Date Night Under $30.00

This video tells you some great ideas by Emma Merkas on how to make your date nights a little less stressful.  There are some great ideas on this video so take what you will and make your own date night using some of these suggestions.  

Will Fast Food Slow Down Your Sex Life?

This has been a super popular Sexy Challenge Heartbeats podcast episode.  Therefore, we wanted to share it with you here too!

We live in a culture, here in the US, in which the average person is said to eat fast food 4-5 times per week!  Holy cow!  So, how is the affecting our sex lives?  Does it have an impact?  We responded to this question today.  

Most likely you eat fast food - so you should listen in now!

You are what you eat,

Janelle and Rob - Co-Founders of Sexy Challenges

Get busy. Get spiritual. Laugh your ass off!

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Ever Want To Take Sexy Pictures Of Each Other? Well Do You Have The Right Camera?

Many people have a fantasy or enjoy taking racy or naked pictures of each other.  This can be quite a turn on for the both of you.  It can fall into the fantasy role play version of intimacy as one of you is the famous photographer and the other is the more than willing subject.  In the new digital age of photograph this is even easier as you don't have to send your pictures out to get developed.  Since this is such a great and fun thing to share with you lover, you should have the best tools to get the job done. Below are my top 5 cameras for use in this manner.

Click on the each Camera below to get the lowdown on each one.  

1.

The first camera is the Nikon D3200.  It is the highest priced camera of my picks but is will worth the money if you have it to spend.  Lots of features that you would expect from the price.

2.
My second choice and a little less pricy is the Cannon Digital Rebel T3 almost as many features as the Nikon D3200 but with a little less resolution but still a great buy.

3.
Okay this might be the one for you if you want more action.  The Nikon Coolpix AW1100 is not only a great camera but it is also WATERPROOF.  So if you want to get those steamy shower pictures this is the camera for you.

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This little Nikon Coolpix S6200 is easy to carry around and easy on the budget, while still delivering wonderful photos.

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Our last entry are for those of you on a limit budget.  This camera is the most economical of the bunch but still packs the punch to make your hot photos even hotter.

Happy Shooting.

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Skype Me, Darlin' (Ways We Communicate w/Lover 6 of 8)

Facetime, Skype....Use your webcam and see each other

No matter how far apart you are....

Part 6 of 8

   Webcam – Nowadays if we are going to be apart for a few days or even a few months, we can use webcam to see each other.  Many years ago when our partners would go off to war we had to hand write letters and then wait weeks, maybe even months, before we would hear back from them.  Now, not only can we talk on our cell phones at times, use email or perhaps texting, we can use webcam to actually see them.  We take this for granted now, but we should remember just how amazing technology really is in helping us communicate with our loves.

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Spiritual Awakening - How to Unlock Your Full Brain Capcity

**Note: I can't say that I agree with everything in this article.  But, the point is to give you a different perspective and something to ponder as well as chat about with your sweetie.  Could lead to some very deep conversation. - JA

Spiritual Awakening - How to Unlock Your Full Brain Capacity

By Tomas Coimin

'Always remember nothing is as it seems because life can be very inspiring when we shed our limitations... thus we live... '

There are three sides to you a) human being, b) spirit enjoying the experience of being human. However, because of nonsense we have separated from spirit but now we shall reconnect and c) Divine Light heart centre which is your link with spirit and universal intelligence i.e. LOVE...

Frankly there is no such thing as spiritual awakening because in essence you are awakening the human side to the realisation that spirit is always present. You are not spiritual, ever, you are spirit the rest is semantics. You are spirit anyway so there is nothing to be but yourself.

As for full brain capacity well, that is part and parcel of being awake with spirit, thus your primary and sole concern is to realise your full potential through spirit. Do not get bogged down in hyper-nonsense but accept the endless possibilities that shall unfold as you grow with spirit. You shall find out too that what you as a human think of as full brain capacity is something else entirely.

However, it is imperative to possess optimal psychological health, as we have been taught by Maslow if we are to enjoy and experience awakening. In Maslow's view, self-actualized people can have many peak experiences throughout a day while others have those experiences less frequently.

If you epitomise Maslow's findings then you are rather comfortable differentiating truth from bullology plus you are quite creative and spontaneous. Besides you shall not be too influenced by societies conventions thus you shall be free to discover and become an awakened enlightened spirit.

a) Meditate and never stop listening even while you work because you are going to develop meditation in motion.

b) To awaken ones spirit connectedness with all the added benefits requires total annihilation of experiences and teachings learned previously. One must shed all attachments to every living thing and then some. What in fact you are actually doing is stepping aside but with the knowing of relevance, thus your perspective is aligned with spirit not the human side of you.

c) One must be as blank as a page and as clear as a sparkling pane of glass in order to appreciate alternative outlooks that shed light on our endless possibilities. Then with new eyes, eyes of the awakened senses, one begins to know what previously was unseen.

