Put the new back in your relationship.

          We are all searching for ways to keep our relationship fresh and exciting.  We need new and exciting things in our bedrooms but we also just need them in our relationship.  People always talk about putting the spark back into their relationship and everyone assumes that it means into their sex life.  While the sex life is a good place to put the spark into, your everyday life is also a great place to put the spark into.  When is the last time the two of you tried anything different?  When is the last time you went to a different restaurant, or broke out of your comfort zone and got your adrenaline pumping together?  Do you do things on the spur of the moment or is everything planned out?  These are important questions to be asking each other.  Remember when you were dating and you had no idea what each other liked to do, what did you do then?  You tried different things to see what each other enjoyed.  Why not put that system back in place only finding things that you like together.  Take some classes, go on group tours, heck just go to a city you have never been before and explore their sites.  The important thing is that you do it together just like when you were dating.  Remember that feeling of not caring what you were doing but that you were doing it with this wonderful person.  Now get out there and add that spark into your relationship and I bet you it will creep into your bedroom also.