No Crystal Balls

Relationships are interesting.  Many times we wish we had a crystal ball to tell us how what is going to happen in our relationship next.  However, since most of us could not use a crystal ball correctly, we have to take it as it comes.  Which brings me to the point of this post, stop worrying about where your relationship is going and start living it to the fullest each day.  

Rain Dance Anyone?

Here in the United States this summer has been brutally dry and hot.  Leaving many of us asking for rain.  For me the rain not only is important to the life here on earth but it is also one of the more romantic things.  The sound of the rain on the roof, taking a stroll and having to cuddle up to stay under the umbrella, or just the feel the rain brings are amazing and very sensual.  The next day it rains take a walk with your partner in the rain, with our without an umbrella, enjoy the cool clean feeling you get as you walk with your beloved (now if there is lightning please don't go out, lets be smart and safe).  Then go home and open the windows and make love to each other with the sound of the rain as the background.  Now that my friends is the best rain dance of all.

The Unshaven

Men in our relationships we have a choice to shave or not to shave (among many other choices).  On one hand the unshaven look is sexy and very masculine, which many women seem to love.  On the other hand if you keep that unshaven look many women find it a little to abrasive when if rubs against their skin.  So what do we do?

Here is my answer start shaving at night.  This works for those that have a day job.  This way the stubble builds up before you come home and you have a little of that rugged look when you come through the door.  The hello kiss gets a little of the abrasion but then later you save before going to bed.  Then your partner gets to feel your soft smooth skin and doesn't mind you rubbing your face anywhere on their body!

Female Ejaculation Fact of Fiction

Female Ejaculation is one of the most elusive things to pin point.  Some women say they do it all the time, others say they have never ever done it.  Some say they soak the bed while others say that it is barely noticeable.  For those women that say they do ejaculate during sex, they claim it to be on of the best experiences ever.  There are many books on the subject yet I think we will never know the total truth on the matter because the fact is that it isn't a contest it is a beautiful part of intimacy for those that experience it and not a science experiment.  So, if you are lucky enough to experience this wonder of nature congrats and continue what you are doing.  

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Be Vocal During Sex

We all know that communication is important in our relationships.  However, sometimes we fail to use this communication in our bedroom.  Communication is a key to much success in your intimacy.  Letting your partner know what you like is a major part of getting the enjoyment you want.  So be vocal when something feels good.  You don't have to say it directly but your actions and sounds can key your lover into what feels good to you.  A simple Yes Baby can go a long way to encouraging your partner to keep doing what they are doing.  You both will have a better time when you let each other know what you desire.

-Rob-

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Happy Anniversary My Love

Today is the Anniversary of the day my wonderful partner and I got married.  We have had hard and difficult times but the laughter and fun we have had together far outshines those times.  The strength our love has grown is amazing and I wish to all you out their that you find a love like what I did.  

Honoring you Janelle, the true beauty in my life.

Good Oil = Good Massage

If you love touching your partner like I do then you know the importance of a massage.  It is a connection that feels good and can allow you both to experience true zen.  However a massage without a good massage oil is like not putting oil in your car.  A good oil creates a wonderful scent to enjoy for both of you during the massage, plus it allows your hands to glide and get into those tight muscles without creating cramps in your hands.  A good oil also make both of your skin softer and nicer to touch.  So if you are thinking about massaging your partner start out by going out and getting a good massage oil.  You will both be much more pleased with the outcome.  

-Rob-

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Finding Reminders Of Our Love In Odd Places

Sometimes we find reminders of our love for our partner in the most unusual places.  You might be at the store and see his/her favorite candy bar, or in your car when his/her favorite song comes on the radio.  Just looking around you might find many things that make you think about your lover.  This is your mind reminding you that you are in love!

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Finally Fantasy Football for Couples, With The Focus on FANTASY

Finally couples can take the passion of Football fans and the passion involved with fantasy play and put them together.  What a great way to spend Sundays this fall.  First you watch the game then you let the games begin...

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Men Do Your Kegel Exercises Also

Many men do not know that doing your kegel exercises will improve not only your health but your sex life as well.  We hear of women with strong kegel muscles being strong sexual performers but men who do them are also strong sexual performers.  So it sounds like it is time to start a new work out routine, guys.  Below are some samples of how to perform these kegels.  

How do I know where my PC muscles are?

The easiest way to find them is to stop your flow of urine next time you go to the bathroom. Another way to isolate them is to put your finger inside your anus; when you contract the right muscles, your anus will tighten. However you decide to find them, once they are found you need to practice feeling exactly where they are located -- it is easy to overcompensate for weak muscles by using the abdominals, buttocks or thighs. These must all stay relaxed when doing Kegel exercises for men.

Now, on to the daily Kegel exercises for men.

Note: These exercises are done hands-free. You do not “squeeze” anything with your hands as they are all done with your PC muscles. 

kegel session 1

Exercise A
Sets: 3
Quickly clench and release repeatedly for 10 seconds.

Take a 10-second break between sets.

Exercise B
Sets: 10
Clench and release repeatedly for 5 seconds.

Take a 5-second break between sets.

Exercise C
Sets: 3
Tighten and hold your PC muscle for 30 seconds.

Take a 30 second break between sets.

That’s it for today, but repeat these Kegel exercises for men daily for one week.

kegel session 2

Exercise A
Sets: 10
Clench and hold your PC muscle for 5 seconds.

Release and repeat.

Exercise B
Sets: 3
Quickly clench and release your PC muscle 10 times.

Exercise C
Sets: 3
Clench and release your PC muscle alternatively in long and short bursts for counts of 10.

Exercise D 
Sets: 1
Tighten your PC muscle and hold for as long as you can. Aim for 2 minutes.

You can do the session 2 Kegel exercises for men for a week; however, feel free to progress if you feel you are strong enough. Remember that these are strengthening exercises, so start off slowly and build up, just like you would with any other muscle.


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