The Couples Spot's New Look and Feel

The Couples Spot started out as a blog in 2009 with the focus on helping couples create a better and long lasting relationship.   The Couples Spot branched out into the brands Sexy Challenges and Mission Date Night and has continued to help couples create a better connection.  Now, The Couples Spot has been working out and is in better shape than ever.   Not only is it still packed with the great information for couples, it has now become the virtual trade show for all products for couples.  From the books, to household items, and sensual product, The Couples Spot has become your one stop place for all your wants, needs and desires.  

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A Couple Of Books For Every Couple

One of the biggest influences on Sexy Challenges was Laura Corn, her book 101 Nights of Great Sex sparked something deep inside me.  That desire to make love more passionate and romantic, yet making it fun and exciting all at the same time.  If you have never picked up a copy of Laura's book 101 Nights of Great Sex you should.  Because it started the amazing rise of Sexy Challenges.  Now you can enjoy both...

Get your copy of Sexy Challenges first 50 Challenges all in one book all for a super low price by clicking on the links below...

Sexy Challenges - iTunes

Sexy Challenges - Kindle

Sexy Challenges - Nook

The Other Woman

“LOCK OUT YOUR husband, put out your pets. Order take-out for dinner even, because once you start reading this book, you won’t want to be interrupted, trust me!” Amazon Reviewer

Book links:

Amazon UK:
http://amzn.to/1E3KGa7

Amazon US:
http://amzn.to/1BeLcB5

Amazon Aus:
http://bit.ly/1IXc5up

Tasty Fun For Couples

Karma Sutra's Body Paint lets You!

GET CREATIVE IN THE BEDROOM

Find your inner artist with this rich, decadent, kissable body paint. Paint this sweet treat onto your lover’s body with the included paint brush and create your masterpiece. Follow with kisses, savoring the sweet, delectable flavor.

• Delicious, kissable body paint with a smooth, creamy texture
• Inspires playful creativity
• Includes a soft, sensual paint brush

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The Other Woman by Eve Rabi

The Other Woman – Modern Fiction 

“These women steal husbands, rip apart families and shatter dreams. Isn’t it time we wives fight back?”  

Description:
A betrayed wife who believes that her husband is worth fighting for, sets out to 

win him back. Problem is, the other woman, a cunning seductress, is simply not used to losing and is prepared to eliminate anyone in her way. As a result the wife and the other woman collide. A riveting, hypnotic read that will keep you turning pages. 

“I never left my seat, from start until finish. I found, I kept looking at the percentage amount left to read, and feeling disappointed it was soon to be all over...I just wanted it to go on forever.” Amazon Reviewer

“I could not put this book down, I finished it at 2:30 in the morning and I had to get up for work @ 6:30. However, it was worth every yawn I had during the day @ work. Read it and you will see why.” Amazon Reviewer 

Buying links:

Amazon UK:http://amzn.to/1E3KGa7

             Amazon US:               http://amzn.to/1BeLcB5
             Amazon Aus:              http://bit.ly/1IXc5up

AUTHOR BIO:

Eve Rabi lives in Australia, but she was born in South Africa.
She is the author of 25 books and is known for her kick-ass leading ladies, alpha males and no holes-barred love stories. Oh, and let’s not forget about humour, it’s a must in her books. 
To quote a smashwords.com reviewer:  “When you pick up an Eve Rabi book, forget sleep. She writes gripping page turners that will keep you reading till the very end.”
Books that, like GRINGA, are sure to offend, entertain and amuse readers in various parts of the globe.
Please direct all hate mail and death threats to everabi2012@hotmail.com as she would really love to hear from you, good and not so good.

http://www.amazon.com/The-Other-Woman-Betrayed-Scandalous-ebook/product-reviews/B00S74AMV8

Where to find Eve Rabi online
Website: http://everabi.wordpress.com/
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/eve.rabi
Blog: http://everabi.wordpress.com/
Smashwords: https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/everabiauthor
Facebook – http://www.facebook.com/eve.rabi Twitter – https://twitter.com/EveRabi1
Pinterest – http://www.pinterest.com/everabiauthor
Instagram - everabiauthor
Smashwords – https://www.smashwords.com/books/search?query=eve+rabi

“I woke at 3.00 a.m. and carried on from last night, I have done nothing today, not even had a bath, gross I know! I just could not put this book down!” Amazon Reviewer 

Amazon links to book:

Amazon US:

http://amzn.to/1BeLcB5

Amazon UK:http://amzn.to/1E3KGa7

Amazon Aus:
http://bit.ly/1IXc5up

Power To The Horny Little Devil Inside You

Sex can be just sex. The mechanics of it can be planned out and the outcome you desire can be achieved as a purely physical act. It is possible that this can leave you feeling wonderful and physically connected with your partner. But, what if it could be so much more? What if the pleasure you feel now could be doubled, tripled or increased beyond belief? Would you want to experience that? 

