Genitals vs. Toes

Unless you have a foot fetish I can assume that you don't use your toes much during your intimate love making. While my toes aren't the most erotic part of my body they are still aids in creating different sensations. Toes feel different then fingers and usually have a little tougher skin on them than other parts of your body. So, stroking your partners genitals with you feet will feel a lot different from using you fingers. Now most of us don't have as much coordination with our toes as we do with our fingers so you have to take it slow. The last thing you want to do is whack your partners genitals hard, because that could put a damper on your love making. Toes can be used to stroke a man's penis and play with his testicles and believe me this is such a turn on for most guys. Toes can also be used to stimulate the nipples of both men and women. Now for something a little different you can use your toes to stimulate the lips of a woman's genitals. Gaining control of your little buggers on your foot can also allow you to enter her vagina. Both sexes can enjoy a little toe to anus play. The positions you can get into for this type of foreplay is amazing and you don't have to be one of those images from the Karma Sutra to enjoy them. If you do plan on using your toes as sex toys please make sure to wash them good, poor hygiene is the kiss of death when dealing with they feet. Toenails also need to be neatly trimmed for obvious reasons.

Who brought the negative energy in here?

The most wonderful place to feel safe and important is inside your relationship. You should feel protected and special within the realm of your our partners arms. Yet sometimes we bring negative energy into our relationship that can cause turmoil and struggles. Problems at work, struggles with our children, or just a tough drive home can cause us to dump our negative energy into our relationship. Once we do this then that negative energy starts gnawing on our passionate loving relationship. Think back have you ever let a bad day or bad situation outside your home effect your relationship. Have you ever been testy with your partner because you had one of these bad days? Is it fair that your partner should get the brunt of your feelings about that subject. While you should be able to air out your problems with your partner you should also drop it and and thankful to them for being their afterwards. Always remember that the love you have for each other is the best medicine for a stressful situation. Next time you come home with this feeling of negative energy try this. Wipe it off your feet on your door mat before you get in the house, make a conscience effort to not struggle with it during your time with the people you love the most. If you really feel you need to address the problem with your partner then ask them to step out side to discuss it. Them wipe it off your feet before you come in again. It is easy to dump all our baggage into our relationship because it is close to us and our major focus. However using your relationship as a dump for all the negative energy will soon find you wondering why your relationship is so negative.

Feet!

As a couple you might think your feet are that important. Yeah they are there but what other purpose could they have in your relationship. I am sure you have heard of people having a foot fetish. Not everyone has to be over the top with it, but feet are sexy. Plus they can be a great starting point for foreplay. Think about it how relaxed would you be if your partner gave you a nice foot massage today? Throw in some oil and really kneed out those tired feet. I can almost feel the pleasure now. Research has shown that massage is a great starting point. Use different type and scents of oils to add effectiveness. If nothing more you will feel good even if you are the one being massaged or the one getting the massage.

There are also many nerve endings in your feet and you can relive pressure to other areas of the body by finding this points (below is a chart for you viewing) I have also included a link to a reflexology site in the title of this post. Maybe with a little knowledge and some foot work you will be able to end some of the pain in your partner. That should get a big thank you from them.

Think about it who else would you want touching your feet besides your partner. Isn't that in itself a turn on. So ladies touch up your toenails with polish and men wash those feet good in the shower. Cause tonight we are going to start from the bottom with a good foot massage.