Sex As A Work Out

Many people work out to be sexier but what if you use sex as your work out?  Does that make you even sexier as the pounds melt off?  You can search on the internet and find the calories that you burn during sexual activity.  With this knowledge you could set up a sexual work out chart and start seeing how many extra calories you can burn up with your sexual work out.  Charting this can be fun and it can help you make sure you work all sexual areas instead of just focusing on one area.  The beauty of this is you don't have to worry about those expensive exercise clothes.

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Sex Toys At A Garage Sale

One thing I can truly saw I have never saw, is sex toys at a garage sale.  Which really surprises me because I have seen some pretty personal items for sale at these trashy treasure hunts.  I mean come on some toys can be sterilized and cleaned depending on what they are made of.  Maybe I haven't ventured far enough into garage sale land to find this.  So I would love to hear if any of you out there have ever witnessed this.  Drop me at email at thecouplesspot@gmail.com and enclose a picture if you can.

If you are the humorous couple this might be a funny gag to play.  Setting up a table of just sex toys and seeing the reactions of people as they came up to browse.  Video that if you do it and send it to me this could be a real hoot.

Sexy Smells

One thing you don't want to overlook when trying to make your relationship great is your sense of smell. Various smells are appealing to different people. So you have to do a little trial and error. Some people are attracted to flowery smells such as geraniums, lavender or roses. Still others find food smells appealing things such as vanilla, pumpkin spice, and cinnamon. Just like you have to search for cologne and perfume that your partner enjoys you need to do the same for scents you might use in your bedroom or as lotions on yourself. A good method to try is to go the store and smell the candles. They come in a variety of smells and are strong enough for you to get a good feel just by sniffing them. Let me tell you a good smell can create a wonderful mood in the bedroom. This added scent can work wonders on getting your partner in the mood. For instance my partner has some vanilla lotion that drives me wild when she wears it as well as some peppermint lotion. Yes sometime smells can be overdone so don't over do it. A rule of thumb to use is that a little smell goes a long way. You each also have your own unique sent so don't underestimate that. Some people just love to smell each other and that can be a turn on it's self.

Need You Tonight - One of the Sexiest Songs of All Time

One you see this video below you will know why INXS could never replace the sexy Michael Hutchence as lead vocalists.  We would love to hear what you feel is the sexiest songs of all time.  Please comment below so we can check them out.

Peace and Love ,

Rob

 

Undressing Each Other

What do you feel when your partner starts to undress you?  Do you feel a rush of excitement knowing that love making is going to happen.  Do shivers go up and down your back with each button they undo.  What about the sound of your zipper being undone or when you feel that first touch against your bare skin.  Do you like it when you partner undresses you from in front of you or from behind you, lights on or light off.  Do the two of you kiss while this undressing is taking place?  All these questions might start to get you a little excited right now.  If so invite your partner tonight to undress you and pay attention to the feelings that we mentioned above and see if it creates a stronger yearning in you for the intimacy you are about to share.  

Adam and Eve - Naked Day

Okay it is friday night and if you don't have anything special to do tonight we have a suggestion.  Why not spend it Adam and Eve Style.  Naked with something very natural covering your.  Go out and pick up some leaves or flowers.  Bring them inside and together create your own fig leave costume.  Once finished take turns modeling them for each other and let the leaves start flying.  

Wishing You Were Here

Have you ever been someplace and realized that your partner would love this place.  You so want to share the experience with your partner.  However, what ever the reason it is no possible.  So, what do you do? 

Well there are several things you can do.  In this day and age you most likely could snap a picture on your phone to share with them later.  You could alway bring them to the spot on another day and hope for the same experience to share with them.  However, I think it would best if you describe it to them in your words and try to give them a mental image of the experience.  Taking the time to explain all the little details such as the smell in the air, the sounds, the way it made you feel will really touch your partner in deeper way, than just showing them a picture.  Try it next time and see the connection it brings.  

If your partner left you a love note....

If your partner left you a love note, what kind of note would you like it to be.

1. A Poem - Sweet and from the Heart?

2. A Humorous attempt to get you in bed later?

3. A Personal Message describing the ways they love you?

4. A Hot and Steamy, down and dirty Message?

5. Something else?

Tell us which type of letter you would like to receive. Give us details and if you have gotten any give us the scoop on them.

Thanks,

Rob

Do it yourself fashion shoot

Pictures are a wonderful thing I love to have amazing photos of my partner and our kids around our house.  However getting professional pictures done can be a little expensive.  So I suggest going out and doing your own fashion shoot.  Set a date and just drive around looking for wonderful places to take pictures of each other.  Enlist some friends or your kids to take pictures of the two of you together. You could also use a tripod and the delay setting on your camera to capture some great shots of the two of you.  Below is a picture we took together with it was a fun day on our fashion shoot.

Babysitter Co-ops

A common problem for couples going out on dates is finding the keeping a good babysitter.  First of all it is hard to find a good one and if they are very good they won't last very long as others will want their services. 

Why not start a babysitting Co-op?  What this would be is that you get together with a few other couples and form a community.  Obviously these are couples you know and trust.  Then you all take turns going on date nights and watching each others kids.  For example if you have 4 couples then one weekend night each month it is your turn to watch everyone's kids.  That means that 3 weekend nights during the month the other couples will be watching your children.  You feel safe and comfortable and the children will already know the other adults and feel comfortable.  I would trade one night a month to have 3 nights a month totally alone with my beloved. 

Another idea would be for all four couples to pitch in and pay for one great baby sitter to watch all the kids.  You would be able to offer a higher rate with everyone pitching in and that would attract the cream of the crop babysitters.  Then you all could go out together at some point and time.