Make More Love Save The World

Sexy Challenges is on a mission and we are on board.   Sexy Challenges is asking everyone to make more love in your relationship.  Why you might ask?  Well making love creates sexual energy.  Sexual Energy is love energy and the more of this we have in our work the more amazing it becomes.  People get more creative, there is less hatred, wars and fighting begin to lose their energy because people are using it in a more loving way.  So the Sexy Challenge initiative is that you make more love this month than you did last month if only one more time.  If everyone in the world would do this I think we would see an amazing difference in our world today.

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Power To The Horny Little Devil Inside You

Sex can be just sex. The mechanics of it can be planned out and the outcome you desire can be achieved as a purely physical act. It is possible that this can leave you feeling wonderful and physically connected with your partner. But, what if it could be so much more? What if the pleasure you feel now could be doubled, tripled or increased beyond belief? Would you want to experience that? 

Sexy Challenges can take you to a place where sensual love and sacred sex combine to form an experience that lifts you to new heights. Your experiences can move beyond just the physical. You might be surprised to learn that each orgasm you share with your beloved actually contains the vastness of the Universe. 
Inside this exciting book, you will discover fifty sexy challenges. These encompass a wide range of experiences. Through the fun, laughter, communication, romance and passion of these challenges the connection with your partner can become more powerful than you ever expected. You can touch the untouchable. The god or goddess within you can be revealed. 

Bored-in-the-Bedroom Married Couples - Sexy Challenges are for you! These sexy, fun, sacred and sensual scenarios will help you heat up your sex life while getting you to communicate again. If you follow Sexy Challenges' advice, you will reconnect with your sweetheart. 

Desire is vital in a romantic relationship. Some married couples increase their desire by sharing a passion for stories of erotica, adult games or toys. Sexy Challenges help you stimulate your own erotic play! Whether the two of you are rolling on the floor laughing or tangled up in the sheets you will be creating powerful, playful, passion.  

It's spiritual, playful, sexual counseling in a book.

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Cool Tattoo - Could the Dolphin Be Your Sexual Power Animal Archetype™?

Wait, wait, wait!  You are here because you want to know if the dolphin could be your Sexual Power Animal Archetype™.  And, maybe you just thought this tattoo design is freaking cool - I certainly do :)  

But, do you know what an archetype is?  If you do, it still won't hurt to read my explanation.  And, if you don't know, then here you go - a little something new for you today.  

I am going to share a sneak peek into a bit of our upcoming book, Inspiring Couples in Business + in Love.  

Archetypes are your soul's code + your inner personalities.  

You may have heard of Carl Jung.  He was a Swiss psychiatrist and he coined the term archetype.  This word comes from the Greek words of archein and typos. Archein meaning something old or ancient and it represents the original, creative source.  For some, that may be God, Goddess, the Universe, the Divine, etc.  For our purposes here we will more often than not refer to it as Source or Creative Source. Typos is the expression or manifestation of the Creative Source as it is the model of behavioral patterns.

Mother is considered to be a model for nurturing and compassionate behavior.  Father represents authority, a firm hand and power. Hopefully, this is giving you a little better idea of what an archetype is.  We will share a couple more with you just in case.  The romantic typically enjoys elegance, lavishness, love and is passionate.  The joker is a trickster and regularly deceives others, makes jokes, is frivolous and likes to live life now.

Each archetype has tendencies to behave in certain ways.  They are the energy patterns of one's personality.  Yet, often times these inner truths, these inner personalities are hidden so deep within that you may not be aware of them.  In fact, depending on your personal environment, work environment, family upbringing, cultural beliefs, and societal beliefs you may resist one or more of these unconscious aspects of your self.  This unconscious self is your authentic self or your core essence.  

Drs. Rob + Janelle Alex, Ph.D. 2014©

Now, I realize this may not seem fair because we are not going to tell you whether or not the dolphin could be your sexual power animal archetype™ today.  But, guess what?  When we release the Sexual Power Animal Archetypes™ you could be one of the first to know!  Drop your name + email in the box! 

Keeping it Sacred + Sexy,

Janelle (+ Rob)

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Woody on Woodies

“I don't know the question, but sex is definitely the answer.” 

