The Couples Spot's New Look and Feel

The Couples Spot started out as a blog in 2009 with the focus on helping couples create a better and long lasting relationship.   The Couples Spot branched out into the brands Sexy Challenges and Mission Date Night and has continued to help couples create a better connection.  Now, The Couples Spot has been working out and is in better shape than ever.   Not only is it still packed with the great information for couples, it has now become the virtual trade show for all products for couples.  From the books, to household items, and sensual product, The Couples Spot has become your one stop place for all your wants, needs and desires.  

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Let's Make Halloween Sexy

Sexy Challenge - Getting Intimate with a ghost is Great for Halloween or any other time. We want to know what it would be like to have relations with a ghost, do you? This fun filled challenge will have you both a little jumpy to go under the sheets. Feel the excitement as you find out if you can connect to the spiritual world through intimacy. 

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Couples Protect The Boobs In Your Relationship

Sexy Challenges is mostly about having fun with your partner. However in this our Breast Cancer Awareness Issue we tackle some issues that are a little out of our norm. So many people have been effected by breast cancer. While we are not scientist here to develop a cure we can help try to educate and get people to keep an eye out for the early stages of this terrible cancer. Breast and testicular cancer can be detected early with a careful eye and hand. Since both of those areas are focal points of our interest any way it would be silly not to incorporate them into our challenges. Well this challenge is one of our best if it might only help one person detect cancer early enough for successful treatment it will all be worth it. Share this issue with your friends and help us do our part to stop these killers. 

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Checklist Of Interesting Places To Make Love

When looking to spice up your love life, many couples look for adventurous or novel places to make love. There are certain locations that enable sensual love making while others demand quicker acts of passion. A bedroom is a comfortable place to make love but there are so many exciting and lusty locations to have passionate sex. Whether spontaneous and urgent or planned for fun, sex in new locations can be extremely thrilling.

Creative lovers are always on the look out for opportunities to get wild and frisky. With the right inspiration, every day sex can be transformed into an unforgettable experience. You may have seen other lovemaking location lists but let's push the envelope and go for at least 69 -- always a good number for sex ideas. Remember that for some locations, there are pleasurable sex activities other than intercourse. Oral and manual stimulation can be just as satisfying and more practical in some situations.