Sexy Challenges can take you to a place where sensual love and sacred sex combine to form an experience that lifts you to new heights. Your experiences can move beyond just the physical. You might be surprised to learn that each orgasm you share with your beloved actually contains the vastness of the Universe. 
Inside this exciting book, you will discover fifty sexy challenges. These encompass a wide range of experiences. Through the fun, laughter, communication, romance and passion of these challenges the connection with your partner can become more powerful than you ever expected. You can touch the untouchable. The god or goddess within you can be revealed. 

Bored-in-the-Bedroom Married Couples - Sexy Challenges are for you! These sexy, fun, sacred and sensual scenarios will help you heat up your sex life while getting you to communicate again. If you follow Sexy Challenges' advice, you will reconnect with your sweetheart. 

Desire is vital in a romantic relationship. Some married couples increase their desire by sharing a passion for stories of erotica, adult games or toys. Sexy Challenges help you stimulate your own erotic play! Whether the two of you are rolling on the floor laughing or tangled up in the sheets you will be creating powerful, playful, passion.  

It's spiritual, playful, sexual counseling in a book.

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Be a little aggressive in bed.

I read an interesting statistic the other day that claimed that most women wish their men were a little more aggressive in bed. It would seem that with women getting more in touch with their sexuality that gone are the days of slow and calm love making. I am sure after that last statement I will get tons of emails from women that love it slow and calm. However I am sticking to my feeling that women want to feel like their love making is passionate. To me passionate means not being able to control your desire for the person you are with. This make sense to me why women would love the aggressiveness. Who doesn't want to feel like their lover can't get enough of them. Here is a little secret ladies, men like you to be aggressive also. It seems that both sexes should go after what they want and well the sex will satisfy both of them. The only problem I for see is that if both partners want to be aggressive who gets to lead? I will let the two of you sort that out and maybe it is just a matter of taking turns or switching. Which ever works best for you doesn't matter but don't put the stove on simmer when you can put it on hot!

Hugs are not only fun they are important.

Touch is a wonderful thing that most all of us love. However it is not only an enjoyment it is a basic human need. Starting from the time we are born we crave and love touch. It tells us we are love, consoles us when we are upset and gives us a sense of desire and passion. Hugs have actually been shown to improve our lives. In the book THE ALADDIN FACTOR, it states that 4 hugs a day are needed for survival, 8 hugs a day to keep our relationship in tip top shape, and 12 hugs a day for our lives to grow and thrive. So stop being selfish with your hugs and don't stop with your partner make sure you children and family share the sensation also. Hugs are not as intimate as kisses so you can give them to friends and even strangers without fear of being weird. Everyone benefits from hugs so spread the hugs around and make sure to get your share.

Memorabilia makes a great present.

Looking for something wonderful and different to get your partner? Well a great idea that is outside the box is to get them an autograph of their favorite star. Be it a sports star or an actor a framed picture with that person autograph is sure to please. This is usually something that someone might not purchase for themselves. This would be the kind of treasure that really show that you know them well. It doesn't have to be an autograph it could be another type of collectable like a disney cell from a cartoon. You can even have a star named after them or purchase a brick with their name on it to be placed in a public place. Another sweater would be nice and appreciated but an autograph of their favorite star would surely shine more.

Johnny Bench is my favorite baseball player of all time. He is a class act and still a role model to this day.

Lift your man up!

Ladies if you haven't learned this by now you might not ever. Men think about sex a lot. This is our nature we desire it, we fantasize about it, and we want it all the time. Back up a bit that last little part isn't quite true. Men want sex all the time isn't exactly true we want it until we can have it. Our mind it focused on it until we reach that golden ring. I did a little experiment recently and found that once I had sex I was able to focus more on other tasks be it at work or home more easily for about two days. Once that third day hit my mind started telling me to think about sex again. Which got me thinking, it we had sex every three days my wife would never be able to tell me that all I think about is sex! I read somewhere that most really successful men have a lot it common but one of those things is that they never had to worry about was sex. They said their partner was always there for them in that capacity. Then in another article I read it said that couples that have more sex are happier and live longer. Are you starting to see the trend like I am. Ladies here is my feeling after I read these two articles. If you want your man to be successful, happy and healthy all you have to do is have sex with him on a normal basis so that it doesn't preoccupy his mind. Without having to worry about when he is going to have sex again, or what he can do to get more sex he will be free to think about things like improving his career, fixing up things around the house, and even doing more non-sexual romantic things.