― Woody Allen

Click the Above image to get Woody Allen's "Everything You Always Wanted To Know About Sex*Movie. 

Break Away From Your Standard Wedding Rings

Recently we wanted to get new wedding bands just to change things up.  Upon looking we found many wonderful choices out there, and with great values.  We found many wonderful rings that had a spiritual message to them, it almost made it hard to choose.  Click on the Rings above and witness these rings that have a Celtic design to them.  It was amazing when we put on our new rings and how they gave us a new found power not only in our relationship but in our spirituality also.  

Making love for good luck!

There is a very special bond between a couple that they don't share with anyone else. That is the bond of intimacy and this is way more powerful then you can imagine. I cannot get into all the details and studies that show why intimacy between a couple are magical because it would take up all the space we have available. Intimacy between a loving couple is a bond that is can bring enlightenment and power to the couple as an unit. Try this the next time you have something big about to happen the next day. Maybe you are going to an interview or have a big presentation at work and you need to be your best. Well simply make mad passionate love the night before. You partner obviously has to be totally on board for this but it can make all the difference in the world. Here are my feelings on why this is good. I use the term luck in the post but I don't believe that it is luck. I believe by being intimate together you form a bond that makes both of you stronger and you take to battle all the qualities of both of you. I think this energy lasts for about 2 days but it is amazing. Your confidence is better, you feel better, you have an aura of success around you. This is the amazing union two people can create. Plus the feeling is unbeatable. Try this next time you need things to go your way and see just how much it makes a difference. I will talk more about this topic later because it is becoming a passion within our relationship.

Love can heal.

Love is one of the most powerful things in our lives. It gives us strength and power to do things we never thought we would be able, too. Yet we constantly doubt it's power. I have recently be studying Huna, which is a way of living the Hawaiian culture teaches, and it has shown me even more how important love is to our daily life. Love is the feeling that someone is there to catch you and make you feel better. Which leads me to or subject for today. Love, can it heal? We know it is a wonderful feeling but can it make your health better? Yes is the answer. Studies show that people who claim to be in love actually live longer than those that don't. Love is a great reliever of stress, and you have someone to vent your anger with. Now your stress level is lower. We can see the long terms of love quite easily, together we are stronger. How about a quick healing can love cure illnesses right away. Is there the power to cure cancer or heat problems in our love? I say that if you truly believe so with out a doubt that yes love can heal those challenges. The problems lies in that we are taught that this doesn't work. We fall into societies ignorance that you don't need love and that love is an desire not a need. Well my friends I don't know about you but love is more than a desire to me. It roots deep in my soul and I can feel it's power. Now trying to find a way to use that love power to heal the ill is another challenge. For starters that person has to believe in the power to or their body will reject your love like it rejects or tries to fight off viruses. I like to think of love like water let it flow through both of you and cleanse the challenged area diluting and disputing the challengers hold on the ill persons body. Hold each other and imagine water rushing though both of your bodies let the passion you hold for each other take over and speak no words. I am not knocking modern medicine and I feel it is also very powerful but I think for someone to truly get well they need this love cleanse to coarse through their body. Now we all know that we cannot live forever that is not an option but to extend the time you are together to love each other, now that my friends is a miracle. Each and every extra minute you can get is a blessing, just ask someone that has lost a love.

Sex in a relationship is much more then it appears.

Within a loving and mutual relationship sex takes on a whole new meaning. It isn't just a pleasure of the flesh it becomes a ritual of love and a dance of the souls. Think about how you feel after you make love to your partner. Most generally you are in a sense of relaxation and comfort. Next time you make love take some mental notes on how great you feel how and the power that you have connected with your partner. Within a relationship sex is a real wonder drug not only does it bring you closer to each other but it connects the power within both of you. Forming a supper being if you will. This is why I would suggest that coupes experiment with different aspects of sex. Try different positions, explore you bodies don't get stuck doing it the same way over and over. The more you find that excites you the more the charge you will get from it afterwards. Sex in a wonderful relationship has a way of slowing down time and giving you that confidence to go out and tackle the world. Few things in the life are as pleasurable as the love and passion of your partner. That is by design, that is why we search so hard for the person that is just right for us, that person that we want to find enlightenment with. Intimacy brings together all the abilities in both of you and combines them making the bond of love the greatest power in the universe.