1. Fooling around as passengers in a moving car (back seat while a friend drives, discreetly in a taxi, in a limousine with a privacy screen).
2. In a parked car during a romantic or exciting event (watching fireworks, admiring a sunrise/sunset, sheltering from a thunderous rain storm).
3. In a honeymoon suite but not during your Honeymoon. Elegant and fancy or themed for fun, recreate your honeymoon or practice what it would be like.
4. In a seedy motel. Arrive separately and roleplay an office coworker affair or a prostitute fantasy.
5. In a high class hotel suite with a panoramic window view -- keep the curtains open if you dare.
6. In a room with at least one hundred candles casting a soft glowing light over your naked bodies while you enjoy sensual pleasuring.
7. Frosty fornication in a snow fort or igloo you made together is great fun. You can even fashion a special mound to mount on.
8. On a boat in the open air (not below deck). Consider a canoe, row boat or rubber raft if you don't have access to a yacht, sail or speed boat with a large deck.
9. Slick with massage oil wresting on a plastic sheet or in a blowup pool.
10. In the shower enjoying the sensual, slippery suds and a hand held water massager. Intimate bathing and bonding or hot steamy sex -- what ever suits your mood.  Check out Sexy Challenge's Shower Magick.
11. In an English garden surrounded by fragrant blossoms. Make it more fun by dressing elegantly and indulge in a sense of aristocratic debauchery.
12. In a gazebo under the stars, moonlight or noon day sun. Semi outdoor sex as secluded as you dare.
13. On a king size water bed fitted with satin sheets and lots of fluffy pillows.
14. In a cool, fast moving stream or small creek. A swirling pool under a water fall is an amazing location if you can find one.
15. On a swing strong enough for two. Actually swinging together with penetration is tricky, however there are many other fun activities you can do involving a swing.
16. In a hammock between two palm trees on a secluded ocean front beach.
17. In a lookout tower or observatory. Finding one that provides a scenic view and opportune privacy will be its own adventure.
18. Rear entry on a bridge while overlooking the depth below. Even more intense on a swaying rope bridge for added adrenaline rush.
19. In the stairwell of an apartment or office building -- better exercise than taking the elevator. (or on the stairs in you own house)
20. On the top of a large hill or small mountain under the stars or full moon. Take in the view with a bottle of wine then enjoy each other.
21. On a train. Either in a rare, vacant car or a private cabin, "playing on the tracks" is a temptation to be tried.
22. In a van, the back of a pickup truck or on the hood of a sports car.
23. While skinny dipping at night in a pool, river, lake or ocean. Note that cool water tends to make some bits firmer while others shrink.  Pick Sexy Challenge's Let's Swim to the Moon
24. In a bath, hot tub or spa. Soak, soothe and sensually stroking each other or stimulate wet and wild sex with invigorating water jets.
25. On a roof. Outside on the flat top of tall building or (carefully) on a low, slightly sloped roof can be thrilling.
26. In a field of tall grass or flowers. A secluded, lush green meadow next to a small stream is ideal.
27. Under a cherry, apple or other fruit tree in full bloom. Enjoy the sensual sights, sounds and smells of Spring whenever you can.
28. On a pile of pillows. An assortment of shapes, sizes, colors and textures all piled for pleasure. Have a playful pillow fight. Try new positions.
29. In a barn. A horse stable may bring out the animal in you. The hayloft (on soft straw) can be extremely fun. Roleplay cowboy, stable hand or farmer's daughter.
30. Deep in a forest up against a large tree. Agile couples can even try various positions in the tree if the branches are just right.
31. Outside in the refreshing, cool rain during a hot day or night. Thunder and lightning add to the thrill.
32. Safely under a sheet metal roof during a hail storm or torrential down pour.
33. Anywhere under the hot sun with an ice dildo. Make one by freezing a plastic water/pop bottle filled with water and cutting the plastic off.
34. In a sleeping bag in the open air under a clear sky bright with stars. Go as far away from city lights as possible. Aurora lights will make it even more special.
35. On a tiny island. Revel in quiet seclusion or spice it up with roleplay. Pretend to be castaways or, for a historic setting, a scout meeting a native first time.
36. On a beach on the hot, dry sand or right on the shore with the waves lapping up around you. Anywhere you can see and hear huge crashing waves.
37. In the middle of a sports field or stadium (golf course, soccer, football, rugby, race track, etc.). Most likely best during off season or at night.
38. In a cave, tunnel or under a bridge. The echoes of your ecstasy or the sounds of traffic overhead can be exciting.
39. On a trampoline or blowup bouncer. Standing intercourse while jumping may be tricky. An exercise ball will give a similar bouncy feeling for other positions.
40. In a small clothes or coat closet with the doors closed so it is completely dark. Will someone open it and catch you in the act? Fun at parties.
41. On a billiard table as a forfeit for losing a few games of Dirty Pool
42. On a fur rug/coat in front of a warm, glowing fireplace at night.
43. In every room of your home and your lover's home if you live separately.
44. Creatively on or using stable pieces of furniture. On the kitchen counter, dining table, sofa, foot stool, etc. On the floor and up against the wall too.  Or take it to a different level with Unstable Passion.
45. In front of a mirror or beneath one attached to the ceiling. Get a revealing new perspective of your love making from new angles.
46. In front of a tripod mounted video camera or webcam. Record for later, view live or stream to an internet audience if you are an exhibitionist.
47. In a small log cabin, thatch hut, mud hut or teepee. Include the possibility when planning vacations.
48. In a garage, boat house or storage shed. Surreptitiously meet while others are outside unaware of your naughty behavior.
49. In a tree house or fort (either a chance discovery, your own or a neighbors). Pretend you are teenagers fooling around for the first time.
50. Next to an open fire while camping. A roaring fire stimulates passion while softly glowing embers at night instill romance and intimacy.
51. On or against a clothes washing machine especially during the spin cycle.
52. At a sex club or fetish party in a private cubicle or on display for others to see.
53. On exercise equipment at a private gym. You will definitely enjoy your workout.
54. In a dark corner of a dance club with a pulsing, pounding beat to grind to. A skirt and no panties/underwear makes this a much easier to perform.
55. In a parking lot between parked cars/vans. Try underground and above ground parking lots but take care for security systems and surveillance cameras.
56. Snuggling together in a sleeping bag in a small tent. Weather conditions, wilderness sounds or scary stories can set the mood.
57. On a designated border line between two countries, states or provinces -- one person in each territory engaging in diplomatic relations.
58. In or near a cemetery at midnight during a full moon if you dare. Standing sex will have both your legs shaking with the thrill.  Mummify Me - another Sexy Challenge.
59. In a public restroom, change room or even a friends bathroom. Novelty and the risk of getting caught coming out together make this exciting.
60. On a plush lawn at night or early morning while it is still wet with dew.
61. In a theatre during an arousing show or to make it more interesting. Remember to bring some wet wipes to clean your fingers.
62. In a pile of fallen leaves or freshly cut grass.
63. In a bed covered with rose petals or lots of money.
64. On a private patio, porch or deck (poolside even better). A sturdy lawn chair or table, air mattress or a few seat cushions may come in handy.
65. In an elevator (late at night on a weekday might be a good time and dress for a quickie).
66. At a costume party. Dress the part for a sexy roleplaying scenario. Flirt and play act until you can secretly meet to fulfill your fantasy.
67. Out on a high rise apartment balcony or next to a large window near the top floor. Try standing rear entry while looking down below.
68. In a private adult playroom stocked with a wide variety of pleasuring implements. Bondage devices, costumes, toys and other playthings will whet your desire.
69. Inside a walk in vault (it has happened but tends to require an employee or owner to facilitate). A walk in fridge or supply room is a quick alternative.

