy for your pussy, my pussy cat.  

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