Conversation Walks

If you know anything from me you know that I believe in the power of great conversation.  It is foreplay in a entirely wonderful way.  One thing I love to do with my partner is to pick a topic and take a stroll in the evenings.  This allows us to get exercise and to have a wonderful conversation at the same time.  I love the way our conversation flows as we trudge through different areas.  We often find we might have to take a longer way home to get the conversation in.  I suggest that all couples start finding time to do this.  Make it a habit and not only will you be getting healthier but you will be building that wonderful think called your relationship.  

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Facebook for Couples

A growing trend on facebook is having a couples page.  You both might keep your individual pages but you also put together a page that keeps the timeline of your relationship together.  This is a great idea because facebook has gotten a bad rap as being a bad thing in a relationship.  Obviously if your relationship is having troubles then anything can have a negative affect upon it.  I think this is a wonderful way for couples to show the world what it going on in their life, having a facebook page dedicated to your entire family would also be a good idea.  So don't ditch your individual page but think about putting a page up dedicated to your relationship or family and inlist the help of all member in posting.  If you work together your Facebook page could be a real builder in your relationship.  

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Great Classes for Couples - Astronomy

Astronomy is a great activity for couples.  Taking a class on the subject is a great way for the two of you to spend countless nights out under the stars, gazing skyward.  There is a beauty to watching the night sky that creates a romantic atmosphere.  Learning more about it only makes it more meaningful and exciting as you find and track the movement of the universe.  Many local colleges and activity centers will offer classes for those in the community.  Taking time to learn something together is a great way to stay connected and in this case gives you something beautifully romantic to do together. 

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Eating Out Make it A Treat

We have an epidemic in this country about eating out.  In our made paced life it is easier to go somewhere and pick up something to eat then cook it ourselves.  The problem is that not only is this expensive but it is also unhealthy.  The meals we get when we go out to eat usually have double the amount of calories in them then the ones we prepare at home.  Now I don't want everyone to stop going out to eat.  However, I want to get back to the place where it is special.  Set limits on the number of times you go out to eat during a month, and stick to it.  We have decided to only go out to eat once a month and while sometimes it is inconvenient to accomplish this is sure makes us plan ahead.  We now look at going out to eat as a special occasion and not just a easy way to save some time.  When we were young we didn't have much money and every Tuesday night my Grandparents would come over and take us to Burger Chef.  It was a real treat for us as we didn't get it any time besides Tuesday nights.  Then as days passed and times changed I bet we ate fast food at least once a day maybe more.  So this is a lifestyle change that is well accepted by me.  Now I am eating better and I still get that special feeling when we do get to go out and eat.  

Working Together

          I hear so many horror stories about how working together can destroy a marriage.  I saw this first hand when my parents owned their own business.  They are still together, but working beside each other day in and day out didn't make them a very happy couple.  I had my own bouts of this with my wonderful partner as we got in way over our heads in a business that was going nowhere.  Then when that business went away we got our relationship back.  You would think that we wouldn't want to ever work together again. However, quite the contrary is the case.  We have since started another business together and things are going wonderful for the two of us.  You see, working together can be a joy if you are both really working together.   Our first business put us at odds against each other and kept us apart.  This new business sparks both our interests and has made our love grow as deep as it has ever been.  As you decide to venture out and work together make a pact that you will still make time for each other and find something that will interest both of your equally.  Then working together can be a special thing instead of the horror we hear so much.

Couples of Friends

The cast from the movie Couples Retreat

One thing that is nice if you can find it is having friends that are couples also, and you get along with.  Having a good network of friends that are couples, too allows you to enjoy things differently.  When you have good friends that are couples just like yourself if allows you to go out and enjoy life as being a couple.  You can find similar things to do and their never seems to be that third wheel tagging along.  You always have equal teams to play games and it is just fun to have friends this way.  How many couples are you friends with, why not invite them over this weekend and play some games, or just spend the hours talking about the funny parts of relationships that are always present with couples.

Great Romantic Comedy - The 40 Year Old Virgin

Okay if your are looking for a great romantic comedy to rent or buy, The 40 Year Old Virgin might be just the one for you.  Steve Carell is great in this movie about a loser at love and his and his friends quest to find a woman for him.  So if you are looking for a good laugh with that romantic message this is a good choice for you.  

Bath Time Conversations

As you might have found out by now I enjoy great conversations with my beloved.  One of the most wonderful places for these conversations is in the bathtub.  You can be in there together or just one of you with the other sitting on the outside.  The conversations can be wonderful and accompanied by caresses and washing of each other.  Try it out and you just might find that bathtub conversations are right up your alley.  

Want A Fun Erotic Story To Share

For couples that want a little fun in their erotica this book is for you.  Join a couple as they push the limits on what they would do to push their pleasure to the edge of their comfort zone.  Enjoy the funny visions that will pop into your head during this funny yet erotic story.  

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A Simple Mask Can Turn Up the Heat

Adding a simple mask to what ever your wearing quickly turns up the erotic scale on the situation.  Being able to put that simple layer between you and your lover can drive them wild.  Think about this the next time you want to devour your lover.  It allows you to be a slightly different person just for a few minutes.  You become mysterious and even more sexy, even though your partner knows it is you.  Try it out and see what desires it brings to your intimate play.