Some lovemaking locations may actually be a little tricky, costly, too exotic or even slightly dangerous depending upon your circumstances. However, if an idea intrigues you, you can always setup a scenario and roleplay a situation in a pretend location. With a little imagination and a few props, you can create a fantasy setting to fulfill your desires. You can even recreate historical, fanciful or alien space settings.

For more frisky ideas to enhance your relationship with foreplay fun and quality sex, check out the Frisky Foreplay erotic dice game.

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This Family Is Helping Turn Us Around

Relationship are what I am an expert in.  I love helping couples turn their relationships into a vision of beauty, romance and passion.  The journey to that blissful relationship is not one that is usually all fun and games.  There are many things that can derail this desire.  Finances are one area that can make or break a relationship.  Lucky for us we found a family that put everything into perspective for us.  The Unstoppable Family helped us see that our financial independence is something we need to take our relationship and life to the next level.  Watch the video below and see if you connect with any parts of it.  If so then click the link below to join us in this travel we have set forth upon and become part of our tribe.

Peace and Love, Rob

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The Fantasy Box - The Couples Spot Approves

We recently got to try our very first offering from The Fantasy Box.  

Check out why we are giving this product a couple of thumbs up.  Watch the video above and see what you can expect when you get your sign up to get The Fantasy Box

Are Your Thinking Outside The Box In Your Relationship

Are you thinking outside the box of your relationship.

A kiss is just a kiss, unless it is filled with all the love and passion two lovers share.  Then it is a vortex allowing the power of the universe to be held in that kiss. 

Rob - The Couples Spot 

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Looking for Couples to Interview

We have a new project in the works.  We are writing a book for entrepreneurial couples, Inspiring Couples in Business + in Love.  This book will give readers insight into how to succeed as entrepreneurs while maintaining a loving, healthy + sexy relationship.  We will share how learning and implementing transcendent lovemaking + couples' dreamwork + awareness of your archetypes (including your sacred inner money personality) will help you succeed in business and your relationship with little to no more fighting over money or your sex life.

But, really it is so much more than just the simple idea of no more fighting over these things.  In fact, couples, who are entrepreneurs, especially those who own a business together, understand that there are often great challenges by being in love and running a business.

Can a couple really switch gears and be just a romantic couple without constantly talking business?  You bet, but just as the romantic relationship takes work so does the business relationship.  When you try and blend the two together the challenges are multiplied.  But, guess what?  So, are the joys and successes if you have the tools in place.

We have been in business together for 10+ years, as well as owning individual businesses, and we know the ups and the downs, the joys and the sorrows, the high fives and the arguments, and we have learned, developed, and created amazing unique spiritual tools to thrive as a couple + as business partners.

We don't want other entrepreneurial couples to simply survive the journey.  We want them to thrive!
We want YOU to thrive!

At this point, we are still open to including other couples in the book.  We have interviews already occurring, but if you are or if you know of an entrepreneurial couple, who might be willing to be interviewed and included in the book, drop an email to janellealexphd@gmail.com. 

Here's to thriving,
Janelle + Rob



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Are You Ready For New Years Eve?

Okay it is time to get ready for New Years.  Christmas Is now over and today is the day to start planing on improving your relationship.  

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Get Behind Your Team

This is a great time of year to get ready to cheer for your team in the upcoming playoffs.  Together is a great way to spend your Sundays.  Make it a special occasion for you and your lovers to share in this support of your team.  Now if you are both cheering for different teams then that changes the entire picture.  

Go Broncos!!!

Fast Food Get Out Of Our Relationship

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Okay this new and exciting Sexy Challenges allows you to not only start losing weight by getting rid of the junk food.  It also helps you get busy more often by rewarding your partner and yourself with hot passionate intimacy!  

