Game of Loaded Questions. (Click here to go to their Website)

I recently went to the book store and found a wonderful game it is called "Loaded Questions" The game is as simple as it can be you just ask the questions and both of you give your best answers. The best part of this game is no wrong or right answers they are all opinions. So you have to do some elaborating to explain your choices to your partner. Yes, there is a board and some strategies I am sure but we just threw out the game and kept the cards. The questions are simple and allow for silly answers. This is great game for couples or for a group. It allows you to laugh and communicate with each other. You might even find out some things you didn't know about your partner. Some of their question are as follows:

1. If you were invisible, where would you go?

2. Name one celebrity that has no right being a celebrity.

3. What two people would you most like to stand next to in a picture?

4. What fad did you pick up that you are most embarrassed about?

Not only do they have a basic version but they also have a political version, a kids version, and an ADULT version (I will have to order that one) I must say I really love this company's take on gaming they have some others you can view on their website, which you can get to by clicking on the title of this post.

You could make these questions up yourself if you are strapped for cash. I however think it better to spring for the game because they are going to hit a lot of subjects you might not think about.

As for what two people would I like to stand between in a picture. My choices would be Adam Sandler and Einstein that way I would be half way between funny and smart!

To much of a good thing...is a bad thing

You know when you do something that really works well. Like say you bring your partner flowers, or take them to that special restaurant. Well it works so well you can't wait to do it again. Well don't, taking something that is special and doing it more often takes away it's special feeling. For example buying your partner flowers as mentioned above is great for anniversaries but if you buy them flowers ever week it takes away it's luster. You have to make sure you don't overdue anything that works well. I suggest taking the twice a year approach. If you have something that works really well in your relationship and makes your partner feel special. You should wait at least six months before you do that activity again. This way there is no fear it will become boring and mundane.

This works in you sexual adventures as well. Yes we all have things we like every time we make love. I am looking for the special activities, like maybe dressing up, or acting out a fantasy. If you haven't figured it out yet variety helps promote great couples. So from your family activities to your alone activities you need to mix them up a little. Excitement only last so long on any new thing, just watch a child that gets a new toy. They won't let go of it when the first take it out of the package but about a week later they might not be able to find it. Let's keep our relationship where we can find it, and mix it up a little.

New and exciting always beats normal and boring.

Stress got you down ..Get out some old pictures.

Is your partner stressed? Are they having a terrible day at work or traffic got them ready to strangle someone. We all feel like this from time to time. When you or your partner are feeling the weight for stress I suggest getting out some of your old photos. Get the ones of the two of you on vacation or on your honeymoon. They can be pictures of your children romping through the woods, or holiday gatherings. The only stipulation is that the events in the pictures were relatively stress free. Remember the time you spend together when you were dating, and the only thing that meant anything was the two of you. Do you have pictures of that time in your life well bring them out if you do. Remember the funny time when your cares where not even present and bring out pictures of that. You might have to do a little digging in the basement or attic but you know that those images are there.

Help your partner recover from their stress. Take them back to a place ,with the use of old photos, that will sooth their inner beast.

We cannot relive the past but we can remember it!

Time to Honor Our Hero's

Yes ladies and gentlemen Iwould like to take a moment to honor all the brave souls living and decesed that protected our great country. I am very proud to live in the USA and think everyone who lives here should be also. So today as a couple you should do a littel research and see how many of your relitives severed in the armed forces. You can also do this for your country if you live outside the USA. No matter what the cause or effect these people were hero's to stand up for their country. Find out how many members of your partners family served their country and maybe you could even find some old pictures of them to copy. Your children or your future children might get a kick out of seeing them later. While I don't agree with the acts of war I do agree that these people should be honored.

So today the message is short and simple for The Couples Spot. Just be proud of the people that have protected your great country. As your at your Cookout today remember this is not just a time to eat and be with friends it is a time to remember.

Exercise Balls - They Are Used For More Than Just Exercise

Have you been wanting to try new positions in your love making? Have you gotten all the books with the positions that you have to be a gymnast to get into. Well, here is a nice little idea that uses an exercise ball. Yes, you heard me right. You know that piece of gym equipment that sits in your corner. You might not think of it as a sexual enhancer, but really think about it for a second. The ball gives you lots of cushion, it bounces with your weight, and dang it is just fun! Believe it or not you can get a book on how to use your exercise ball during sex. Not only does it show you positions, but it also shows you the muscle groups you will be using during each position. So now you can have sex and work on those problem areas at the same time. All joking aside I think this is a wonderful idea. An exercise ball is not intimidating like some sex enhancers and like I said earlier it is fun. 

You can go to the Sexy-Balls website to learn more by clicking the title of this post. Watch the sexy balls video below.

