Showing posts with label issues. Show all posts
Showing posts with label issues. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Thursday, June 26, 2014

This Family Is Helping Turn Us Around

Relationship are what I am an expert in.  I love helping couples turn their relationships into a vision of beauty, romance and passion.  The journey to that blissful relationship is not one that is usually all fun and games.  There are many things that can derail this desire.  Finances are one area that can make or break a relationship.  Lucky for us we found a family that put everything into perspective for us.  The Unstoppable Family helped us see that our financial independence is something we need to take our relationship and life to the next level.  Watch the video below and see if you connect with any parts of it.  If so then click the link below to join us in this travel we have set forth upon and become part of our tribe.

Peace and Love, Rob



Thursday, May 6, 2010

Take stock in your relationship during trying times.


When the world seems to be weighing down on you and troubles seem to be all around. The one place you can feel safe is in the arms of your love. You can't make the troubles go away, but you can help you feel better. The world will not end because of your troubles and life will continue you just have to take comfort in the fact you have a great relationship and a loving partner. Standing together holding hands is a much better way to face your troubles then by yourself. Take stock in your relationship and let you love guide you.

Thursday, January 7, 2010

Communication Exercises


Communication is and always will be a hurdle in a relationship. We often have trouble communicating our wishes to our partner. Sometimes we fear hurting his/her feelings or we are afraid of being rejected by him/her and having our own feelings hurt.

Here is a little communication exercise that they two of you can implement into your relationship.
It will help clear up some communication problems. In my opinion, one of the biggest problems in a relationship is that one person is more out spoken than the other. This leads to discussions being one sided and the other person not being able to get his/her point across.

What you need to do is set up a couple of days for single communication for each one of you. Pick a day and a time when the two of you have time to sit down together and discuss things.  Set aside 15-30 minutes.

On the first day only one person gets to talk.  He/she expresses things that are bothering him/her as well as things that make him/her happy. Here is the kicker, the other person cannot respond to anything until the next day. It is important for him/her to remain quite and listen without interruption even if he/she disagrees with what the speaking partner is saying.

Both partners let that soak in until they can sit down again.   Then it is the other partner's turn to speak openly.  Not only does this offer the quieter of the two to get his/her point across, but it helps both partners learn to listen.  

Make this a regular practice - perhaps once a week or once a month.  Do this and you will see a change in your relationship as the communication lines begin to open.