Sex Exercise Planks

If A Tree Falls...

Question:

If a tree falls in the woods

Do the other trees laugh?

Sexy Flameless Candles

Click above to check out these awesome flameless candles

Okay if you are familiar with our products and teachings from Sexy Challenges you know we mention flameless candles a lot.  We love candle light, however sometimes actual candles are not the safest thing to have around.  If there is going to be a lot of movement and activity in your bedroom (which we hope for you) then actual flameless candles can be quick scary.   So the flameless ones can be a great alternative.  The ones I have pictured above are awesome not only do they have the realistic look but they also come with a remote control so that when the time is right to extinguish the candles you don't even have to get up.  The soft glow of candle light is so sexy and now it can be safe too.

Sex and Your Soul!

The physical health benefits of sex are widely known.  In fact, information on the mental and emotional health benefits are commonly talked about, too.  But, what is rarely mentioned is how you can enhance your connection to your soul and to your lover’s soul through lovemaking.  Orgasmic and sexual energy opens a gateway into the spiritual dimension.

Being aware of the sensations in your body as well as any out-of-body sensations during lovemaking and/or at the point of orgasm offers you the opportunity to direct the sexual energy toward a goal.  Your goal may be any range of things from physical healing to a new job to deepening your intuition and connection to spirit.

As you likely already know, everything is made up of energy.  Making passionate love to your sweetheart draws together a plethora of powerful orgasmic energy.  It is this phenomenally influential and magickal energy that you can learn to focus towards those amazing things you are wishing to magnetize to you. 

Focusing on opening a spiritual gateway and having a goal set for your orgasmic energy doesn’t take away from your sexual experience.  In fact, it can actually deepen the bond between you and your lover and heighten your sensuality.  Instead of getting lost in just the physical pleasure, you become more fully present and open to the sacredness of your physical, emotional, mental and spiritual bond between the two of you.

Tapping into the ultimate creative source through sex within a committed loving relationship allows a spiritual channel to open.  Your creativity will be enhanced, your self-esteem and confidence will expand, you will be able to gain deeper clarity, your problem solving skills will increase, you will move beyond your current pleasure boundaries and your sex life, your emotional life and your spirituality will be stimulated.  

In these modern times, more and more people are seeking ways to expand their consciousness.  They want to connect to their souls and have better access to their intuition.  There are a vast number of spiritual practices that can help you do this – reconnecting with nature; meditating; yoga; shamanic journeying; having a session with a channeling expert, trance dancing and much more.  In ancient times, it was understood that sacred sexuality was a spiritual practice as well.  Over time, fear and disbelief have hidden this beautiful knowledge from daily life, but it is past time to remember how profound and extraordinary sacred lovemaking truly is.

You may be wondering how to access this if you are not currently in a loving, committed relationship.  Can you open that gateway alone?  Can you direct sexual energy and draw amazing things into your life by yourself?  The answer is yes.  Yet at the same time, it is important to point out that when two people are creating or drawing sexual energy together and together they focus on a specific outcome the results are exponentially more powerful.   

Whether you learn to engage in sacred sexual and magickal practices alone or together with your beloved you will activate your Divine power.  You will potentially gain access to deeper intuition, your Spirit guides, past life experiences, and healing.  You will discover a sense of joyful bliss that you can tap into whenever you want it or need it.  And, the synchronistic and serendipitous events that begin to show up in your daily life will leave you in awe and wonder.

Does this sound similar to the Law of Attraction method?  Well, they are similar, but at the same time quite different.  Learning and implementing sacred sexual and magickal practices goes much deeper than the basic concepts of the Law of Attraction.  When you are in a space in which you can blend your spirit with your lover’s and merge your sexual and orgasmic energy together the results are – well, out of this world.

The most amazing part is that you don’t have to learn special positions or special physical techniques to bring these phenomena into your life.  It is about learning to open your heart and open your soul to positive and light-filled experience.  It is about learning to connect with and then collaborate with your soul and your lover’s soul.  Anyone can learn to direct sexual energy through a variety of magickal methods.  Therefore, it doesn’t matter who you are, you have access to the Divine, to the Universe, to Spirit, to God, to the Creative Source just like everyone else.
 

Janelle Alex, Ph.D. & Rob Alex, M.Sc. – Co-Founders of Sexy Challenges

© 2013

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Drop Me a Line (Ways We Communicate w/Lover 5 of 8)

Remember to be discreet with your emails!

Who know who might be looking over your shoulder.

Part 5 of 8

 Email – This is not that different than texting except that this is an opportunity to write a good deal more.  In fact, this can replace the sweet handwritten love letter of a couple of decades ago.  We can add fancy artwork or pictures to our emails.  We can use different colors and fonts.  Many of us receive our email on our phones too – so we have quick and easy access to each other’s messages. 

Janelle Alex, Ph.D. Copyright 2011
http://www.sexychallenges.com
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Your Chakras Affect Your Sex Life!

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We recently talked to a friend of my about the amazing impact that our chakras have on our lives.  Chakras are energy centers within our bodies if you don't know.  The sacral chakra has a major impact on our sex lives as well as numerous other areas of our life.  Listen in as we talk to Joanna Leigh Osmond and she shares her insights as well as one very simple healing meditation that you can practice.  If you aren't into meditation, this practice she shares could be considered as a quiet breathing exercise.  Very easy, quick and can leave you with a little zing. Joanna Leigh Osmond is an Intuitive Business Coach and Mentor for Women of Amazing Purpose.  She can read energy - even from a distance - and help you heal, clarify, and discover what she calls a blueprint of your light.  Learn more about her and what she offers at http://www.joannaleighosmond.com.

