Make Your Own Sexy Fireworks

How are you going to celebrate the 4th of July with your sweetie?

Ah, if you aren't in the USA, then it may very likely just be another day for you.

But, still why not make some fireworks of your own - if you know what we mean ;) 

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10 Things Your Preacher Doesn't Want You Know

               

10 Things Your Preacher

Doesn’t Want You To Know

*Prepare to either be offended or simply enjoy the lightheartedness.

1.  WWJD

1.     WWJRD (What would Jesus really do?):  He would laugh, love, and share mad, passionate, hot, steamy sex with his sweetheart! Why? Because he understood the beautiful power of energy – especially the creativity of sexual energy.

2.     Sex is the ultimate life force: Isn’t it obvious?  What creates life?  What creates a child?  Sex!  What was the big bang?  An orgasmic explosion!  Where do new ideas and concepts come from? Creativity.  What creates?  Sex via the Divine.  Conception in all ways = the life force.

3.     Orgasm is a prayer: Honoring your soul, your lover’s soul, spirit, the Divine, the Universe, God, Goddess, your Higher Self, etc. can be done through making love with your beloved and experiencing orgasm.  This experience is really a prayer.  It is a way to connect to the Divine source and appreciate ALL.

4.     The People in the Pew In Front of You Are Doing It: Okay, maybe not at that very moment.  That might be…well, inappropriate in our society to have sex during church, in the pew, in front of everyone.  But, they ARE doing it.  They just may have been taught to believe it is supposed to be kept hush hush.

5.     The Bible is Actually Fiction:  Eke – you say!  It was written/compiled around 325 AD – that is over 300 years after Jesus!  The First Council of Nicea was a group of Catholic Bishops who got together and decided what stories (passed down for hundreds and hundreds of years) would go in the Bible.  Come on – we all know that oral stories passed down get changed and filtered…the fish get bigger, the heroes become more heroic, the hardships harder to bare, etc.  Even the book of Genesis has two, maybe even three, versions of creation.  It is a nice novel filled with metaphors and symbolism – don’t fall into the trap of taking it literally.

6.     The Ark Was a Floating Brothel: Well, at least for the animals – if you even believe there was an ark.  Those animals had better have been getting busy if they wanted to survive!

7.     Mary Didn’t Ride an Ass, She Got Some Ass: Uh, oh!  Have we gone too far?  Nah!  Immaculate conception our asses.  She and Joseph made love before marriage.  Big fricking deal!  Well, it was then.  Joseph could have chosen to stone her to death!  Yes, the Divine is more powerful than we can comprehend, but believing that Mary and Joseph couldn’t possibly have made love prior to marriage is foolish.  It is simply ridiculous to make such a big deal out of them having sex – they were even already engaged.  Remember lovemaking is beautiful and these two people apparently shared their passion.  Then, surprise!  She conceived.

8.     Jesus Got Busy: Jesus was a powerful, charismatic speaker.  He is an ascended master and is/was deeply enlightened.  But, he was a man too.  It is said that he and Mary Magdalene left the area after his supposed death, shared their physical and spiritual passions and had a number of children. 

9.     You Can Direct Your Sexual Energy to Manifest: You can learn to direct the sexual and orgasmic energy that you and your lover draw to you.  You can manifest more money, physical healing, abundance, and so much more into your life and into the lives of those around you.  Making love with your sweetie offers you an opportunity to pierce the veil between the physical dimension and the spiritual dimension.

10. The Preacher Has Downloaded Every Single Sexy Challenge: Now, why would he do that?  Because he knows the power of sex and the power of directing his and his partner’s sexual energy!  But, he wants to maintain his authority and his power – so he tells you it can’t be done and that having sex in this way or that way or during this time or that time is wrong and you will be punished.  Geesh!  You know in your heart the truth…and your body is trying to tell you!  Isn’t it time you listen?

So, right about now you are either pissed off, shocked, devastated, excited, have had the light turned on, or you are laughing your ass off.  We know the power of orgasmic energy and Sexy Challenges can take you there.  Guess what?  We aren’t going to be quiet about it either!  We are shouting it from the mountaintops.  Join in the spiritual revolution and tap into your Divine power!   

