Don't leave without a kiss.

As we start to stumble though our life and relationship things start to fall to the side. One of these things is kissing each other goodbye. It may seem a little silly but in my opinion whenever one of you leaves no matter what reason you should at least give a little peck goodbye. It should be a habit not a stretch for the two of you. The reason being is that life can take a twist or turn at any time. I have heard so many stories about people that have lost their partner and they say if I only could have given them one more kiss. We don't want to make it sound like a disaster is going to happen and I don't want you to look at it this way. What I would rather you do is look at it as sending them off with your energy. Giving them your passion and strength. Now that is a great way to look at it. Next time your partner is running out the door to leave make sure to call them back and lay a great big kiss on them. You know the energy that you will be sharing with them and they will feel it.

Wake Up Call

Sometimes your plans for intercoarse just don't work out right. Either work schedules, kids or other events just don't let you participate when you would like to. When this happens to you give your partner permission to wake you up during the evening for some late night sex. Tell them it is okay to wake you up by massaging your genitals, this is a wonderful way to wake up. If you have to set your alarm for sex. No one says you can't have that setting on your alarm. This way of making love can really be a turn on, as it might feel like you are sneaking by meeting in the middle of the night. Make sure to get any toys or lubes close to the bed before hand so you don't have to stumble around in the dark.

Just beware sometimes it takes a little more foreplay to get someone ready for love making, when they are in a deep sleep. Sometimes it is the exact opposite and they are more ready to go when you wake them. If they are aware sex is coming they might even have some foreplay dreams the could get them warmed up. Again make sure your get or grant permission first so you don't get caught with your hand in the cookie jar.

Saying something nice...

Okay here is your assignment for the day. I want you to say something nice about your partner. Simply enough I am sure you all have tons of things you like to tell your partner about why they are so special. Now here is the catch. You have to say this to another person, not your partner, and I want it to be where your partner can hear you. The assignment just got a little tougher. Social settings make it easier to perform this assignment as you have many people to talk with. With a little thinking I am sure you will be able to find away to accomplish this.

Heck call someone and talk within ear shot of your partner. I think you will see a big smile on their face as you talk about them to someone else. You can add bonus points to your assignment if you can talk about how great they are at intimacy or romance. Heck just pretend you are talking to your buddy or girlfriend on the phone and give some juicy details just not to juicy. For an added touch have someone call you on the phone then tell them to hang up, tell them you just want to test your phone.

We all love to hear good things about ourselves. I make them so much better when you are telling those things to someone else. We know they are true then. You can tell us one thing to our face to be nice but you tell your friends the truth. Now I aspect this assignment to be turned in on time and I hope you put enough effort into it to get an A. Don't forget about the bonus points.

Keep Lovin'

Rob

Watch the Young Kids

Do you ever feel like your getting old! I don't me individually I mean as a couple. Do you still hold hands when you are walking someplace. Do you call each other several times a day. Do you kiss often. Well if you think your relationship is getting old. All you have to do to rekindle part of it is watch some kids. Go to the movies and watch the teenagers that are on a date. See how they act toward each other. You can go anywhere, that teenagers go on dates to find out what is missing in your relationship.

Sometimes in the hustle and bustle of taking kids to practice, getting ready for work, making dinner, we lose site of why we started this relationship in the first place. That being the attraction that brought you together. So slow down a little or set sometime aside to act like teenagers again, I am sure you will be glad you did. Just make sure to have your date home by 10pm.