Discover your sensuality and spirituality to create magick.  Go to http://www.sexychallenges.com today! Have a question you would like us to respond to?  Drop us an email at sexychallenges@gmail.com. Light and love, Janelle and Rob Alex Photo credit: © twentyfree - Fotolia.com

Sexually Charge Money So It Works For You

Hi Ho, Hi Ho, It's Off To Work We Go

....and/or manifest money in a new way

Find out how to make love to your sweetie in the privacy of your home

and sexually charge your money to work for you!

Locked Up in Wyoming...a Little Fun During Vacation

Oh no!  Rob got himself locked up right after we enter Wyoming last week!  What to do? What to do?  Well, our youngest son was able to escape through the hole in the cell wall just over Rob's right shoulder...there was a slide for little guys :)  Daddy/Rob, was left to find his own means of escape.  

Ah, ha!  The keys :)

Shoo....Rob escaped and made it to safety.

Well, crap.  Momma/Janelle and our little guy got locked up in Cheyenne.  They even got thrown in with a jailbird...if you look in the back corner.  

Wait!  Janelle has an idea....if Boeg will just climb under the cell door, he will be able to help them escape and make it back to the safety of home.  Momma hugs him and says, "You can do it son!"

Shoo!!  The Alex family is out of trouble and safe and sound....watch out for those crazy jails cells at the visitor's center when you enter Wyoming and at the Cheyenne Gunslings ;) 

In all honesty, we had a blast during our vacation day trips!

Make Your Own Sexy Fireworks

How are you going to celebrate the 4th of July with your sweetie?

Ah, if you aren't in the USA, then it may very likely just be another day for you.

But, still why not make some fireworks of your own - if you know what we mean ;) 

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10 Things Your Preacher Doesn't Want You Know

               

10 Things Your Preacher

Doesn’t Want You To Know

*Prepare to either be offended or simply enjoy the lightheartedness.

1.  WWJD

1.     WWJRD (What would Jesus really do?):  He would laugh, love, and share mad, passionate, hot, steamy sex with his sweetheart! Why? Because he understood the beautiful power of energy – especially the creativity of sexual energy.

2.     Sex is the ultimate life force: Isn’t it obvious?  What creates life?  What creates a child?  Sex!  What was the big bang?  An orgasmic explosion!  Where do new ideas and concepts come from? Creativity.  What creates?  Sex via the Divine.  Conception in all ways = the life force.

3.     Orgasm is a prayer: Honoring your soul, your lover’s soul, spirit, the Divine, the Universe, God, Goddess, your Higher Self, etc. can be done through making love with your beloved and experiencing orgasm.  This experience is really a prayer.  It is a way to connect to the Divine source and appreciate ALL.

4.     The People in the Pew In Front of You Are Doing It: Okay, maybe not at that very moment.  That might be…well, inappropriate in our society to have sex during church, in the pew, in front of everyone.  But, they ARE doing it.  They just may have been taught to believe it is supposed to be kept hush hush.

5.     The Bible is Actually Fiction:  Eke – you say!  It was written/compiled around 325 AD – that is over 300 years after Jesus!  The First Council of Nicea was a group of Catholic Bishops who got together and decided what stories (passed down for hundreds and hundreds of years) would go in the Bible.  Come on – we all know that oral stories passed down get changed and filtered…the fish get bigger, the heroes become more heroic, the hardships harder to bare, etc.  Even the book of Genesis has two, maybe even three, versions of creation.  It is a nice novel filled with metaphors and symbolism – don’t fall into the trap of taking it literally.

6.     The Ark Was a Floating Brothel: Well, at least for the animals – if you even believe there was an ark.  Those animals had better have been getting busy if they wanted to survive!

7.     Mary Didn’t Ride an Ass, She Got Some Ass: Uh, oh!  Have we gone too far?  Nah!  Immaculate conception our asses.  She and Joseph made love before marriage.  Big fricking deal!  Well, it was then.  Joseph could have chosen to stone her to death!  Yes, the Divine is more powerful than we can comprehend, but believing that Mary and Joseph couldn’t possibly have made love prior to marriage is foolish.  It is simply ridiculous to make such a big deal out of them having sex – they were even already engaged.  Remember lovemaking is beautiful and these two people apparently shared their passion.  Then, surprise!  She conceived.

8.     Jesus Got Busy: Jesus was a powerful, charismatic speaker.  He is an ascended master and is/was deeply enlightened.  But, he was a man too.  It is said that he and Mary Magdalene left the area after his supposed death, shared their physical and spiritual passions and had a number of children. 

9.     You Can Direct Your Sexual Energy to Manifest: You can learn to direct the sexual and orgasmic energy that you and your lover draw to you.  You can manifest more money, physical healing, abundance, and so much more into your life and into the lives of those around you.  Making love with your sweetie offers you an opportunity to pierce the veil between the physical dimension and the spiritual dimension.

10. The Preacher Has Downloaded Every Single Sexy Challenge: Now, why would he do that?  Because he knows the power of sex and the power of directing his and his partner’s sexual energy!  But, he wants to maintain his authority and his power – so he tells you it can’t be done and that having sex in this way or that way or during this time or that time is wrong and you will be punished.  Geesh!  You know in your heart the truth…and your body is trying to tell you!  Isn’t it time you listen?

So, right about now you are either pissed off, shocked, devastated, excited, have had the light turned on, or you are laughing your ass off.  We know the power of orgasmic energy and Sexy Challenges can take you there.  Guess what?  We aren’t going to be quiet about it either!  We are shouting it from the mountaintops.  Join in the spiritual revolution and tap into your Divine power!   

Rob Alex, M.Sc. & Janelle Alex, Ph.D.

Sexychallenges.com

Copyright 2013

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