Be Silly In Your Relationhip

Stupid Cupid Misses Again

I think this happens quite often, what about you?

Valentines Day Energy

Okay ladies and gentlemen, this Valentines Day I want you to do more that just give each other chocolates.  I want you to share the energy you both have to create a blended energy.  You can do it several ways, you can just sit close to each other, or in the Yab Yum position, or you can make love.  Focus on the energy of your partner during this and enjoy.  This will make your Valentines way more exciting. 

Lastly I just want to wish my beloved, Janelle, a wonderful day.  She brings such light to my life I am amazed by her.  

Looking For A Great Place to Eat?

Hey everybody.  I wanted to share a cool website I found with you.  You know how much of a foodie I am, so while I was looking around on the Net, I found an interesting website that lets you post video reviews!  I’ve never seen anything out there like it, and I’ve shuffled through a lot of food-focused websites.  I loved the idea, because it lets you actually see people talking about the food.  That makes a huge difference.  I mean, we’ve gotten used to written reviews and they’re fine, but a video review really lets you get the whole experience.  You’ll see real people talk about food that moved them in some way – good or bad.  I know sometimes I make faces that are hard to really translate into words.  With this video option, people can make those faces and the message isn’t lost.  Their tone, their facial expressions, and their body language all come together to let you really know how they felt about the food.  Cool, right?

The website is AmericanEateries.com.  You can search for reviews on this website, but they also do lots of other neat things too. You can chat with other people who use the site and discuss a particular restaurant in more depth.  You can also post coupons for people to use and share recipes.  They give you a private mailbox on the site so that you can have a one-on-one conversation with someone you meet.  When you sign up for a free account on the site, you can post a picture too, so your whole foodie search can turn into something else entirely.  Think about it – a cute guy writing about the same type of food that you like - it’s the perfect icebreaker!

AmericanEateries.com also advertises daily specials and they give a way a $50 gift card every single week if you write a review that really shines.  It can be funny, from a different point of view, creative – whatever.  They’ll give you $50 if it stands out from the rest of the reviews they get that week. 

Check out what they have to offer.  It’s definitely worth a visit!

We Love The Practices From The Guru

Messages from the Heart are sure to bring you lots of ways to tell each other how much you love one another.  This simple practice from The Guru Of Getting It On, just might create a turning point in your relationship.  

Click here to witness it on the Amazon Store

Enjoy Your Heart Shaped Box this Valentines

Sexy Challenges is brining you a way to communicate with your lover like never before.  With the aid of a simple heart shaped box, see how you can start a tradition in your relationship that will get you two closer then ever.   

Click here to get it on iTunes

Also available for the kindle and nook.  

Art Can Be An Amazing Addition To Your Relationship

Many state that a great relationship is just like a great work of art.  You have to put your heart and soul into both to get a wonderful finished product.  When you can mix all these wonderful things you picture gets better and better just like your relationship.  Think about the art work you enjoy, and how does it mirror your relationship?

Check out Zob Art on Amazon and get bring some art into your relationship.

Oh Baby, Show Me Your Mind!!!

The Guru Of Getting It On, encourages you to exercise your mind just like you do your body.

While a fluffy body is not that attractive to most, a fluffy mind is equally unattractive.  

What can you do to exercise your mind?

Read a Book.

Do a mind Puzzle.

Take a class.

Have great conversations.

Etc. 

Water A Conductor Of Love

Water is a conductor of love.

If your like most people there is a strong connection between water and romance.  Think about it what are the most romantic places. The Beach, waterfalls, lakes, streams, etc it is my feeling that water conducts love!  I feel like when you are near a body of water that you can feel the love of all the other lovers that have been by that body of water.  Now if you are open that love will fill you up and create even more love in the two of you.

Try this next time you are near a body of water and see how romantic you feel.  

Bring Water into your relationship with the Sexy Challenge - Let's Swim to The Moon

Available on iTunes, Amazon Kindle & Nook

Smiles Are A Sign Of Good Things To Come

Few couples make the connection between a partner's low sex drive and a mood disorder such as depression. While most people know what it feels like to be down or have "the blues," depression is a serious mental illness that can interfere with a person's sexuality and relationship in all kinds of ways. Many people, however, don't know what depression looks like, and that's a problem, because if you don't know what you're faced with, you're going to have a hard time making things better.

Depression and a low sex drive go together in a couple of ways:

• Fatigue is a big part of depression, so if you frequently feel "too tired" for sex, it might be a symptom of a mood problem.

• You may not enjoy things you used to enjoy doing, and sex may be one of them.

• Although you may be hurting, your behavior may send signals that you want to be left alone, causing emotional distance between yourself and your partner.

• You feel lethargic, as if you could hardly move; since sex requires movement, it carries little appeal.

• Feeling hopeless or helpless are common in depression--and not very sexy.

Feeling depressed is not a sign of a character flaw. In our culture, we are often told to "Buck up," "Get on with life," or "Smile, it's contagious," which makes admitting that one is down very difficult. Depression happens for all kinds of reasons, but is usually connected to feelings of loss or worthlessness. Depression can also be physical, as when someone's hormones are out of balance or there is a chronic illness. Unfortunately, depression sometimes gets missed because not everyone knows its symptoms.

You might also consider that one reason you may be feeling depressed is because you aren't having enough sex. Orgasm helps the body to relax. Many brain chemicals, including serotonin, are released in the brain during orgasm. If you are in the habit of denying your sexual needs, you might be at risk for depression. If you don't have a partner available or don't feel up to partnered sex, you might try self-pleasuring in order to have sexual, physical, and emotional release from built up tension.

If you suspect that depression is getting in the way of sexual connection and pleasure, you have many options for getting better, including medication, psychotherapy, and self-help, e.g., developing a more positive outlook and a healthy routine. Please be aware that antidepressants can have sexual side effects, which you should discuss with your physician. In the meantime, you and your partner will need to learn how to stay connected even though you may feel bad. Try to tune into yourself to see what you might need, rather than denying yourself. Listen to what your partner needs, too, because feeling needed may help you feel less depressed.

Dr. Stephanie Buehler is the author of Sex, Love, and Mental Illness: A Couple's Guide to Staying Connected. She is a psychologist, sex therapist, and Director of The Buehler Institute in Newport Beach, CA. If you want to learn more about relationships and sexuality, visit her blog at http://www.theblogerotic.com.

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