Sometimes a Hug is All You Need!

Sometimes a hug can make all the difference in the world. Have you ever had a bad day or just a day when nothing seemed to go right. Maybe you have done some things you thought were helpful only for them to be perceived differently by others. These are the type of days that you just want to crawl back into bed. This is where the hugs come in. Sometimes we just need a hug to get our day going back in the right direction. I personally don't think people hug enough, not in relationship or just in general. Next time your partner is having one of those days where it seems like he/she is about to blow his/her top. Just walk over to and give him/her a great big hug. No words just squeeze your partner like there is no tomorrow. I think he/she will get the picture.

How often our views use Sex Toys!

Sex toys have been around for a long time, however they only have recently become normal within a relationship. Most couples have at least experimented with sex toys and most use them on occasion. It blows my mind that in this day and age we still have couples in great relationships that are afraid to use sex toys. Vibrators, cock rings, lotions and lubes can add so much to your intimacy. I agree that you don't need to use a sex toy every time you make love. There is a little tid bit for you you chew on fingers are one of the best sex toys you can play with. Most everyone has them and they are totally at your control, you can use them one yourself or your partner. With shopping online you don't have to worry about the fear of going to a store to purchase sex toys, not that you should be afraid. The boxes are not marked on the outside so the UPS man doesn't know you just purchased the extra large butt plug. If you are in a committed relationship and haven't used sex toys to this point I think you at least ought to try some out. Pick up a small vibrator or a cock ring and see what happens.

Results of our Survey:

Our survey showed that 72% of our viewers have used sex toys during intimacy.

It also showed that 27% use sex toys every time they make love.

45% of our viewers use sex toys occasionally.

These numbers show that the majority of people are now using sex toys.

Shared Thinking

Sometimes in your relationship you have to find common ground. Why not start this out from the beginning by sharing your thinking. Anything that you might want to accomplish will benefit from the two of you putting your heads together to find the best ideas. Even something as simple as finding a place to eat. If both of your offer your ideas maybe you can find a place that caters to both. Say she wants seafood and he wants steak, I am sure you can find a place to eat that offers both. Same thing for all the things you do. Painting your house, remodeling, finding the right house. If you share your thinking you can usually satisfy both partners in a relationship.

Smiling Bob knows.

Have you seen the Smiling Bob commercials for nature male enhancement? Well if you haven't I have pasted one on the bottom of this post. Now I am not trying to sale you the product in the add but I do want to touch on the subject of confidence. Ladies this one is directed at you. Do you have days that you wish your man was more confident and ready to take on the world. Times like new job interviews, promotions, or anything where your man strives to be the best. You can help by giving him confidence in your own way. Men respond to sex and it gives them power that they don't know they posses. After a night of passionate sex most men respond with a new found confidence. It gives them a sense of accomplishment and a feeling of being loved. Try this tactic for yourself. Next time you mate is about to have an important meeting or golf match or even working on a new project. Give in the special treatment the night before. Watch him bound out of bed like superman and just make a note of how he does in his quest. Remember this a man with confidence can take on the world, a man without hides from the world. Hopefully you are wanting to make love to your man anyway but make sure to put this into effect. You might just be surprised at how much better your man performs. Plus you get to enjoy the sex, also. Love and passion posses the keys to the universe for your relationship so put it in motion today.

A little date humor for you.

Make sure you have everything in place for a romantic date. However when using candles make sure they don't get to close to anthing that might cause a problem. Watch this video for a good little chuckle. I will be back tomorrow with another great realtionship ides.

Wake Up on the Right Side of the Bed

Do you ever have those mornings when nothing seems to go right and everyone seems to get on your nerves. To make matters worse you want to take everything out on your partner. Well, when you get up and feel this way you need to take action. Try this.

When you start wondering why am are so snippy with everyone go back into your bedroom and lay back down on the bed.  Take a couple of deep breaths and release them slowly.  Then get up on the opposite side of the bed.  Make a conscious effort to relax and start your day over.

Stress begets more stress so take some deep breaths and let your "new" morning start out better.

Tell me about your great and bad dates.

I am curious as to what constitutes a great date. I want to hear from our viewer about where they have went the turned out to be a great date and where did you go that turned out to be a lousy date. I understand we might get some conflicting data but for the most part I just want to know. It is so hard to pick the right place for that first date, so I would like to be able to pass along some information to those who are about to embark on their first date with someone. For me the first date should be someplace quite that you can talk. Place such as museums or the zoo that give you a chance to walk around and chit chat about the exhibits to get the conversation flowing. My opinion of the worst places to go are crowed clubs or the movies as they tend to be places that you can't converse or that you sit and watch for long periods of time. These are my examples but I want to hear from you so drop me a line at thecouplesspot@gmail.com . I am anxious to hear from everyone.

Get a Routine Going.

You want more free time and you don't want to spend it working around the house. Well you need to get more organized in your cleaning routine. If you don't want to spend the weekend doing chores, you need to make a routine and follow it through the week. Do the dishes in the morning, sweep before bed, laundry while your watching your favorite show. Find ways to do these chores during times you can combined them with other events. This way when the weekend gets here you have plenty of time to do what you want. Split the chores up and make sure both partners are carrying their weight and you will now be wondering what to do that is fun.

Get Some Culture.

Relationship are build on similar likes and dislikes at the start. As we mature though these things might change a little and your relationship needs to chage with them. For instance you might have enjoyed punk rock music as a teenager when you and your sweety started dating. Now that you are 30 years old that might not be a common interest between the two of you. As we get older we need to find new things that we can add to our relationship to keep us connected. I want to challenge you to find some other culture to add to your relationship as it blossoms. Go see a syphony or a broadway show. Eat at some different types of resturants, or try something you have never tried together. Take a white water rafting trip or bike down a mountain. When you complete each new adventure assess it and see if it is something you might want to do again. You might find out you really hate it but unless you try you don't know that for sure. Find out what other couples are doing and get some ideas from them, you might even find something you can do together such as sailing or rock climbing. The possiblities are endless and so will be your love if you keep it fresh.

Shedding some light on...

I would like to shed some light on a post for earlier. I recently did a post that prosed the questions is there room for fetishes in a relationship? Well I think I need to explain fetish a little more because I have recently learned a little more about the subject of fetishes. First of all I originally believed that if you had fantasies about women in leather or being tied up that you had a fetish. I understand now that a fetish is so much more then that. A fetish is a need, and without that need you cannot orgasm. If spanking is your fetish then you would need to be spanked before you could ever consider getting off. With this new understanding I realize now that most of the things people call fetishes are really just things they like to do. Now when your husband asks you to wear that leather cat woman outfit sometimes you will know that he just likes to see you in it, but if you have to wear it every time you are going to be intimate then you are dealing with a fetish.