Showing posts with label stimulate. Show all posts
Showing posts with label stimulate. Show all posts

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Use a long drive for deep talks.


Long drives are normally tiring and boring for everyone, especially the one doing the driving. As a couple you can help each other out by saving some deep conversations for your drive. Be it that you are going on vacation or just have a long drive ahead of you. A great conversation not only keeps the driver alert but it also makes the trip seem shorter. If you are the one not driving make sure to bring up subjects that are interesting and fun to talk about for your partner. Ask for their opinion on things and see if you can hit a passionate nerve for them to speak about. The meaning of life, desires for the future, past experiences are just a few things you can start conversations about. As you get into deep conversation the miles seem to pass quite faster and you might even reach your destination a little more refreshed then you would have imagined. If you two are alone in the car it is a great time to talk about your relationship. Don't talk about things that anger you, we don't want a fight on our drive, but the good things in your relationship. Praise your partner as you proceed on your drive. We so often don't tell our partner how good they make us feel and this is a wonderful time to do it. Touch the drivers arm or leg from time to time to give that human touch that is so important and also stimulates their feeling of being loved. Switch drivers when needed but try to keep the conversation going. Nothing makes a drive longer then when everyone is asleep and the driver has nothing to do besides focus on driving. The road becomes longer, and the driver becomes uncomfortable and itching for some human interaction. Music and food can help but it is not near as fun or exciting as that wonderful conversation the two of you could be having.

Friday, July 30, 2010

Genitals vs. Toes


Unless you have a foot fetish I can assume that you don't use your toes much during your intimate love making. While my toes aren't the most erotic part of my body they are still aids in creating different sensations. Toes feel different then fingers and usually have a little tougher skin on them than other parts of your body. So, stroking your partners genitals with you feet will feel a lot different from using you fingers. Now most of us don't have as much coordination with our toes as we do with our fingers so you have to take it slow. The last thing you want to do is whack your partners genitals hard, because that could put a damper on your love making. Toes can be used to stroke a man's penis and play with his testicles and believe me this is such a turn on for most guys. Toes can also be used to stimulate the nipples of both men and women. Now for something a little different you can use your toes to stimulate the lips of a woman's genitals. Gaining control of your little buggers on your foot can also allow you to enter her vagina. Both sexes can enjoy a little toe to anus play. The positions you can get into for this type of foreplay is amazing and you don't have to be one of those images from the Karma Sutra to enjoy them. If you do plan on using your toes as sex toys please make sure to wash them good, poor hygiene is the kiss of death when dealing with they feet. Toenails also need to be neatly trimmed for obvious reasons.

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Sexual tip - Simple change your angle


Want to find something that is simple to try in bed with your partner tonight. However, you don't want to scare them by introducing something they might not be ready for. Well by simply changing your angle of thrusting you can change and give different feeling to sex. This goes for both men and women. Women you can do this simply by turning around during sex. Ladies if you are on top then turn to face away from your partner (Reverse cowgirl) and see how much different it feels. Men for you you have to do a little more work to give your partner a different feel. One of my favorites is to thrust upwards instead of into the partner. This give a better change of hitting the g-spot during sex. Another great idea is to after you thrust and before you begin the return to lift your hips a little so the penis drags on the front of the vagina as it slips backwards. You can also circle your hips a little to try to stimulate different areas of your partner. If you have a little trouble with the different thrusting styles you can always incorporate the use of pillows. Purchase several pillows of different styles and shapes and place them areas such as under the back or butt. Maybe put them so that they elevate the legs or support areas that might be a little painful for your partner. Just make sure to get pillows that are washable as they might get a little soiled. Have a great day and a great night of sex.