We all want things to go our way. We want our partners to do what we need and we don't usually think it is out of the way to please us. However, when you think about it, what are you doing to make your relationship better?
Are you doing the things your partner wants? Are you making changes to better your relationship? Do you think that your partner is asking too much?
Well, you both might be feeling the same way, SELFISH. We can only control ourselves and if you want someone to change, you have to put the message out there and hope he/she listens. Then, you need to drop it. If you continually try to change him/her, your partner will feel unappreciated and unloved. In fact, he/she will likely dig his/her heels in and resist any type of change even more.
So what can you do? Change YOU first! If you want change in your relationship, focus on yourself and let the rest fall as it will.
Are you doing the things your partner wants? Are you making changes to better your relationship? Do you think that your partner is asking too much?
Well, you both might be feeling the same way, SELFISH. We can only control ourselves and if you want someone to change, you have to put the message out there and hope he/she listens. Then, you need to drop it. If you continually try to change him/her, your partner will feel unappreciated and unloved. In fact, he/she will likely dig his/her heels in and resist any type of change even more.
So what can you do? Change YOU first! If you want change in your relationship, focus on yourself and let the rest fall as it will.
Yes I myself am taking great strides to improve the relationship with my boyfriend. We have communication problems from time to time, but we still love each other. Just keep moving forward and don't dwell on them.
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