d) To assist your journey read as many illuminating books by notable authors like Wallace B Wattles, James Allen, Alan Watts, Adyashanti, and St. Germain, Shakespeare etc. Of course study scriptures with an absolutely open mind guided through discernment and creativity. Remember all scriptures are written symbolically not literally; thus be wise with discernment.

e) One remarkable work is found in Sacred Texts written by Manly P. Hall titled 'THE SECRET TEACHINGS OF ALL AGES'. This is one of the most illuminating books imaginable and worthy of studying if you truly desire a broader comprehension of the machinations carried on through the centuries and the reasons we are currently brainwashed by irresponsible religions, politicians and industry.

f) A surprising book I just found through the voice of a two thousand year old YEW titled 'The Story of Yew' by Guido Mina di Sospiro is also worth reading. This book is filled with creative philosophies but gives us a compelling account of how humanity has ignored the overall picture of nature at our peril.

g) What we learn as we awaken is the absolute necessity to address our behaviours towards our planet and if our journey is not self-centred then we shall grow exponentially with the assistance of the entire picture of nature. Working with trees and other plants is highly recommended as is working and spending time with all facets of nature because essentially we are nature; undivided and united en masse.

h) To know Oneness and accept that there is no such thing as superiority / inferiority but unity is a humungous step towards awakening the full extent of spirit.

i) We are not awakening our full brain capacity per se but unlocking the doors that blocked our communion with Universal knowledge. Thus, we merge as it were with DIVINE INTELLIGENCE and appear as if our brain has woken up but in reality it has become one with Divine or Universal LOVE. LOVE is everything, Love is Universal Intelligence; thus let us know LOVE.

Namaste! May wisdom guide your steps through this wondrous illuminating experience.

Awakening is not a trip to the supermarket or a minute in a religious house - it is opening the page to your true self and the first of many that indicate the truth not perceived truth. Become the conqueror you are born to be and make the commitment to live with hugs, smiles, love and gratitude as the veil of confusion lifts. Thank you. Namaste! Tomas may be reached through e-mail: selfesteemawareness@gmail.com

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60 Other F-Words...Ever Wonder What He/She Really Means?

When someone says the "f-word" you assume you know what they mean.  Right?  But, what if you don't?  Recently, I posed the question to fans and friends about what other f-words might be connected to relationships.  Here is a fun little list.  If you can come up with others, feel free to share them in the comments. 

1. Forgive
2. Frankly
3. Funk
4. Funky
5. Frisky
6. Female
7. Feminine
8. Fantastic
9. French kiss
10. Foreplay
11. Facebook
12. Fantasy
13. Football
14. Furry
15. Footsie
16. Fancy
17. Feast
18. Frantic
19. Feeling
20. Flick
21. Frolic
22. Flog
23. Flip
24. Forever
25. Friend
26. Fellatio
27. Fabulous
28. Fast food
29. Food
30. Folly
31. Frivolous
32. Fruit
33. Fart
34. Fudge
35. Fuzzy
36. Fat
37. Fault
38. Fish
39. Fondle
40. Fondu
41. Frilly
42. Fall
43. Fairy (tale)
44. Flicker
45. Flame
46. Flameless
47. Flavorful
48. Fuel
49. Fool
50. Fishnet
51. Forbidden
52. Freaky
53. Faithful
54. Freedom
55. Family
56. Fumble
57. Father
58. Feud
59. Feisty
60. Fun

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Learn A New Language

Speaking Kind Words: Improve your relationship with heartfelt words.

Okay lovers can improve their relationship just by changing the language they use.  This book doesn't teach you a new language, it teaches you how to speak the words of love.  Right from the start you will begin to see an improvement in your relationship.  This was one of the beginning steps to getting our relationship on track.  

Click the above link to get Speaking Kind Words.

Description:

Relationships suffer greatly when partners no longer speak kind and loving words to one another. Saying the same words over and over, day in and day out, can become common place and those once powerful words lose some of their potency. In fact, do you remember the phrase, "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me?" That really isn't true. Not only can words hurt, but so can the lack of kind and loving words. Husband and wife team, Rob and Janelle Alex, share with you a method to bring back and even add new loving words to your relationship. Following the approach presented in Speaking Kind Words will improve and bring a new outlook to your relationship.

Sex Exercise Planks

If A Tree Falls...

Question:

If a tree falls in the woods

Do the other trees laugh?

Sexy Flameless Candles

Click above to check out these awesome flameless candles

Okay if you are familiar with our products and teachings from Sexy Challenges you know we mention flameless candles a lot.  We love candle light, however sometimes actual candles are not the safest thing to have around.  If there is going to be a lot of movement and activity in your bedroom (which we hope for you) then actual flameless candles can be quick scary.   So the flameless ones can be a great alternative.  The ones I have pictured above are awesome not only do they have the realistic look but they also come with a remote control so that when the time is right to extinguish the candles you don't even have to get up.  The soft glow of candle light is so sexy and now it can be safe too.