So now instead of do you want fries with that you might start saying do you want sex with that?

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Material Things In Your LIfe

I am convinced that material things can contribute a lot to making one's life pleasant, but, basically, if you do not have very good friends and relatives who matter to you, life will be really empty and sad and material things cease to be important.
David Rockefeller 

Woody on Woodies

“I don't know the question, but sex is definitely the answer.” 

― Woody Allen

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Spice Up Your Night With A Little Rocky Horror Picture Show

The Rocky Horror Picture Show (25th Anniversary Edition)

If you have never seen this cult classic you are missing something in your life.  The sexy fun is only a hop skip and a jump away.  The music and excitement of this move will soon have you doing the time warp again and again.  

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Smittens

Smittens

Okay for those couples that love to hold hands this is an amazing product I stumbled across.  If you enjoy holding hand with each other, the cold weather usually presents a problem for this simple love message.  However with Smittens you can still hold actual hands in the cold weather.  The oversized double mitten allows lovers to keep their hands warm while joining their hands together.  Also included are two other mittens that match for those hands that are not getting held.  This might seem a little over the top for some but it can be a great way to show the world you are in love, even in cold weather.

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Date Night Advice and Suggestions

Date Night Ideas For Married Couples

By Mary T James

Being in love isn't supposed to be hard work, but that doesn't mean that a marriage doesn't require some effort in order to make sure it works. A big part of this is ensuring that you keep that "spark" alive, and one of the most common ways of doing this is to make sure you put aside time every week/month for a date night.

The question is, what do you do on a date with someone you're married to?

The answer is: make the other person feel special, and there are lots of ways to do this. Here are some of favourite ideas for making a date with your partner go well.

1) Book a night at the theatre, not the cinema. It doesn't have to be something high brow - there are plenty of fun contemporary comedies or musicals that you would both enjoy.

2) Find a sport you can play together, such as badminton, or joining a running club.

3) Rent a DVD, and hole up under a blanket together.

4) Stay in, but both of you make an effort. So the man must shave, find a shirt, wear shoes and turn off the TV, and the woman puts on some new lingerie and dresses up. Then cook yourselves a romantic "restaurant" dinner at home. Yes, with candles. Make the effort, is the key with this one.

5) Agree on a small sum of money, and each of you must turn up with a gift for the other one. The small sum will make you both think hard about what is most suitable for your partner. The idea is to show that you really "know" them.

6) Flowers, just because. So that means bringing her flowers for no reason, other than it being a Friday, or bringing him flowers, because nobody ever buys men flowers.

7) Every so often, get the grandparents to take the kids, book into a hotel (even if you live nearby) and enjoy yourselves. Someone else can cook, clean and wash up for one night.

8) Haven't got a whole night? Find a local spa that you can both go to, so you can sit in a whirlpool together and maybe get a bit pampered.

The most important thing with a married date night, is to make the effort. Do put on some nice lingerie. Do spruce up and put on perfume. The same is true for men - get a new pair of boxer shorts. Get that hair cut.

Make yourself look nice for each other, because you'll feel better looking in the mirror and the act of preparation will get in the mood for your romantic evening together.

One last hint - get any conversations about work, the house, the kids, etc out of the way before you both start to get ready, so that your evening can really be about romance, and not about whether the phone bill has been paid.

We all tend to put on a few pounds when we get married, but that doesn't mean that you can't still find great underwear. Bigsmalls specialises in plus size lingerie and has done since 2006. It's one of the UK's leading retailers of underwear in Sizes 18-36.

There are plenty of exciting lines of outsize underwear that can spice up married life, from corsets to stockings.

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Date Night Under $30.00

This video tells you some great ideas by Emma Merkas on how to make your date nights a little less stressful.  There are some great ideas on this video so take what you will and make your own date night using some of these suggestions.  

Learn A New Language

Speaking Kind Words: Improve your relationship with heartfelt words.

Okay lovers can improve their relationship just by changing the language they use.  This book doesn't teach you a new language, it teaches you how to speak the words of love.  Right from the start you will begin to see an improvement in your relationship.  This was one of the beginning steps to getting our relationship on track.  

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Relationships suffer greatly when partners no longer speak kind and loving words to one another. Saying the same words over and over, day in and day out, can become common place and those once powerful words lose some of their potency. In fact, do you remember the phrase, "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me?" That really isn't true. Not only can words hurt, but so can the lack of kind and loving words. Husband and wife team, Rob and Janelle Alex, share with you a method to bring back and even add new loving words to your relationship. Following the approach presented in Speaking Kind Words will improve and bring a new outlook to your relationship.

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