The Temperature of romance

We all have a specific temperatures that we are comfortable with be it during the day or in the evening when we are trying to sleep. We also all have temperatures that we like to make love in or snuggle at so do a little research and find the best temperatures for you and your partner. Hit the air conditioning if you partner doesn't like sweaty sex. Keep the thermostat turned down cooler in those winter months to encourage your partner to snuggle. Turn the air conditioning down to get your partner into wearing less clothes around the house. Heck you can even turn the heat up in the winter and wear you swimsuits around. Have fun with this little adjusting of the temperature. Make it hot then when you partner complains tell them "Well maybe you should have so many clothes on!" with a raised eyebrow.

Be prepared as a couple.

Recently our furnace when out, during the middle of winter. Upon finding out from our local heating and cooling specialist that we needed to purchase a new furnace, we also were told that they couldn't put said furnace in for three days. This threw our whole relationship on tilt as we had to figure out how to live in just a couple of rooms in our house with only the heat of space heaters. Being the couple that we are we found all the blankets in the house and our warmest clothes to put on and sit about to snuggle the weekend away. It sounded like a great idea and we both figured that if nothing else we might find time to have a little fun under the blankets. To our dismay the temperature dropped to the lowest point in had been all year and instead of using the friction of our naked bodies to keep us hot, instead we found us in flannel sheets with pajamas on snuggling to stay warm. Neither of us even considered taking our clothes off for even a short time, so there was going to be no intimacy during this time, or was there? Turns out the snuggling without the thought of sex send us back to a simpler time and we talked and snuggled as much as we could. We watched some great movies and ate or dinner with blankets wrapped around us. We all make fun of the snuggies but believe you, I would have loved to had one at this time. We spent a wonderful three days together saying warm and reconnecting with the use of conversation and snuggling. Don't get me wrong as soon as the heat was back on we both were ready to pounce on each other. However, it was nice to go back to a simpler time when all you needed was your partner to get through any situation. The rock that is called a relationship is sometimes way more powerful then we think. In closing make sure your relationship can handle all these bumps in the road, because they will come when you least expect it and their is no one better to ride out these situations with then your partner.

Get out in the cold, so you can warm up together later.

Even though it is winter time for most of us there are still plenty of things for couples to do outside. You can always dress up really warm and go for a exhilarating walk in the cold air. Snow skiing is another way couples can pass the time outside and there are several forms you can participate in. Your normal down hill skiing, sledding, tubing, and cross country skiing are just a few activities that can get the two of you outside, with being able to be together. Building snowmen, making snow angels or just challenge the local kids to a snowball fight. Just make sure to dress warmly and enjoy each others company. Now after you spend all this time out in the cold air, you are going to need to warm up. What better way then to snuggle up together in front of the fireplace sipping hot cocoa while you touch each other. At this time of year nothing is more romantic then enjoying a warm fire with the person you want to be closest to.

Lets focus on Nipples. (Specific Blog page dealing with nipple play)

I think we all understand that the nipple is an erogenous zone. I mean just touch your own and you can tell it is sensitive, unless you have had some sort of problem in the past. I want the two of you to put more focus on the nipple the next time you are intimate. I want you to go all out, so start making some notes and plan accordingly. Definitely use your mouth on your partners nipple, but don't just use your mouth. Get some toys or props to help get your partners nipples has hard as you can. Vibrators are not just for the lower part of the body, they can be great nipple stimulator, also. Oils and lubes are another of the products you probably have on your headboard that can arouse a nipple very fast. If you have ones that heat up, that is always a nice sensation to feel. Get some ice cubes and have a frosty nipple, just make sure you warm it back up. You also need to find out what your partner can take in nipple play. Do they like them to be pulled on hard, or squeezed, some people like them nibbles on or bit. Preferences can change from day to day also so be prepared their is not a master plan. You can also try different food items on the nipple to be licked off such as honey, chocolate, whip cream, or even fruit slices. I know I am going to get a lot of flack about making sure not to forget about the rest of the breast. I know that it is important also but, this time I want you to only focus on the nipple. Make it a nippalicous day.

As I am writing this I realize that I haven't made one thing clear. I want to make a point this is for both men and women, both of your nipples are meant to be played with. So ladies do the same for you men as you would like them to do for you. I have heard of people being able to get off from nipple play. I however don't think I could ever ejaculate because of nipple stimulation but I do love the sensation.

Clicking on the title will take you to a page with more specific forms of nipple play.

Enjoy your nipples!