Friday, March 10, 2017

Communication Basics


Communication in your relationship might seem to some like the game Boggle.  Where all the words are shaken up and you are trying to piece them together.  This is not uncommon in many relationships.  Communication is often the spot where a relationship breaks down and take a turn for the good or bad.  Communication can get better the longer you are together, it doesn't have to get worse.  You just have to find and understand the best way each of you communicate.  Don't expect your partner to communicate in the way you do.  Blend both your communication styles into one that works for your relationship.  

Here is a book we put together on the 8 Ways We Communicate With Our Partner


Tuesday, March 7, 2017

When Veils Come Undone


A thin layer of material or a veil can add just enough of a hint of mystery to make things even more sexy during those intimate moments.   A see through veil like the one above while not covering much can also mask the totally perception of what is behind the veil and add the illusion of mystery.  For those uncomfortable with being naked a veil can often help create the sexy environment the both partners want but still keep either partner from feeling uncomfortable.  So keep some veils around your home they can change the perceptions and comfort level deepening on your mood.  


Sexy Challenges wishes to share our Veils with you!



Saturday, March 4, 2017

Chewbacca Quotes


Chewbacca, is one of my favorite characters from Star Wars.  However, he hardly ever gets props for his quotes and wisdom.  Everyone is always quoting Yoda, Darth Vader, or even Stormtroopers.  Let's give Chewbacca his day in the sun and share this amazing quote.  Such passion such wisdom from the big Wookie. 


Now for some more on Language:



Wednesday, March 1, 2017

Will Love Blend?


One of the most amazing campaigns ever were for "Will It Blend"  The objective was to advertise their blenders by putting things in them you never would put in a blender.  These videos got rave reviews and a cult following and also helped sell a lot of blenders.  Watch this issue and see how they Glow Sticks work in a blender.  

Next up they should try blending a 
Sexy Challenge 


Sunday, February 26, 2017

FREEDOM Are You Ready For It?


In July of 2015 I had the good fortune of leaving my corporate job and beginning a life of freedom  with my best friend, partner and wife.  Did I hit the lottery?  Well that would have made it a little easier but no that is not what happened.  We had been kicking the idea around for years but always found things to stop or or to put it off for the future.  However, something happened that year, and we set a date to achieve this feat.  With that date on the wall everyday we grew closer to that moment and when if finally happened it was so freeing.  We have been on this journey of travel and adventure for a year and a half now.  Sure it was and is difficult at times, but there are so many amazing things that go along with it.  

What I want for you is to have the opportunity, also.  To take your shot to put that date on your wall and to feel the power it gives you.  

We have constructed a a free class to help you achieve this goal and want to just give it to you!  Why?  Because we have an obligation to pass along this information so maybe you start your journey a year earlier or 5 years, or maybe even 10 years early.  That way you get to enjoy this freedom for more of the time in your life.  

Just click below and see how you can start your life moving to one of freedom.

Thursday, February 23, 2017

Frozen Panties and other Bobsled Concerns


Bobsledders are they just kids that never grew up, or it it more of an rush for speed.  I don't know how many times as a child I pictured my plastic sled as being a state of the art bobsled cursing down the course.  Now when I sled my only goad is not to get hurt. 


This is more of what I get now when I go sledding,


Monday, February 20, 2017

Happiness Notes



Happiness Notes are basically sharing love.

By creating simple yet powerful simple notes, we can change the world.  Create more love, more happiness and more smiles.  We are looking for an army of Happiness Notes people to hand out as many happiness notes as we can in our world.  

Let's brighten up as many peoples lives as we can.  Together we can create a world that is full more love

Peace and Love, 
Rob Alex, Ph.D. 

Sunday, February 19, 2017

Laugher Is A Sign Your Relationship Is Awesome


Laughing at yourself is hard enough!  However, laughing at yourself in a relationship or intimate situation is even more difficult.  We all view things through our own eyes.  So if your trying to be sexy and you trip coming to bed, it could seem funny to your partner but to you it might ruin the mood.  Another great example is all those Kama Sutra positions, trying to get into those can be quite funny.  Laughter might happen and it might offend one partner.  

Here is my answer, get over it.  A relationship that has free flowing laughter on all sides is one that is fun to be in.  It is my opinion that laugher is one of the most amazing foreplay tools we can use.  There is something special about laugher that ties it closely to orgasm.  So they next time your partner laughs during intimacy instead of being offended go with it.  Play up on the laughter and just watch how hot your intimacy becomes.  This intimate laugher will even carry over and you make mentions about the situation later on.  

Now go have a Ball!!!


Sexy Challenge's Having a Ball With Sex is a great tool to help with your laugher in the bedroom