How much effort are you putting into your relationship?

Have you ever stooped to wonder how much effort you are putting into your relationship. Shouldn't it be one of the top things on your list as far as time and effort? Think about it for a minute and calculate how much time you spend preparing or working on your relationship. I bet your start to see that you are spending more time working out or surfing the Internet then you are at thinking of ways to better your relationship. Kids with standing, your partner should be the most important person in your life. Friends and Family can be a close second but your partner should be the be all end all. Think about it this way, who are you going to be with when the kids grow up and you retire to that special destination? Show where should you be putting your time to get the most for your return? Chew on that the next time you don't think you have time to pick up something special, or do something nice for your lover.