Biggest Fan

Don't get into this scene and start bashing your partner.  

          Are you your partners biggest fan?  If not you should be you should be excited with their achievements and express that to them.  Things like getting a raise or finishing school should be things you not only express your amazement over but to let them know how wonderful you think they are just because.  You can do things as easy as taking out the garbage with a warm thank you to making huge signs to congratulate each other for getting a promotion.  Don't stop with expressing your excitement with them spread it out to your friends and family about how wonderful your partner is.  Resist the temptation to bad mouth your partner when you are with your friends.  Make a pack to never say anything bad about your partner to anyone and when they talk bad about theirs then reinforce your views on how great your partner is.