This epic battle of men and women over sex, shouldn't be a battle at all it should be a compromise to benefit your relationship. Men I suggest trying you own little experiment and see how long sex releases it's grip from you mind after you have it. Be honest with yourself and your partner as to when that craving for sex starts to creep back in. Sex everyday is a wonderful thought but it isn't the compromise that most couples make and frankly I don't know if I would actually like to have sex everyday. That might become boring and I never want my sex to become boring. Talk with your partner about this and let them know you are trying to find the compromise that will make you both happy, if they get mad about that then they aren't really putting the effort into your relationship that you both really need.

Learn to talk a little dirty.

Deep inside our brains we all like a little dirty talk. Either in the throws of passion or as foreplay this dirty talk can take us to a higher level in our sex life. Even the most reserved person can become a dirty talker with a little practice. First you have to learn your style, are you the demanding dirty talker. Demanders bark out instructions using the most vivid words. You could be the screamer where you throw out dirty words as you orgasm. Maybe your the shy one that likes to send your dirty talk via text messages or email. No matter what your style dirty talk can enhance your relationship. Ladies you have the upper hand at this, while for guys we need to be a little more reserved. Guys blurting out dirty words out of the bedroom might seem a little abusive however it is quite different if the lady comes out and asks for her partner to put their face between her boobs. I have found a great web site to help you learn to talk dirty and give you several phrases you might want to use sometime. The link is posted below. Good luck and happy dirty talking.

Drity Talk 101

The Universe Loves Passion.

The Universe or heavens loves passion. The great beyond loves when you are passionate about things. Have you ever heard the old saying "Do something you are passionate about!" Well this holds true in our relationships, too. Have you ever noticed that the couples that seem to be the happiest have the best luck. Do you think this is by accident all the time. You can chalk it up to many things such as when you are happy things don't bother you as much or that love conquers all. However I believe that when you unleash your passion into your relationship the powers around and above us thank you for doing that. Things become easier, life doesn't have as many twists and turns, it is the Universe's way of thanking you for unleashing your power and energy into the cosmos. Call me crazy but think back to when you had the best luck, where you in a great relationship? Was everything going good in your love life, did you have to search or wish for passion? Most likely not because when you have the passion in your relationship it frees you up to concentrate on many other area of your life. Thusly when you are not missing passion in your relationship your entire life becomes easier. Passion is a need not a desire once we have it and hold on to it the world opens up to us in several different ways. So today get the passion in your relationship and start enjoying the world as it was suppose to be

How close can you get.

Here is a little exercise that is fun and exciting and will leave you yearning for more. Several times during the day see how close you can get your lips to each others without touching. Get close enough to feel the heat coming off of them but resist the urge to kiss. Stay in this position for a few seconds and see how passionate being that close can be. Feel your partners breath, sense their energy and soak in their aura. Make sure to start deep into each others eyes to get the maximum out of your closeness. I get shivers down my back being that close without touching. The desire to touch will be strong but use the force or whatever means you can to resist. Finally at the end of the night have a make out session. With deep passionate kissing and release all the feeling of being so close to each other you could almost taste it.

Spin off site coming soon.

With the success of THE COUPLES SPOT we wanted to try to do a little more in the area of relationship improvement. Thus we are getting prepared to start a more direct relationship help site. The difference between this and other sites is that we are going to start strengthening your relationship, marriage, or partnership before troubles arise. We want to build immunity to those things that ruin relationship. Much like exercise helps the body avoid health issues. You can check out the start of or progress by clicking here - ZOB ALEX - PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP TRAINER I hope that you will check it out and give it a try we are about a month away from full launch so check in often and let us know what you think.

We could also use any questions you might have or areas of discussion you might want to bring up on the site. You can email your questions to me at thecouplesspot@gmail.com and I will be happy to respond to them.

Is love a perception or a feeling?

