Learn to talk a little dirty.

Deep inside our brains we all like a little dirty talk. Either in the throws of passion or as foreplay this dirty talk can take us to a higher level in our sex life. Even the most reserved person can become a dirty talker with a little practice. First you have to learn your style, are you the demanding dirty talker. Demanders bark out instructions using the most vivid words. You could be the screamer where you throw out dirty words as you orgasm. Maybe your the shy one that likes to send your dirty talk via text messages or email. No matter what your style dirty talk can enhance your relationship. Ladies you have the upper hand at this, while for guys we need to be a little more reserved. Guys blurting out dirty words out of the bedroom might seem a little abusive however it is quite different if the lady comes out and asks for her partner to put their face between her boobs. I have found a great web site to help you learn to talk dirty and give you several phrases you might want to use sometime. The link is posted below. Good luck and happy dirty talking.

Drity Talk 101

Warm up for sex.

We all know that foreplay is important to get our sex life off the ground. Foreplay can be many things to different people. However, this is not the type of warm up I want to talk about before sex. As with other forms of exercise loosening up the muscles is important before you start to compete or exercise so that you don't pull a muscle. Also if we want to perform at our top level we have to be ready and stretched. Sex is no different especially if you want to try different positions or be creative. Stretching your legs and arms as well as you back and shoulders will help you be more prepared for any position you want to try during you sexual evening. The last thing you want to happen is a cramp or a muscle pull during the act of making love. Nothing kills the mood more then having to stop to rub a cramp out or being unable to finish because of a muscle pull. You might think that sex isn't that physically demanding. I don't know about you but I want my sex to be physically demanding! Make stretching part of your foreplay and now it doesn't become a chore it becomes a fun intimate experience for the two of you. A word of advise, stretch those PC muscles to for an even more fun sexual experience.