Undressing Each Other

What do you feel when your partner starts to undress you?  Do you feel a rush of excitement knowing that love making is going to happen.  Do shivers go up and down your back with each button they undo.  What about the sound of your zipper being undone or when you feel that first touch against your bare skin.  Do you like it when you partner undresses you from in front of you or from behind you, lights on or light off.  Do the two of you kiss while this undressing is taking place?  All these questions might start to get you a little excited right now.  If so invite your partner tonight to undress you and pay attention to the feelings that we mentioned above and see if it creates a stronger yearning in you for the intimacy you are about to share.  

Adam and Eve - Naked Day

Okay it is friday night and if you don't have anything special to do tonight we have a suggestion.  Why not spend it Adam and Eve Style.  Naked with something very natural covering your.  Go out and pick up some leaves or flowers.  Bring them inside and together create your own fig leave costume.  Once finished take turns modeling them for each other and let the leaves start flying.  

Wishing You Were Here

Have you ever been someplace and realized that your partner would love this place.  You so want to share the experience with your partner.  However, what ever the reason it is no possible.  So, what do you do? 

Well there are several things you can do.  In this day and age you most likely could snap a picture on your phone to share with them later.  You could alway bring them to the spot on another day and hope for the same experience to share with them.  However, I think it would best if you describe it to them in your words and try to give them a mental image of the experience.  Taking the time to explain all the little details such as the smell in the air, the sounds, the way it made you feel will really touch your partner in deeper way, than just showing them a picture.  Try it next time and see the connection it brings.  

If your partner left you a love note....

If your partner left you a love note, what kind of note would you like it to be.

1. A Poem - Sweet and from the Heart?

2. A Humorous attempt to get you in bed later?

3. A Personal Message describing the ways they love you?

4. A Hot and Steamy, down and dirty Message?

5. Something else?

Tell us which type of letter you would like to receive. Give us details and if you have gotten any give us the scoop on them.

Thanks,

Rob

Do it yourself fashion shoot

Pictures are a wonderful thing I love to have amazing photos of my partner and our kids around our house.  However getting professional pictures done can be a little expensive.  So I suggest going out and doing your own fashion shoot.  Set a date and just drive around looking for wonderful places to take pictures of each other.  Enlist some friends or your kids to take pictures of the two of you together. You could also use a tripod and the delay setting on your camera to capture some great shots of the two of you.  Below is a picture we took together with it was a fun day on our fashion shoot.

Babysitter Co-ops

A common problem for couples going out on dates is finding the keeping a good babysitter.  First of all it is hard to find a good one and if they are very good they won't last very long as others will want their services. 

Why not start a babysitting Co-op?  What this would be is that you get together with a few other couples and form a community.  Obviously these are couples you know and trust.  Then you all take turns going on date nights and watching each others kids.  For example if you have 4 couples then one weekend night each month it is your turn to watch everyone's kids.  That means that 3 weekend nights during the month the other couples will be watching your children.  You feel safe and comfortable and the children will already know the other adults and feel comfortable.  I would trade one night a month to have 3 nights a month totally alone with my beloved. 

Another idea would be for all four couples to pitch in and pay for one great baby sitter to watch all the kids.  You would be able to offer a higher rate with everyone pitching in and that would attract the cream of the crop babysitters.  Then you all could go out together at some point and time.  

American Reunion

I know you are thinking how many of the American Pie shows can they make.  While this one might not be as funny as the others it carries many wonderful messages of how our lives might not end up the way we expect them.  It shows that no matter which character you relate with there are problems out there for you.  Sure there is the crude humor (that I seem to like) as in all the movies but this one is one you can snuggle up on the couch and watch together.  Don't want to ruin it for you but you might not guess who ends up with Stiffler's Mom this time.  

Couples Wearing The Same Shirt - DORKY

Okay folks, I hope I am not crossing the line but as a couple you do not more connected if you are wearing the same shirt.  Actually it is a bit creepy to me.  You can have the same shirt if you both like it but if you both come down stairs wearing it one has to go change.  This is not an option!  Couples are not twins they do not need to dress alike it is just plain DORKY!

Don't Let No Money Ruin Date Night

I get so tired of hearing people say that they would love to have a date night but don't have any money! This is an excuse that is for those that really don't want to try.  There are so many things you can do for free or next to nothing.  When did going on a date have to involve spending every penny you have.  If your in a committed relationship you are probably mingling funds so it becomes our money.  So work together to save "our" money and find ways to have great dates without breaking the bank.

Number one look for coupons or buy one get one free offers.  Some might say it is cheap to do this but spending more money than you have to for the same thing sounds really smart to me.  Find great places to take walks, a simple walk and talk could be a wonderful romantic way to spend a date night.  Trade babysitting with other couples to save money, get a bottle of wine and sit on your deck and converse under the moon light, go to the beach and rub suntan lotion on each other, the possibilities are endless and the excuses don't work.  So start planing now for you next "I don't have any money" date.  

Clean Sheets Could Add Excitement To Your Sex Life

You know clean sheets could be considered a sex enhancer.  Think about it the smell of recently clean sheets has a soothing smell to them.  Plus it feels so much better slipping between fresh clean sheets.  Think about it we lose skin constantly during those sleeping hours and where do you think it is, obviously in our sheets.  Plus we sweat, our kids jump on our beds, we have sex on top of them all these things add up.

So I say if you want to get intimate tonight with your love, change the sheets on your bed.  Now I am not talking about getting the ones out of the closet that have been in there for a month.  Pull some out wash them and dry them and put them on right before the two of you snuggle down for the evening.  Now that is how you turn your sheets into an intimacy enhancer.