A Simple Mask Can Turn Up the Heat

Adding a simple mask to what ever your wearing quickly turns up the erotic scale on the situation.  Being able to put that simple layer between you and your lover can drive them wild.  Think about this the next time you want to devour your lover.  It allows you to be a slightly different person just for a few minutes.  You become mysterious and even more sexy, even though your partner knows it is you.  Try it out and see what desires it brings to your intimate play.  

When the worst hits it is great to fall into the arms of the one you love

We all have bad days and even worse days on occasion.  These will happen and they are a way to improve yourself.  However, they still stink and don't feel well.  The most wonderful thing about having a loving partner is to fall into their arms when this happens. Having that comfort zone will be a safe haven for you and will give you extra strength to learn and grow.  Make a standing arrangement today to offer you arms for you love and let them know you are there whenever they need you.

Working On The Weekend

Not everyone gets the weekends off.  Some people have to work then, which really sucks for them because it seems the rest of the world gets the weekends off.  You can look at if differently, however.  Forget about the titles of the days and if you get Monday and Tuesday, off treat them as a Saturday and Sunday.  In a relationship, try to match up your work schedules as best you can, even to the point of asking for certain weekdays off so that they two of you can be together.  If one of you is going to have to work the weekend, then adjust your schedules and make the weekend fall when you need it to.  

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Sex Is A Gift

Here is a really simple idea I want you to think about!

Instead of viewing sex for your pleasure why not view it as a gift you can give your lover?

How special is that to make your partner feel this wonderful gift.  

That my friends is true love.

REMEMBER! 

Today is Sexy Challenges' Universal Orgasm Night!

Share a special orgasm with your sweetie ;)

First Day Of Autumn - Time To Take A Drive or Stroll

Okay today is a magical day, it is the first day of Autumn.  It is the time of the harvest, time to reap the benefits of the long hot summer.  It is time to enjoy the changing of the leaves and watch the world prepare for winter.  It is a great time for long walks or a nice drive in the country.  There is something wonderful about the world when the leaves start to change color.  Being a part of it and watching it change daily is a wonderful experience to share with your beloved.  

This first day of Autumn 2012, is a special on as it is exactly 3 months before the Mayan Calendar turns over and begins anew, depending on which faction you believe.  So make it extra special and spend plenty of time out doors during this time of season, the air smells wonderful and it won't be long before the cold winds will howl and it will not be so pleasant to go outside.  

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Universal Orgasm Night!

Let's all join in on this and see how amazing we can make the sexual energy in our universe.  

Sex As A Work Out

Many people work out to be sexier but what if you use sex as your work out?  Does that make you even sexier as the pounds melt off?  You can search on the internet and find the calories that you burn during sexual activity.  With this knowledge you could set up a sexual work out chart and start seeing how many extra calories you can burn up with your sexual work out.  Charting this can be fun and it can help you make sure you work all sexual areas instead of just focusing on one area.  The beauty of this is you don't have to worry about those expensive exercise clothes.

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Sex Toys At A Garage Sale

One thing I can truly saw I have never saw, is sex toys at a garage sale.  Which really surprises me because I have seen some pretty personal items for sale at these trashy treasure hunts.  I mean come on some toys can be sterilized and cleaned depending on what they are made of.  Maybe I haven't ventured far enough into garage sale land to find this.  So I would love to hear if any of you out there have ever witnessed this.  Drop me at email at thecouplesspot@gmail.com and enclose a picture if you can.

If you are the humorous couple this might be a funny gag to play.  Setting up a table of just sex toys and seeing the reactions of people as they came up to browse.  Video that if you do it and send it to me this could be a real hoot.

Sexy Smells

One thing you don't want to overlook when trying to make your relationship great is your sense of smell. Various smells are appealing to different people. So you have to do a little trial and error. Some people are attracted to flowery smells such as geraniums, lavender or roses. Still others find food smells appealing things such as vanilla, pumpkin spice, and cinnamon. Just like you have to search for cologne and perfume that your partner enjoys you need to do the same for scents you might use in your bedroom or as lotions on yourself. A good method to try is to go the store and smell the candles. They come in a variety of smells and are strong enough for you to get a good feel just by sniffing them. Let me tell you a good smell can create a wonderful mood in the bedroom. This added scent can work wonders on getting your partner in the mood. For instance my partner has some vanilla lotion that drives me wild when she wears it as well as some peppermint lotion. Yes sometime smells can be overdone so don't over do it. A rule of thumb to use is that a little smell goes a long way. You each also have your own unique sent so don't underestimate that. Some people just love to smell each other and that can be a turn on it's self.

Need You Tonight - One of the Sexiest Songs of All Time

One you see this video below you will know why INXS could never replace the sexy Michael Hutchence as lead vocalists.  We would love to hear what you feel is the sexiest songs of all time.  Please comment below so we can check them out.

Peace and Love ,

Rob