Take stock in your relationship during trying times.

When the world seems to be weighing down on you and troubles seem to be all around. The one place you can feel safe is in the arms of your love. You can't make the troubles go away, but you can help you feel better. The world will not end because of your troubles and life will continue you just have to take comfort in the fact you have a great relationship and a loving partner. Standing together holding hands is a much better way to face your troubles then by yourself. Take stock in your relationship and let you love guide you.

Standing in your partners shoes.

Have you ever wondered how your partner is thinking? Wondering how they are viewing what you are saying or how they are truly feeling about a subject. Well there is a form of meditation where you try to place yourself in this other persons position to try and feel how they view the subject you are wondering about. Two people can view the same thing in many different was. You need to listen to your partners feelings then try to meditate and put yourself in their positions knowing how they feel. You might get a better understanding of how they are viewing the subject. This doesn't say that the way you are viewing it is wrong it is just that they have a different perspective. Until you can step out of your feelings you might not ever understand theirs. Maybe you don't have to get into a deep meditation to see this? Maybe you can be objective without getting into a zen like state, if so more power to you. I suggest sitting alone in a quite space, relax yourself with breathing and motionlessness. Then visualize the person you want to understand better, then become them in your mind and look at yourself. Knowing how they tell you they feel, visualize it from their perspective while you are looking at yourself. Have them do they same if they are open to it and maybe you both will realize that neither of your is wrong and both of you are right. Funny that is how opinions work, yet without stepping out of our own shoes sometimes it is hard to swallow.

Want a fun and romantic way to improve your relationship?

How long has it been since you looked deep into your partners eyes? Most people probably can't remember how long it has been. Well tonight do me a favor and stare deep into your partners eyes. While you are doing thing breath in their breath as they exhale. Some of the tantric practices state that this exercise helps to bring two partners closer together. I personally believe that not only does this bring you closer together but it also it a great way for the two of you to start your day. So often we just rush out the door, give each other a little peck on the check and don't see each other until the end of the day. Wake up 5 minutes earlier and breath with each other, heck you don't even have to get out of bed if you don't want to (Unless the morning breath is to strong, LOL) but seriously set some time aside to practices this eye gazing and breathing. You can feel so much through looking deep into someones eyes and taking in their breath is a great way to become part of them.

Communication 101

Communication 101

 

We all hear that communication is one of the most important things in a relationship.  I don't think anyone can debate that.  However, what if you are not the best talker or you have to think your feelings out before you say them?   You partner thinks you are just being silent.  Yet, you are trying not to say the wrong thing.  If one partner is used to speaking his/her mind, it is hard for the other to get his/her feelings out.  Most often what happens is the easy speaking partner will jump into the conversation before the less assertive partner finishes his/her thought.  To communicate when this is the problem takes effort on both of the people in the relationship.  The more timid speaker of the two has to get his/her courage up and his/her in order before speaking, and the more assertive speaker has to back off a little and let the other partner speak at his/her own speed. 

 

Still, even at best there will still be some communication problems.  Some things I might suggest to help with communication are as follows.  First, try sitting back to back when you need to have a heated discussion.  Sit with your backs touching, this at least gives both of you some comfort as touch is another important part of a relationship.  Some people will be able to speak more from the heart when not having someone staring at him/her waiting for a reply.  If sitting back to back doesn't work, you might try to write your conversation out or since we live in modern times text each other or instant message each other from another room.  Something about conversing over the Internet gives people freedom from their fears of speaking.  But, also be cautious of texting or emailing as one’s tone cannot be understood via written words.  If neither one of these ideas work, you can as a last resort try a mediator.  If you have a close mutual friend you feel comfortable with, let him/her sit in on your communication or you can even get a counselor that can referee your conversations.  I only suggest counseling if you issues are threatening your relationship.   

 

In closing, remember that words can hurt just as much as physical pain – often times more.  If you never have kind words to express to your partner, he/she will feel less of a person and it could spin your relationship towards trouble.  If you need more help or assistance finding communication help, get online and do some searching.  I really like a gentleman that goes by the title "The Tower of Power".  Joshua  Uebergang is his real name, and you can find his web site athttp://www.towerofpower.com.au/