Imortalize Your Love

How many picture of the two of you do you have?  I would guess not enough.  One sure way to immortalize your love it to have lot of picture of the two of you in different places.  You don't have to go so far as having a statue made but if that works for you go for it.  The point of all this is to have items that are visual images of your love for each other.  Those visuals of your love can help serve as a constant reminder of your love for each other.  

Can Sacred Mean Fun????

It's Friday and it is the day that we answer questions from our listeners.   The topic on this show is if you put sacredness into your intimacy can it still be fun.  Join us as we answer this question and show that the word sacred doesn't have to mean stiff.  Fun is an important part of any relationship and part of making it sacred is allowing that fun and laughter to weave it's way into your intimacy.  If you might have a question for us to explore please send it to us at janelle@inwardoasis.com .  Until then keep loving and laughing.

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Get a jump on your fireplace now.

For those of you lucky enough to have a fire place inside your house, now is the time to get things ready for those romantic nights spend in front of the fire as the snow flies. Do some initial checking to make sure you fire place is clean and ready to warm up the night. Hire a chimney sweep to get a professional job, they really are not that expensive and will add live and safety to your fire place. Once you know that the fire place is ready it is time to make sure the area around the fireplace is ready. Do you have comfortable chairs to relax in as the you listen to the crackle of the wood. Speaking of wood have you stocked up on it, once the first snow starts falling it makes it a little harder to get the wood and if you pay for it, it will be more expensive once the snow hits. Make sure you have plenty of tables around for sitting drinks or books or anything else you might need as the fire warms you up. Stock up on your favorite relaxing drink and make sure you have the proper tools to work with the fire. All this work might seem a bit much right now but think of it this way when your partner drops their robe to reveal a sexy little nighty the last think you want to worry about is that it is getting cold in the room. Now on the other hand if you have everything in place you are free to enjoy that little nighty, too

When You Are In Love, Anywhere Can Be Romantic

One of the most amazing things about being in love is that it turns the entire world into a romantic place.  Think about it when you first fell in love it didn't matter where you ended up as long as you were together.  Like this picture above you can almost feel the love these young lovers have for each other.  A park bench is usually very uncomfortable but in this case it because the most comfy place because of the love being shared.  Where have you found love to make it better in your life and we would love you to share you comments below.  

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Comfortable Sweatshirts (Red Hooded Sweatshirt)

One of the best things about this time of year is pulling out your favorite sweatshirt and enjoying it during the fall season.  Check out the video below from Adam Sandler about his Red Hooded Sweatshirt and see how much love a person can have for a sweatshirt.

Plus if anyone of you know me very well you know I can't resist a chance to put an Adam Sandler bit into my posts.

Play in the Leaves

As a kids we use to have the grandest time playing in the leaves.  Now leaves just are about raking and chores to us.  I remember the days when we would rake all the leaves in our yard just to make a pile big enough to jump into.  You know this can still be a fun activity for us in our adult life.  If you have kids you have an in right there.  If not invite the neighbor children (with their parents permission) to come down and help celebrate fall with you, heck why not just invite the neighborhood over.  

One year as kids we collected leaves from every yard in the neighborhood.  Dragged them down to one house with a old bed sheet and made a monster pile of leaves.  The entire neighborhood came down and either jumped in or took pictures / video.  Why not start that tradition in your neighborhood, the kids will love it and you can let that inner kid in you out to play for a while  

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Bullying - Stop it Now - Maureen McGrath

Watch this video on Bullying!  Maureen McGrath explains how bullying can cross over into work as well as your personal life.  All I can say is "Stop IT"  bullying only makes you look like an idiot besides being hurtful to others.  

Where would you leave a love note for your partner?

Our readers respond to the best places to leave a love note for your partner. It seems that our readers enjoy leaving hand written notes for their lovers to find in places like, in a pocket of their clothes, or on their pillow (both of these received 37% of the votes) Sending the note via the regular mail and texting both brought a response of 12%. Our readers would avoid sending a love note over email or voice mail. So it seems the old fashion hand written note works the best left in a place for them to discover it later.

Careful What You Say Around Your Kids

I was just sitting in the living room when my 5 year old son just says, "I'm Horny"  Now I know that he got the line off the movie Grown Ups.  However my concern rises where he might be saying this at school, leading his teachers to wonder why he is saying this.  We explained that it isn't something to say for a young person but as I am explaining this to him.  He shows me a toy and the toy has a horn on it's head.  He points to it and says well he is horny!  The innocent age is wonderful and one day he will really will be horny but for today it is just his toy!

Sexy Challenge Heartbeats - Relationship Evolution

Join Rob and Janelle on this episode of Sexy Challenge Heartbeats as they talk about how your relationship evolves over time.  If you think your relationship will stay the same for ever you might be surprised at what you will hear.  Click the link below and enjoy the show!  Make sure to subscribe via iTunes so you never miss a show.

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