Rob Alex, M.Sc. & Janelle Alex, Ph.D.

Sexychallenges.com

Copyright 2013

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Break Away From Your Standard Wedding Rings

Recently we wanted to get new wedding bands just to change things up.  Upon looking we found many wonderful choices out there, and with great values.  We found many wonderful rings that had a spiritual message to them, it almost made it hard to choose.  Click on the Rings above and witness these rings that have a Celtic design to them.  It was amazing when we put on our new rings and how they gave us a new found power not only in our relationship but in our spirituality also.  

Text Me, Sexy! (Ways We Communicate w/Lover - 4 of 8)

Part 4 of 8

 Texting – Modern technology has changed the way we communicate with family, friends and yes, even our partners.  It is important to consider whether or not we use texting to our benefit.  Texting a loving or even sexy message during the day to our lover can be sweet and fun.  Sending a text to “freaking stop and get milk” with no other message can seem rude and thoughtless.  Unless we use all caps or exclamation points or add words or symbols of love texting remains flat with no emotion.  We also must be aware of responding to someone else’s text while we are supposed to be focused on our partner – such as while having dinner together.  

Janelle Alex, Ph.D. Copyright 2011

http://www.sexychallenges.com

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Being His/Her Rock

Have you ever felt lost and adrift?  

Ever needed someone or something to cling to to survive?

Is your lover a rock for you?  

Standing there strong and secure as the waves crash down around him/her.

Remember to be grateful for him/her!

Remember to be a rock for your sweetheart, too!

We all have times when we need one another.

*The rock in this photo reminds me of the spot where Rob proposed to me 12 years ago!

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Don't Judge Other's Love

Do you want other people to judge how you love your partner?

Do you want someone to verbally attack you for behaving in a way that they don't agree with?

What is truly important is respecting your lover in the way that resonates with you.

It is about honoring love and the soul, showing respect, trusting, and treating the body as a temple.

If you don't agree with how someone else loves, too bad - keep your mouth shut and focus on your own behaviors, decisions and relationships!

Throwing negativity or hatred or violence at others (verbally, emotionally or physically) is not going to benefit anyone and it will eventually come back to bite you in the ass!

Stop judging - it is not your place!

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The Key to Your Heart & Soul

We can't turn back time and undo the things that we have done or that have been done to us.  But, if we lock the door to our heart and to our soul and throw away the key, we can't continue growing either.

Pick up your key, insert it into the lock, turn it, and slowly and gently open the door.  

Reach out your hand to the world, the future that you have yet to hold.  

If need be, simply peek out the door.  When you are ready take those first few steps and see just what possibilities, what opportunities are waiting for you.

Just opening the door will allow fresh air to flow into your heart and soul.  

Is it frightening?  To some - very much so.

Is it worth it?  YES!

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5 Minutes a Day to Change Your Life!

You can change your experience simply by giving yourself five minutes a day. 

Sit up tall.  

Close your eyes.

Place a half smile on your face (no matter how you feel).

Focus on your breathing.

Consciously relax the muscles in your face.

Relax the muscles in your neck and shoulders.

Relax your stomach.

Relax your arms and hands.

Melt into your legs.

Melt into the floor.

Take a final deep breath and release it slowly.

Slowly open your eyes and come back to yourself.

Taking care of YOU ultimately takes care of your relationship and family too!

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Want More Sex?

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We often hear people say they want more sex, but is that really what they want.  For that matter, what does it mean when you or your lover says you want more sex?  We talked about this a bit on this episode.

Remember to visit http://sexychallenges.com.

Have a sextacular day, Rob and Janelle - Co-Founders of Sexy Challenges
Get busy. Get spiritual. Laugh your ass off!

Wanna New Tattoo?

Do you have a tattoo?  Ever wanted one or another one?

Well, bring that into your lovemaking and you might just discover an amazing and unique experience.

Pick up Tattoo You today via Amazon.

Tattoos have had a lot of purposes. Today they are often gotten as a fashion statement, but they usually carry a lot of meaning for the wearer. Have you ever considered a tattoo, but didn’t want to commit to a permanent inking? Well, check out this new Sexy Challenge. It offers you a chance to do just that in a special way with your lover.