Keep your partner comfortable with the changing of the season.

Right now where we live it is cold and snowy but before we know it the weather will change and the heat will be unbearable. Keeping your living space livable is your mission. Do you have extra blanket in the areas your partner will frequent during the cold months? Places where they like to curl up and read or on your bed to keep warm and snuggly? With these simple things as placing a blanket somewhere can really improve you stock in the relationship. Maybe whipping up some hot chocolate or buying some warm slippers will not only help keep the blood pumping in your partner but will also help you keep your fuel bills down. Same goes for the summer hot months do you have fans ready for the really hot days. Again, offering some ice cold drinks would make you look like a saint as the mercury in the thermometer rises. Make sure you also have all your clothes ready for the changing of the seasons also. Sweaters and sweatshirts for fall and winter and shorts and t-shirts when spring and summer roll around. By keeping your partner comfortable you will reap the rewards as they have to thank you is some manner.

Different Views

Have you ever noticed how people perceive things in different ways? Like one person finds sweaty people sexy while another things that when you sweat it is just gross. It makes you wonder why we can be so different. How can one person love to see women in stockings and another say they look like a street walker. This different view flow into our live at every angle. Art is a great example, some paintings appeal to me and some that I find not very good at all sale for hundreds of thousands of dollars. This makes me think am I missing something, is my perception off kilter. I think these is something you need to consider in your relationship. So when you partner asks you to wear something sexy for them or doesn't like the drapes you have picked out we don't become lost in our perspective. You will never be able to see through your partners perspective but understand it is okay for them to have a different perspective then you do. So next time your partner asks you to wear that nightie that you hate or to get really sweaty before you make love, you might have a little more insight and understanding. This doesn't mean it will change your perspective but it might help you please your partner. Understanding that they just have a different perspective is okay and that you don't have to always cater to their perspective but every once it a while is okay. Who knows you might like their perspective a little better if you try it.

Beating the Heat

Today will be the first day in the 90's this summer for use here in the Midwest. As we struggle to find ways to beat the heat, sometime forget that the warm air is a blessing. We need to remember those days of subzero temperatures that haunt us during the winter months. Take some time to figure out ways to cool down as a couple. Most people don't like to be all sweaty and next to each other so take some steps so you can get close during the heat wave. If you going to watch a movie together set up some fans all around the two of you so that you have a breeze blowing from every direction. Try to figure out ways to avoid the air conditioning as it is bad for the environment. Find a pool somewhere that the two of you can just relax in. Go to the mall they always have the air cool as possible. Thing of things the two of you can do that will be cool and fun. Go to the zoo and spend all day in the penguin exhibit. Fix yourselves an endless supply of fruity drinks and spend the day sipping them in style. The point is you need to find ways together to beat the heat. Heck take a cold shower together and see if you both can still get aroused!!!