We have all heard at some point and time that love is a feeling. Love is caring about another individual as much if not more than yourself. We all strive to get that feeling and are comfortable when we feel we have it. Now my question is can you measure the amount of love one person has for another? If not then is love just your perception of that feeling? Take for example one person might cook dinner for their partner because they love them and wants them to have a good meal. To the next person that might just be one of the chores that they perform at their household. I question and wonder if the feeling comes first or the perception? If you can think your love is unconditional then maybe you think the feeling comes first. On the other hand however do we have to wait for the actions to show us that we are loved. It seems like the chicken and egg routine all over again. I personal feel like people view love in very different manners, and I believe that some people do feel the lover first and others need the perception first to validate the love. I think maybe if it is possible that it's a combination of the two. Happening at the exact same time that creates true love. This might be getting a little deep for you and I am not asking you to question your feelings and or love for your partner. I am just curious as to how we arrive at loving someone.

Being intimate is not a bargaining tool.

One thing every person knows is that intimacy and sex is important in a relationship. However, so many couples use it as a bargaining tool. Both sides are to blame. Remember when you started dating and the passion and intimacy just happened. Some how when we become life partners we forget about that. We let things like work, kids, and countless other things get in the way of the freedom we had in our intimacy. Yet we do nothing about it. We hear things like "Well if you helped more around the house, I might be in the mood more" or "Well if you didn't let yourself go, I would be more attracted to you again" These things hurt and are most definitely not good for a relationship. Never should you put a tag on your love life, that should be a mutual exchange of the love between the two of you, not just a chore. You can't force sex and you can't ignore sex, it has to be in a relationship to make both partners happy. The passion has to come back and you have to compromise or you just end up becoming roommates. Use this exercise to help you get over you stipulations on sex, think about the wonderful things your partner does, think about the wonderful times you have had together, and relive all those feelings. Do you want to create more of them? Well think back what was going on in your life when they happened, most likely there was a lot of passion between the two of you????? Are you getting the picture make it a point to woe each other again, get excited about having a date together, kiss when you come home from work, these little things will start to manifest your desire for each other and soon you won't have to worry about it the passion will take care of itself.

Make a savings goal.

As a couple one of the most important things you can do is make a savings goal. Maybe you want to take an awesome vacation, or purchase new patio furniture. Anything that is not a normal purchase would be a great thing to save for. You can put money in a jug or dedicate so much from each pay check to reach the goal. Keep a tote board up in your house to show how close you are to reaching your goal. Make sure to keep the money safe and in a hard to get place so that you don't just get into it anytime you desire something. Once you finally reach your goal then you can celebrate by purchasing the thing that both of your desire. When picking your treasure make sure to pick something the both of you can use. Don't pick a big screen tv for him to watch the games on and don't pick a new vanity table for her to get ready in the morning. Sharing is one of the secrets to staying healthy as a couple. Not to mention the rewards are so much sweeter when you have someone to enjoy them with. Start stocking back the change now I think I hear Hawaii calling the two of you.

The Best thing to build a better Relationship.

The single most important thing that I have found that is a common occurrence for couples that have great relationships is that they have fun together. Simply put the simple act of having fun is the best relationship builder. It makes you desire to be together. Far to many times as people are together longer periods of time they just end up going through the motions. They forget having fun together was an important part of deciding to be a couple. As time moves along we get caught up in the daily activities and paying bills together instead of taking some time everyday to do something fun together. If we make a conscious effort to enjoy each others company we start to build and crave that again. Set an hour a day to have to something you both enjoy be it taking a walk or being silly. Once you start having fun together again all the other problems in your relationship will start to fall into place.

Finding your passions

In life we all want to follow our passions but what about in our relationships? Can we have passions within the safety of our relationship. Can we desire something and still give time and care to our relationship. Well of coarse we can, anyone that would expect you to give up your passions is not worried about your overall well being. Encourage your partner to strive for their goals and dreams this in itself will bring the two of your closer. Think of the joy in your partners face as they achieve their goals, now that is what true love is all about.

Who is the dominant sexual partner?

Most relationships has a dominant sexual partner. I am not taking a physical force in the bedroom, but one that needs or wants sex more. I want to hear how your viewers handle the difference between the two levels of sexual desire. Do you compromise or does one partner just lose out? I want to hear about your dealings with this common problem in a relationships. I am trying to get a handle on how other are dealing with this and what might be the best solution. I understand both sides or this. Both partners deserve to get what they want and no one can force someone to enjoy intimacy more. Do you have means that help out with this problem, maybe a book, or an activity or even alcohol that helps to get you on the same plane in your sexual desire. You can drop me a line at thecouplesspot@gmail.com I will look forward to hearing from you.