Come on it's Valentine's Day wear some lingerie

Lingerie has long been a part of Valentine's Day, it's sexy and sends a direct message to your partner. That message is I love you and want you to desire me. Now while lingerie is sexy and hot you have to bring a little attitude with it to really pull the sexy part of it off. Someone shy in lingerie is cute but their is something special about someone that is aggressive in their pursuit of you. Victoria's Secret is obviously a great place to purchase your lingerie they have some amazing and wonderful products. However, they are a bit on the high side of the cost scale not that their items aren't worth it. If you need a little more budget conscience lingerie don't be afraid to search the internet to get a less expensive items. Don't stop with just lingerie but oils and toys can make a delightful Valentine's day. The beauty of lingerie is that it is a present for both partners the one who receives it obviously but it is also a great present for the person you are wearing it for. Think sexy this Valentine's day and show your partner how much they mean to you, by showing them the time of their life.

Picture from Victoria's Secret online Catalog.

Do a little shopping for the two of you!

This the season to be jolly and what better way then to buy something fun for the two of you. In this day and age is is so easy to find something with a little spark to it without going somewhere that you might be seen by your neighbor, your childrens teachers, or even you minister. The internet allows couples to browse and choose items to spice up their relationship without ever leaving the comforts of their home. No more sneaking around or standing a few aisles over to look at the item you want to share with your partner. When you order over the internet even the packaging is descret, so you don't have to worry about your mailperson or neighbor finding out what is in the box. This fact alone has helped couples branch out a little and try new things to improve the sex in their relationship. Tonight get out the hot cocoa and find a online sex toy shop that fits your bill and do a little shopping for the couple in you. Take turns picking out a toy or do a random search and pick what ever you turn up. Then try it out and see what happens you never know until you try and try and try again, see where the fun comes in on this.

How often our views use Sex Toys!

Sex toys have been around for a long time, however they only have recently become normal within a relationship. Most couples have at least experimented with sex toys and most use them on occasion. It blows my mind that in this day and age we still have couples in great relationships that are afraid to use sex toys. Vibrators, cock rings, lotions and lubes can add so much to your intimacy. I agree that you don't need to use a sex toy every time you make love. There is a little tid bit for you you chew on fingers are one of the best sex toys you can play with. Most everyone has them and they are totally at your control, you can use them one yourself or your partner. With shopping online you don't have to worry about the fear of going to a store to purchase sex toys, not that you should be afraid. The boxes are not marked on the outside so the UPS man doesn't know you just purchased the extra large butt plug. If you are in a committed relationship and haven't used sex toys to this point I think you at least ought to try some out. Pick up a small vibrator or a cock ring and see what happens.

Results of our Survey:

Our survey showed that 72% of our viewers have used sex toys during intimacy.

It also showed that 27% use sex toys every time they make love.

45% of our viewers use sex toys occasionally.

These numbers show that the majority of people are now using sex toys.

Surpise in your Cereal Box.

Remember when you were a kid and you couldn't wait to get the toy out of the box of cereal. I use to reach down through all the cereal to reach that golden prize. I remember looking at our cereal shelf and all our boxes being bowed out in the middle from the four of us kids reaching trying to get that prize before the others.

Well why not create some of that excitement in the mornings again. If you partner eats the same cereal most of the time. Slip them a little surprise into their morning routine. Put a note in a little plastic bag in the bottom of their cereal box. It could say simply that you love them or you could promise them a sexy adventure when they find the note. You can slip anything into the box it could be tickets to a baseball game, a gift certificate to a spa, a dinner invitation, or even jewelry.

It doesn't matter what you put in their box it will definitely be a surprise they were not expecting. It might be a couple of days before they find their prize but believe me they will be most appreciative. I just hope they don't go searching through all the cereal boxes now.

Lets focus on Nipples. (Specific Blog page dealing with nipple play)

I think we all understand that the nipple is an erogenous zone. I mean just touch your own and you can tell it is sensitive, unless you have had some sort of problem in the past. I want the two of you to put more focus on the nipple the next time you are intimate. I want you to go all out, so start making some notes and plan accordingly. Definitely use your mouth on your partners nipple, but don't just use your mouth. Get some toys or props to help get your partners nipples has hard as you can. Vibrators are not just for the lower part of the body, they can be great nipple stimulator, also. Oils and lubes are another of the products you probably have on your headboard that can arouse a nipple very fast. If you have ones that heat up, that is always a nice sensation to feel. Get some ice cubes and have a frosty nipple, just make sure you warm it back up. You also need to find out what your partner can take in nipple play. Do they like them to be pulled on hard, or squeezed, some people like them nibbles on or bit. Preferences can change from day to day also so be prepared their is not a master plan. You can also try different food items on the nipple to be licked off such as honey, chocolate, whip cream, or even fruit slices. I know I am going to get a lot of flack about making sure not to forget about the rest of the breast. I know that it is important also but, this time I want you to only focus on the nipple. Make it a nippalicous day.

As I am writing this I realize that I haven't made one thing clear. I want to make a point this is for both men and women, both of your nipples are meant to be played with. So ladies do the same for you men as you would like them to do for you. I have heard of people being able to get off from nipple play. I however don't think I could ever ejaculate because of nipple stimulation but I do love the sensation.

Clicking on the title will take you to a page with more specific forms of nipple play.

Enjoy your nipples!