'

Wash each others hair. (Click her to learn more about sensual hair washing)

Next time your partner is taking a shower slip in with them and wash their hair. Take turns and return the favor after getting your washed. There is something about someone else running their fingers through your hair. It is accentuated when your hair is wet and soapy. Make sure you naked wet bodies stay up against each other for that added effect. Let the person whom is getting their hair washed enjoy the moment. Take a little longer then when you wash your hair. This is not a "Just get it Done" job, it is meant to be savored and romantic. Make sure you know their routine also. If they use conditioner make sure you use it also. When it is your turn make sure to enjoy the total sensation of getting your hair washed. The scalp massage, the magical fingers playing with your hair, and the rinsing of running water over your entire head.

Thing of this as a cleansing washing all the troubles and concerns out of your partners head. Maybe then some better thoughts will pop into their head (wink, wink). Watch below to get some tips from the Zohan!!

Chore List! (Click here to find out more about sexy chore play)

Here is a fun way to get extra chores done around the house. Make a list of chores that you don't do everyday. Now take that list and attach a sexual act to each one. The harder the chore the more exotic the act should be. Examples might be if your partner cleans out the whole garage you would tie them up and pleasure them in ways they never imagined. If they change the bed sheets you might offer to perform oral sex on them. If they wash the windows you could wear some new lingerie for them. The list can be as long as the number of chores you need to complete. Guys this is not just for the ladies you can make a list also. Say for example you would like to have your car cleaned you could offer her a nice massage or the use of a massage!!! Keep the list and pay the cost whenever your partner gets the job done. You will be amazed at how much work you will be able to get done for the right price.

The wonderful painting was created by Farik Osman and is titled "Miss Sexy Chore"

Saying something nice...

Okay here is your assignment for the day. I want you to say something nice about your partner. Simply enough I am sure you all have tons of things you like to tell your partner about why they are so special. Now here is the catch. You have to say this to another person, not your partner, and I want it to be where your partner can hear you. The assignment just got a little tougher. Social settings make it easier to perform this assignment as you have many people to talk with. With a little thinking I am sure you will be able to find away to accomplish this.

Heck call someone and talk within ear shot of your partner. I think you will see a big smile on their face as you talk about them to someone else. You can add bonus points to your assignment if you can talk about how great they are at intimacy or romance. Heck just pretend you are talking to your buddy or girlfriend on the phone and give some juicy details just not to juicy. For an added touch have someone call you on the phone then tell them to hang up, tell them you just want to test your phone.

We all love to hear good things about ourselves. I make them so much better when you are telling those things to someone else. We know they are true then. You can tell us one thing to our face to be nice but you tell your friends the truth. Now I aspect this assignment to be turned in on time and I hope you put enough effort into it to get an A. Don't forget about the bonus points.

Keep Lovin'

Rob

Just bike it

As we got older and got cars to take us back and forth to events and work, we forgot about some of our early forms of transportation. Namely our bikes. I remember riding around our neighborhood thinking how free I was on my bike. I use to ride by all the girls houses I had crushes on just to see if they were outside. Thinking maybe they would just come and pull me off my bike and kiss me. Well we might not be eleven years old again but we can but some romance back on bike wheels again.

I have been an avid bike rider now for about seven years and I love it. Three years ago I found a new thrill I never knew existed while bike riding. I love getting out and working up a good sweat as I travel the rodes as fast as I could. This thrill, however comes from casually riding with my wife. We wanted to find something good for us to do together that would be healthy. So I suggested riding, she quickly thought that was a good idea. I however thought I had just shot myself in the foot. Ideas ran through my mind of me having to pedal slowly or wait for her to catch up as I exercised. Well I must admit riding with your spouse is different but it is more enjoyable then I ever thought. We get to chat as we ride and we also get away from out daily routine.

We look for trails that have great scenery and that whined through the woods. Not only do we get great exercise but we get to spend time together and stop every once in a while to kiss or just hold each other. You can find loads of trail on the Internet, One that made us wow was one just outside of Branson Missouri. It was a pay trail which put us off a little but we are so glad we did it. The trail had seven waterfalls and some amazing views, we spend half a day on this trail we actually rode it two times. We have also found several trail and each has it's own identity. One trail we like to ride goes right down throgh the middle of a larger city, it as cafes and shops all along the trail. We even take our kids on these trips now, too. Bike is a passion of both of ours now. So go and get your old bike out or just go get a new one. It doesn't have to be an expensive one to get the feeling of flying down the road again. Just remember to wear your helmet.

The fun part is when we are riding I picture my wife as a little girl with her pigtails flying in the air. I just hope maybe she will stop and want to pull me off my bike and kiss me.

(The couple above needs to have helmets on and you might save the hand holding for when you stop)